UNDERSTANGING YOUR MAN'S EMOTIONS...

Men don't cry, they get angry instead. The society has taught men that it is unmanly to weep. Boys are ordered to keep quiet at their tender age and bottle their frustrations. It's okay for girls to cry but men, nay! Yet, there is healing power in crying but which man wants to appear like a weakling in public? Only Jesus could do that. "Jesus wept!"

Yet, your man goes through a lot, yes a lot! The society makes men look like statues who must not express any form of emotion except when they want séx yet emotion must be properly expressed if not, it results to anger that is why some men get angry all the time.

Your man gets angry a lot because that is the only way he could express his frustrations which you are refusing to come to terms with or understand.

He goes through pains. He goes through rejection. He has fear. Plenty fears: fear of rejection, fear of losing his job, fear of losing you, fear of losing his authority as the head, fear of not being able to provide for you, etc.

When he goes through financial difficulty and you are expecting him to be tender, he may be angry instead, not at you but at his inability to provide.

Lots of crises happen in so many homes because some women do not understand their husband's anger. Most times, you are not the one he is angry at really, it is the situation, the problem he seems very powerless to solve! If you do not have a large heart, you may take his anger personal, like some women do; abuse, fight, criticize, judge and the man may react by transferring his anger to you.

When your man is angry, relax. Show compassion, talk softly, try to find out what is really bothering him before taking unnecessary actions that may ruin your home.

Have you wondered why some women get pregnant every year and give birth to lots of children despite living in abject poverty? Lack of money equals impotence to a man. It is like castrating him, he seeks more assurance and self worth from his wife through love making -it also helps him ease off lots of tension and frustration. Although, you will do well to plan your family, having more than enough children you can comfortably take care of will further compound your problem!

Your husband may want more sex in challenging times. Making love to you reassures him that he is still needed, wanted, valued, respected and honored. Rejecting him is k1lling his self esteem, it is painful to a man. It is the reason lots of men get angry at their wives for consistently refusing them sèx.

Men needs lots of love, affection, tenderness, understanding, prayers, mercy and compassion too.

Uneasy lies the head that wears the crown. Leadership calls for lots of responsibilities and the responsibility can weigh a man down if he couldn't meet them. He may react by getting angry, not at you but at the situation.

Don't take his anger personal. Show him understanding, love and compassion instead. Married women should give their men lots of séx, reassurance and admiration during this period. He needs you to make love to him and reassure him of his manhood.

Men will do well not to transfer their anger/aggression on their women. It is uncalled for.

Learn to deal with situations maturely. Do not transfer work/business issues to your marriage or relationships, you will mess things up. Deal with each issue separately.

May the Lord give you the wisdom you need to make your marriage work.

Thanks for reading

Dear CEO,

Come closer, let me tell you something you might not know.

Do you know that the only person that can market your product to your satisfaction, is YOURSELF?

When you rep your brand, with what you sell or do, you attract more people to buy from you.

You see , the way you get people to buy from you, using persuasive strategy, why not channel the same energy into becoming the brand ambassador for your brand before hiring people to modeling your brand for you.

I know you can hire people to model for you, but please, model for yourself first, so that people can get to know your brand and the face behind the brand.

How can you do this?

Get a customized T-shirt with your brand name or what your brand stands for. It doesn't matter weather you sell a physical product or not.

Go to a studio to take a professional picture of it.

Attach the picture with a content to tell people and emphasis more on what you do.

If you sell a physical product, get it so you can showcase what you sell in the pictures so that when people come across it, it won't be far fetched that you're into it and that you're marketing your product.

I hope someone finds this helpful. If you do, let me know your thoughts, in the comment session.

Generally speaking, there are four basic methods of writing.

No matter what you want to write, it will fall under any of these methods.

And in this post, I would like to talk about these four methods of writing.

The first is the narrative method.

The second is the expository method.

The third is the descriptive method.

And the fourth is the persuasive method.

Go and check it; all forms of writing fall on either one or more of these methods.

So, let me explain them one by one.

The first, the narrative method is a method of writing where you narrate a series of events in order of their occurrence.

Majorly, you find this type of writing in storytelling, be it fiction or nonfiction.

The second is the expository method, and it is the type of writing where you explain something that has happened in the past.

This is the type of writing that news websites and blogs use, for they give updates about what has happened in the past.

Also, you can use expository in storytelling if you want to give your readers a bit of backstory of your character.

The third one, which is the descriptive method is a type of writing method where you describe something or an event.

You weave your words in such a way that you paint a clear picture of what you are talking about.

You make the person reading your text have an imaginary picture of whatever you are describing.

You can use descriptive method of writing to describe an event, a place, or a person.

Lastly, the persuasive method.

This is the type of writing where you persuade someone to take an action.

This type of writing is mostly used in marketing articles like copywriting.

So, basically, the purpose of your writing will determine the method to use.

In addition, a piece of writing can also fall into more than one method of writing.

However, in the case of storytelling, you can use all the methods of writing except the persuasive method.

Also, there is another less popular method, which is the argumentative method.

Mostly, people don't usually use this method of writing frequently, for it is mostly used in writing essays – argumentative essays.

I hope you learn something.

Your talent is God's gift to you and what you do with it, is your gift back to God.

If you're among those people who do not reciprocate the amazing and unique gift from God to them, I just want to remind you that, you are oweing God.

Matthew 25:14_ To one he gave five talents, to another two, to another one, to each according to his ability. Then he went away.

The parable of the talents, unveils to humanity that God exhud talents and potential to us according to our ability, expecting that we unleash them excellently to his glory.

Allow those talents embedded in you by God to find expression.
Maximize them effectively.

Do not be like the servant that buried his talent.

Remember maximizing your talent, is your gift back to God

Do you know you can create your wealth with the power of positive thinking?

The ability to think positively is essential for generating wealth. It broadens your perspective to draw abundance into your life.

The Law of Attraction states that we can attract into our lives whatever we focus on.

You will have a positive life and get favourable outcomes if you concentrate on positive thoughts and feelings. Conversely, if negativity becomes part of you, you will attract negative experiences.

A positive mindset that is in line with your goals and the life you desire are necessary for your attraction to wealth.

How to attract wealth with positive thoughts:

1: 𝐕𝐢𝐬𝐮𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧

Vision helps you navigate your reality. It fills your body with light.

An old rabbi said, "The eye is the lamp of the body. If your vision is clear, your whole body will be full of light." What you see, you become. Your vision improves your life.

2: 𝐆𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐝𝐞

When you consistently appreciate all that you have, it opens doors to receiving more. New opportunities will come your way.

3: 𝐓𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐢𝐧 𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐞𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐠𝐨𝐚𝐥𝐬

Practical steps are crucial for your financial growth. You achieve your goals by outlining your financial goals, setting a deadline, creating a budget, making a plan, and acting on them.

4: 𝐇𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐚𝐧 𝐮𝐧𝐥𝐢𝐦𝐢𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐛𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐟 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐧

Have faith in your ability to fulfil your financial plan. By doing this, you're opening up new avenues for financial success.

5: 𝐒𝐮𝐫𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐮𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞

Your life is impacted by the people you move with. Having positive and supportive people in your life can push you to reach your financial goals.

Having a clear vision, being grateful, taking action, wearing an unlimited mindset, and surrounding yourself with like-minded individuals enable you to harness positive thinking to draw in wealth and abundance.

For there's a cost for every life chosen to live
A man is born with a dutiful living.
A marketable material.

There's a cost to be a righteous man, so is a man who chose to be ungodly.
A criminal knows what he/she faces in order to steal.
What of prostitutes? None of them found it easy.
When we talk about someone being righteous, or wants to become, the cost here is just like the young man who asked Jesus what he needs to do to get the kingdom of God. He was asked to sell all he has and give them out and come follow Christ Jesus.

We cannot be looking back and front at the same time and proclaimed we are followers of Christ.

If there's no need to go back, there's no need to look back.
This is the cost we need to pay.
The price for life you're living now is not inexpensive. So,
Why not choose wisely?

HOW TO HANDLE FIGHTS IN A RELATIONSHIP.

1. Know that it is normal for two people in love to disagree, offend each other, fall short, or misunderstand each other

2. Always remember how much you love and need each other. Remembering this will give you the incentive to resolve any conflict between you two. Don't throw away true love because of a passing storm

3. Know each other's temperaments. If you are a hot-tempered person, tell your partner/spouse so that your partner/spouse will prepare incase you spark off. But work on your temper still

4. Agree how to handle fights before fights emerge. A nation develops a constitution to guide its operation, partners/spouses agree on what to do to guide in relations

5. Don't let the fear of fighting or disagreeing with your partner/spouse keep you two from confronting each other and expressing your feelings. Too many are tired, bored, frustrated or angry in their relationship/marriage but pretend all is well because they are afraid of talking about heavy and uneasy stuff with their partner. Slowly their relationship/marriage collapses, you can't pretend for long

6. Before you confront and blame your partner/spouse, analyze the situation and see if you have played a role in causing the problem

7. When a fight between you two is approaching or something happens that inflames tempers, walk away, cool off. Don't talk in anger. Cool down then talk rationally

8. Remember you are in the same team. Fighting your partner/spouse is fighting what you two have, which in effect is fighting yourself

9. Avoid insults. Hold and control your tongue, hurtful words only complicate matters, once they are spoken they can't be taken back

10. Don't be tempted to use the information your partner/spouse shared with you in trust to get your way. Don't use the secrets your partner/spouse shared with you to attack or intimidate your partner/spouse

11. Don't disclose matters to a third party. Solve the matter the two of you. Don't gossip about the short comings of your partner/spouse to your family or friends. Don't air your dirty linen in public. Cover each other from outsiders as you two remain naked to each other

12. Pray together. Prayer clears up the air, restores love and order, brings unity of purpose and reminds you that God is watching and you both are God's children

13. When talking about the matter, fully talk about it, look for its root cause, lay everything on the table. A problem that is not fully addressed or understood will keep recurring

14. Give each other a chance to speak. None should feel silenced

15. Be mindful of your body language. You may not insult but your partner/spouse is paying attention to your body language. Don't sneer, click or show contempt

16. Never use your child/children to settle scores in a cold war with each other. You are both loved the same by the child/children

17. Conclude the matter quickly. The longer tension exists between you two, the more dangerous it grows

18. Accept responsibility. Being mature doesn't mean you won't do wrong or fall short; it means that when you do mess you are wise enough to apologize. Say sorry if you are on the wrong, forgive when you are wronged

19. Come up with a way forward to prevent the matter from happening again or from causing much damage in the future

20. Hug. Kiss. Make up. Make love

21. Laugh about it. Find comedy in your difficult times. No storm lasts always. You two will come out through it closer and stronger. Stay focused, your love is worth fighting for, not fighting each other

5 Tips to Train Yourself to Think Positively
Notice and reframe negative thoughts. At first, you may not even be aware of your negative thoughts. ...
Practice gratitude. Take time to acknowledge the good things in your life. ...
Be kind to yourself. ...
Do something good for others. ...
Laugh!

The time to monetize your gifts is NOW.

What can you do TODAY?

1️⃣ Sell what you know: Turn what you know into eBooks, courses, or coaching.

2️⃣ Monetize your skills: Are you good at writing, cooking or you have a solution to a problem? Package and sell it.

3️⃣ Start small, grow BIG: Don’t wait for perfection; start with what you have, where you are.

Your Potentials are your profits, utilize them to level up financially

We Were Supposed To Be Examples:

Beacons of light meant to guide the wandering souls on the EARTH
A Living reflection of the virtues that heaven extols, especially when it relates to our HEALTH
Using our blueprints of faith and strength the world is consoled through us by his BREATH
Because we are called to inspire, uplift, and make the broken whole,

Yes we are all examples,
We are pioneers walking the paths of grace, unshaken by STRIFE,
We are models of courage carefully radiating our purpose in LIFE,
we are living testimonies, cutting through the world's bitter KNIFE,
And Symbols of hope, restoring meaning where despair is RIFE.

Yet, so many have lost their light, as it's now dimmed and LOW,
Now blinded by fleeting pleasures, forgetting what they OWN,
Trading their eternal purpose for dark shadows that will not make them GROW,
Failing to lead, even though they have being chosen to guide the SHOW.

So many have abandoned their call, just caught in the world's DISGUISE,
Living for applause while feeding on the world’s wisdom and LIES,
Forgetting that as examples, their heart should be lifted up only to the SKIES,
And not on other things leaving them and others stumbling, unable to RISE.

Because when men who are examples fail, destinies are left UNFOUND,
So many lives lose direction while hope fades without a SOUND.
So let us remember that in our walk, one's purpose must also ABOUND,
For men as example shape the world, especially when their meaning is crowned.