Men: Once a woman walks out of your life, she should never find her way back into your life. An ex should remain an ex. And here is why an ex should remain an ex, what a woman does after a breakup: 1. Cries - sympathy mongering, whether she was the one in the wrong or not, she still has to appear as the victim 2. Fvcks another dude - this is her revenge, inorder to feel good about herself and forget about you, she has to fvck another dude 3. Blames the ex for fvcking another dude - she doesn't want to admit she may be a hoe, so she blames her actions on her ex 4. Fvcks another dude - at this point she is in her hoe phase, she will rackup a massive body count 5. The streets are done with her - she realizes the streets are cold, all those options she thought she had only wanted to smash, nothing more 6. Starts regretting - it dawns on her that she might have actually made a mistake walking away from a guy who was actually serious about her 7. Starts stalking the ex - she will assess if the ex has moved on, even if he has, she will still try her luck and try to sneak her way into his life 8. The idiot accepts her back - he is still stuck on the memories they shared and he thinks she returned because he's the best she ever had. But alas, it's because he's the safe option, who can save her 9. They live happily ever after - yes life goes on as if she never racked up a massive body count during the breakup phase Men, don't be foolish enough to take back a woman who walked out of your life. When women get out of a serious relationship, they fuck around a lot for a while, in the name of revenge and finding themselves. Whatever version that comes back into your life isn't the original version you had, at most you're getting damaged goods Class Dismissed. Ame Rix #highlightseveryone #alphabetchallenge #RemainHumble #RemainAman #masculinity #alphamale #SaveAman #alphamindset #remaxhustle #FocusChallenge Copied

Sometimes silent is never an answer to a fool, you need to talk sense into his skull

don’t love too soon. don’t trust too fast. don’t quit too early. don’t expect too high. don’t talk too much.

➡️ In 2017: Arturo Vidal posted a photo with the text: "Rest easy, my children, Dad has to work and take Chile to the World Cup." ❌ CHILE WAS ELIMINATED FROM THE WORLD CUP. ➡️ In 2019: Before the Copa América semifinals against Peru, he declared: "Playing against Peru won’t be as tough as if we had to face Uruguay." ❌ CHILE WAS ELIMINATED 3-0 BY PERU. ➡️ In 2020: Before the quarter-finals against Bayern Munich, he declared: "Bayern knows they're not playing against a Bundesliga team tomorrow; they're playing against Barça." ❌ FC BARCELONA WAS THRASHED 8-2 AND ELIMINATED. ➡️ In 2021: Before a match against Real Madrid, he declared: "I spent two years at Barça, and matches against Madrid are always the best. I’ll celebrate a win with Inter and also with the people of Barcelona." ❌ INTER WAS ELIMINATED. ➡️ In 2022: He declared about qualifying for the World Cup: "For everyone talking about us not going to the Qatar World Cup, we will go and shut many mouths." ❌ CHILE WAS ELIMINATED FROM THE WORLD CUP. ➡️ In 2023: He attended the Club World Cup and declared: "Madrid, we’re going to break your back." ❌ FLAMENGO WAS ELIMINATED IN THE SEMIS. ➡️ In 2024: Before the Superclásico against U: "You can’t lose to U, I hope we never lose the classic." ❌ COLO COLO LOST THE CLASSIC. ➡️ In 2024: Before the quarter-finals against River, he declared: "The prettiest goal I scored at Colo Colo was against Alianza Lima, but the one on Tuesday will be even prettier." ❌ COLO COLO WAS ELIMINATED. That's why you shouldn't speak too soon 😬🤣

When you don't have money people will not know you but when you have money the will start to talk about you

Yes, am talking to you Yoy can do it

TRAITS IN A WOMAN THAT ATTRACT A MAN 1. GENTLENESS A woman who doesn't love drama, one who is inviting and peaceful. Men gravitate to where there is peace 2. CONFIDENCE A woman who knows who she is; she acts, talks and dresses like the Queen that she is. She is not hiding behind him. She is powerful all by herself. Confidence is attractive and sexy 3. GOOD COMMUNICATION A woman who knows how to talk, she is friendly, funny and speaks with the right tone. She is not rude, insulting or irrational. She is easy to talk to. It makes him miss her when apart 4. VALUES A woman with her own stand. She has her set of beliefs and is not easily swayed by friends, trends, social media, moods or the chase for attention 5. NURTURING WAYS A woman who grows people and grows things. She adds value and makes things better. She manages well 6. SELF LOVE A woman who loves herself. She has a healthy self-esteem. She is not insecure, suspecting every woman who interacts with her man. She is not intimidated by other women, she knows her worth 7. PURPOSE-DRIVEN A woman who has her own personal dreams and goals. She is hardworking. She has something she loves to do that fires her up. She is busy being her 8. ENGAGING PERSONALITY A woman who is not passive, waiting for the man to do everything as she complains when he doesn't. She is a life partner, playing her role. Helping in making decisions, seeking opportunities, participating. A man loves a woman to walk hand in hand 9. PATIENCE A woman who knows she will not get everything she desires immediately. She doesn't put pressure on him. She celebrates growth no matter how small 10. DEPTH A woman who can challenge him and inspire him. He listens to her talk and goes "Wow!". A woman who is not materialistic, she values even more hearts, soul, life and love 11. THOUGHTFULNESS A woman who is not about "Me! Me! Me!" but who also considers him and his feelings. A woman who makes him feel thought of and who is appreciative .

Walk, talk, eat how you want to be addressed. Boss it up to level up unless you're just fine with where you're at.

Sometime last year, this woman that I know to a large extent was passing my restaurant with a man. She saw me, stopped and was dragging the man playfully that he should come let them eat at my place, that my food is nice. (she laughs a lot and is very free by nature) This man rebuffed her like a child saying, paraphrased “na anywhere you see you go wan enter? If you no fit hold yourself, dey go, you go meet me for house” I wish I was making this post as a video, maybe I would be able to explain with the actual demonstration and face expression on this man’s face. You would think he’s talking to a five year old. I felt embarrassed for her, and a little bad that they didn’t come to eat that day, but I shrugged it off. She on the other hand just stylishly said they will come another time, while laughing and placing her hand on his shoulder as they walked away. *** For context, she’s a single mother. Her husband died years ago, so I believe this is a new relationship as I’ve not seen her with any man till that day. I had to bring up the above 👆🏻 in order for you to understand better my experience day before yesterday’s night. So on Tuesday Night, this lady and the man walked into my restaurant. They asked what I had and I told them. Then the man asked the lady to choose for him. She chose Native soup. Next thing this man said something in Igbo (of course not knowing I’m Igbo) which is weird cos the name of my restaurant would give anyone an idea. He said “do these people know how to cook soup, let alone native soup. That who knows how it will even taste. That it’s not to decorate a place that is the issue, but for the food to have taste, not this nonsense they cook” I don’t even know what he meant by “they” or where he assumed I was from. And the way he said this, very very condescending! The woman started telling him in hush tone that he shouldn’t have said that. He should have waited to taste the food first. I ignored and simply told them the price of food plus that they will have to pay before I serve. He started ranting again. That why would he pay for something he hasn’t seen, then asking the lady if that’s how we do here. The lady gave me sign of “I should please serve and not worry” I could tell she was embarrassed and being that I know her to her house, I made an exception. I served them food. I had actually thought it was the lady who was eating so I placed it before her. They eyes he gave me eh. The lady just moved the tray to him and now said she wanted pepper soup and malt. He angrily told her to eat what he’s eating. She argued that it’s late and she doesn’t want to eat fufu at night. He then told her to starve then as he’s not buying anything else. All these transpired in Igbo. Dear God, was I boiling inside 🤦🏼‍♀️ But I kept my cool of course. I’ve had my share of very rude customers, just that I was feeling for the lady. She had no choice than to join him to eat. When it was time to pay, he started complaining about the price. How he won’t come back if I don’t give him discount (remember I made the price known from onset o) When he saw I wasn’t responding, he brought out cash. I stood up to collect it, he took it back. Said he would transfer, I called account for him, it didn’t go through. He started telling the lady to pay, she said she wasn’t with cash and didn’t bring her phone. He said he needed to use the cash and couldn’t give it to me. Omo eh… Eventually, he gave me the cash as he didn’t see any other way forward. The lady told me thank you in Igbo and that I am doing well. I responded in Igbo too and he then said “so she’s Igbo and acting like oyibo” The way he even refers to me like I’m not there is what’s funny. What brought about this post is that when they were leaving, the woman came back to apologize. Telling me I shouldn’t mind him and all he did, that it’s how he is. I then asked “why be with someone who constantly disrespects and embarrasses you, especially in public” she said it’s cos he’s trying financially. That he just paid all her children’s school fees, so the load has been lifted off of her a little. I told her it’s well as she joyfully left. Like this lady is so full of joy and laughter that I don’t feel she deserves him. But who am I to have a say. He’s probably great in many other areas I’m not seeing so I wish them well. #myrestaurauntseries #portharcourtfoodvendor #ofeakwuboss

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