I have watched you grow up to become this amazing man, and your wedding is a dream coming true. Much love to you two.

A match made in Abia

It was a sunny day in Umuahia, the capital city of Abia State, when Eme and Ike first met. Eme, a beautiful young woman with a bright smile, had attended a party with her friends. Ike, a handsome young man with a charming personality, had also been invited to the party.

As fate would have it, Eme and Ike bumped into each other while dancing. They exchanged apologies, and Ike couldn't help but notice how beautiful Eme looked. Eme, too, was struck by Ike's charming smile.

They started talking, and before long, they discovered they had a lot in common. Both were from Abia State, and they shared a love for afang soup and highlife music. Ike was impressed by Eme's intelligence and wit, while Eme was charmed by Ike's sense of humor and confidence.

As the night wore on, they found themselves lost in conversation. Ike asked Eme for her number, and to his delight, she agreed. They exchanged numbers, and Ike couldn't wait to call her the next day.

Their first date was a walk along the banks of the Imo River. They talked for hours, sharing stories and laughter. Ike was smitten, and Eme felt the same way.

As the days turned into weeks, their love continued to grow. They would take long drives through the countryside, visit local markets, and try out new restaurants. Ike loved Eme's cooking, and Eme loved Ike's singing.

One day, Ike took Eme to the same river where they had their first date. He got down on one knee, pulled out a small box, and asked Eme to marry him. Eme was overwhelmed with emotion, but she managed to say yes.

Their wedding was a beautiful celebration of their love, with friends and family from all over Abia State in attendance. They spent their honeymoon in a cozy little cottage in the hills, watching the sunset over the rolling hills.

Years later, Ike and Eme are still going strong. They have two beautiful children, and they continue to live in Abia State, surrounded by the people and places they love.

1. Welcome to Nigeria where the husband is called BABY and the son is called DADDY.

2. Welcome to Nigeria where wedding must be on Saturday.

3. Welcome to Nigeria where Car keys and iPhone don't enter pocket.

4 Welcome to Nigeria where it's easy for your relatives to contribute money for your burial but difficult to raise money to help you start-up a business.

5. Welcome to Nigeria where you will open fridge and see ice cream container with egusi soup inside.

6. Welcome to Nigeria where people buy dog and name it tiger.

7. Welcome to Nigeria.. A country where a married man will still complain that his girlfriend is cheating on him.

8. Welcome to Nigeria where barbers display pictures of hairstyle they can't even barb!

9. Welcome to NIGERIA where all DETERGENTS are called OMO.

10. Welcome to Nigeria where all noodles are called indomie.

11. Welcome to Nigeria where one medicine cures all sicknesses.

12. Welcome to Nigeria where a rich hausa man is called 'Alhaji' while a poor hausa man is called Aboki

13 Welcome to Nigeria where young boys spray their hair white colour and old men dye their hair black
14 welcome to Nigeria where I have made you laughso hard and If you don't bless me with a follow, you must be my village pipu . please bless me with a follow.

6 DIFFERENT KINDS OF BRIDES/GROOMS AND WHAT TO EXPECT ON THE WEDDING NIGHT...

FOR THE BRIDES...

1. The uncircumcised non-virgin.

2. The circumcised non virgin.

3. The uncircumcised virgin.

4. The circumcised virgin.

5. The 25 years old anqd below virgins.

6. The 26 years old and above virgins.

FOR THE GROOMS...

1. The virgin.

2. The non-virgin

3. The one with a small penis.

4. The one with an average penis.

5. The one with extra large penis.

6. The one with an history of addictive masturbation, pornography, erectile dysfunction (ED)/impotence, etc.

Sex is part of the reason we get married and God wants us to enjoy sex to the maximum! You won't enjoy sex if you don't know how to have sex though Many years of premarital sexual experience not withstanding, if you don't know how to have MARITAL sex, not illicit or stolen sex, your marital sex life will be frustrating.

I often hear ugly, frustrating sex from honeymoon into several decades of marriage and I am not happy each time I hear them. This could easily be averted if you are properly taught and coached on how to enjoy a stress free, blissful marital sex life from your wedding day forward!

That's why I wrote SEX SWEET SEX! And PASSIONATE LOVE MAKING FOR NEW BEGINNERS.

If you are about to marry and scared of what your wedding night might be or you've been married for years and you are not enjoying sweet love making in your marriage or you know young people about to wed who need adequate knowledge in this regard or couples struggling sexually and need help, please recommend these two books to them, they desperately need them and surely! They will come back with their tank full of testimonies!

May your marital sex life be delicious!

© Seun Oladele

Can’t believe my sister is on her way to being a bride! I wish you a happy engagement and a lovely wedding. Sending love and blessings.

THE SILENT BATTLE OF LOW SELF-ESTEEM ROBBED TOLU THE LOVE OF A REAL MAN

Find out how not to make the same mistake.

Tolu sat on the edge of the bed, staring at her reflection in the mirror. The woman looking back at her had tired eyes, a forced smile, and a heart full of doubts.

Daniel, her fiancé, had just sent her a sweet message about their upcoming wedding, but instead of feeling joy, she felt unworthy.

"What does he even see in me?" she whispered to herself.

Growing up, Tolu was never the most beautiful or the smartest.

She was the quiet girl in the corner, the one who never believed she was enough.

Her father’s harsh words still echoed in her mind "You're too clumsy, Tolu. Who will even marry you?"

Even when Daniel came into her life, showering her with love, her past wounds whispered that it was only a matter of time before he saw the truth: that she was not worth loving.

It started subtly. She would brush off his compliments, thinking he was just being nice.

When he held her close, she tensed, believing he would one day let go. And then, without realizing it, she began sabotaging their love.

"Why do you love me, Daniel? There are better women out there," she blurted out one evening.
Daniel sighed, holding her hands. "Because you're kind, you're beautiful, and you make me happy."

She pulled away. "No, I'm not. I'm not enough for you."

Days turned into weeks, and Tolu’s self-doubt became a wall between them.

Every time Daniel reassured her, she found a reason to disbelieve him.

She avoided dates, rejected his affection, and convinced herself that he would eventually leave. And one day, after another argument fueled by her insecurities, he did.

As she watched him walk away, her heart shattered. Not because he didn’t love her, but because she had never learned to love herself.

Low self-esteem doesn’t just affect how you see yourself—it affects how you love and how you receive love. It creates fear where there should be trust, distance where there should be intimacy.

If you’ve ever felt like Tolu, it’s time to break the cycle.

You deserve love—not just from someone else, but from yourself.

Join THE WAITLIST FOR THE COURSE HOW TO DEAL WITH LOW SELF-ESTEEM AND BECOME PRODUCTIVE and learn how to embrace your worth so you don’t push love away when it comes knocking.

Because love can’t fill the spaces only self-worth can.

Are you ready to heal? Take the first step by joining the wait-list. All other information would be communicated in the group.
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Being engaged means getting ready to answer the question “When’s the wedding?” anyways, congratulations on preparing for a lifetime of war!

Wedding guest

RELATIONSHIP COACH MARRIAGE THERAPIST

√THE DIFFERENT STAGES OF MARRIAGE...
For you Learn Read and Know

1. THE AMAZEMENT STAGE: This is the "wow" stage. Lots of new things to discover with your spouse. The newness, the freshness is so amazing. Sleeping on the same bed, wearing the same attire, cooking for him, doing house chores with her, bathing together. Wearing your dazzling wedding ring everywhere, turning people's head at the newest couple around. Loads and lots of fun. Sexual exploration and excitement. Being in control of your kitchen, feeding him and lots more. It's the honeymoon stage and it's so so beautiful.

2. THE IRRITATION STAGE: This is when you begin to notice weaknesses you have overlooked or blissfully wish they go away but didn't. The repetition of such weaknesses begins to work on your nerves and you are getting irritated: he snores a lot, she is slow in the kitchen, she belches loudly, he screams unnecessarily, she won't bathe before coming to bed or shave, he spends many hours watching football and ignores you when you talk. "What's just wrong with this guy?" You think aloud, well it's part of marriage.

3. THE ANGER STAGE: This is when the repetition of such weaknesses gets on your nerves and you display your anger. The introverted partners stuffs it in and either keep malice, avoid you or stubbornly continue with the irritating habit. It's the stage you begin to wonder: "have I really married the wrong guy?" "Have I married the wrong woman?" No, you did not, you are simply going through a phase together.

4. THE RESSOLUTION STAGE: When you both begin to face the reality of marriage and acknowledge your partner's weaknesses. You eventually realize anger and malice does not solve any problem and begins to find ways to deal with your differences, both of you begin to compromise here and there and adjust to each other.

5. THE ACCEPTANCE STAGE: When it dawned on you that some things are just part of your partner and may never change till Jesus comes. You resigned from anger, abuse and quarrel and choose to accept them, lovingly adjust to them and enjoy them regardless of their weaknesses.

6. THE RESTUL STAGE:This îs the stage you permanently accept them with all their strengths, weaknesses, short comings and flaws and love them unconditionally regardless of what they do. This is real love -agape,, divine and true. You reconnect emotionally, spiritually and physically at a deeper level and enjoy honey moon again while building a lasting marriage regardless of the challenges you face.

There is no perfect marriage. Every marriage goes through this stages. How you handle it will determine if you will come out bitter or better.

You don't have to àbuse your spouse or keep malice if Christ is at the centre of your home and you obey the word of God daily.

Nevertheless, do not be disappointed if you go through the unpleasant stages in marriage. It is a phase and will surely ènd.

Handle your marriage with wisdom and keep loving regardless of the challenges you face. That is what will make your marriage a Heaven on earth experience.

Happy wedding anniversary brother and sister-in-law. Wishing you a joyful life together.