Dont beg for friendship or relationship if you dont get the same effort you put in cut it off

Marriage does not guarantee you will be together forever, it’s only paper. It takes love, respect, trust, understanding, friendship and faith in your relationship to make it last.

Don't call her your woman until you officially marry her... Men My neighbor begged me to lend him 10k to give his girlfriend to fix her phone. I asked him; " why don't you tell your girlfriend that you are broke and can't afford 10k at the moment?" He replied that he don't want her to be angry and dump him His answer was too funny to me, after laughing out loud , I simply told him that I don't have 10k to give him. He left with annoyance and I could see disappointments written on his face. When he left, I pondered on this and asked some rhetorical questions; Let's assume that my girlfriend is broke and couldn't fix her phone, then I couldn't help her fix it because I am also broke. Why would she be angry with me for being broke when she is also broke ? Why should my own brokenness give her serious concern when she should concentrate on solving hers? Is she indirectly blaming me for being the cause of her brokenness simply because I am her boyfriend? If she can't endure with me in my temporal brokenness, how will she be able to face marital challenges with me in the future? Being broke doesn't automatically make you a poor man. There is nothing wrong with you for being broke even billionaires experience brokenness once in a while . It is not something you should be ashamed of. The reasons you ventured into a committed relationship are; to check your compatibilities, to test her loyalty and sincerity and to make her know your dons and don'ts Her characters will determine where to place her; whether she belongs to the streets or to be domesticated. Yes, we are meant to help ourselves but not to your own detriments. At this stage, she is not yet your responsibility. Whatever you are doing for her is a PRIVILEGE not her RIGHT . Any woman whom you have not officially married, is not your woman. Don't call her your woman until you pay her bride price because she still have right to flirt with other men without breaking any law. Don't allow her problems to cause you headache when you have yours. . Assist her if you can but don't put yourself into debts to impress her Money can't keep her, . Your sacrifices are nothing to her, women are loyal to their feelings and their feelings are unstable Stop running helter skelter to help her, she will still dump you without having a second thought. Be wise Don't looseguard.

How to Deal with Failure and Bounce Back Stronger Failure is a part of life. Whether it’s in business, relationships, or personal goals, everyone faces setbacks. What truly matters is how you respond to them. Here are some simple ways to deal with failure and come back stronger than ever. 1. Accept Your Feelings It’s okay to feel disappointed, frustrated, or even angry when you fail. Don’t try to ignore these emotions. Instead, take time to process them. This is the first step toward healing and moving forward. 2. Learn from the Experience Failure is a teacher in disguise. Ask yourself, “What went wrong? What can I do differently next time?” Every failure comes with lessons that can help you grow. 3. Focus on What You Can Control Sometimes, failure happens because of things beyond your control. Instead of dwelling on the “what ifs,” focus on what you can change. Taking small steps can rebuild your confidence. 4. Stay Positive Remind yourself that failure doesn’t define you. Many successful people failed countless times before they achieved greatness. Use affirmations and surround yourself with supportive people who lift your spirits. 5. Take Action Once you’ve reflected and learned, it’s time to act. Set new goals and work toward them with a fresh mindset. Remember, failure is not the end—it’s just a detour on your journey to success. 6. Celebrate Small Wins Even small achievements matter. Celebrate your progress, no matter how minor it seems. This builds momentum and keeps you motivated. Final Thoughts Failure is not the opposite of success—it’s part of it. Each setback is an opportunity to grow, improve, and try again. By learning to embrace failure and bounce back, you’ll become stronger, wiser, and ready for even greater challenges ahead.

In order to accomplish something, you must be willing to do whatever it takes to accomplish it. When it comes to getting results, intention is more important than action. What you make up your mind to do is more important than what you actually do. You must recognize that youalone are the source of all the conditions and situations in your life. You must recognize that whatever your world looks like right now, youalone have caused it to look that way. The state of your health, your finances, your personal relationships, your professional life all of it is your doing, yours and no one else’s.

Before NYSC 1. Get your statement of results 2. Request your academic transcript or download the one on your portal and merge it into a PDF. 3. Request for proof of English as the language of instruction in your university (letter from the registrar's office). 4. Ensure that you have a good relationship with at least 3 lecturers. Done and dusted is dangerous!!!! You are not done until you are done. During NYSC 1. Write standardized exams in line with your next phase of life (GRE, TOEFL, GMAT, etc) Note: The US embassy in Nigeria funds some of these through the opportunity fund program. 2. Explore professional training and certifications (ICAN, NIM etc). 3. Do not ignore the opportunity to Intern (research assistantship, Ass. QC analysts, etc). 4. Explore Opportunities (some described below). A. Scholarships Local: BEA, OFP (US embassy), NNPC, Shell, etc. Regional: Pan African University Scholarship etc. International: Chevening, Commonwealth, MasterCard etc. Institutional: Vice Chancellor scholarships, sports or art scholarships etc. NOTE: If the International scholarship is your choice, no one needs your NYSC certificate before you can start applying. B. Grants Regional: Tony Elumelu Foundation Grant.... International: Geneva Challenge....... C. Fellowships (No international trip during NYSC, don't forget ☺️) D. Conferences (No international trip during NYSC don't forget ☺️) 5. Let your CDS contribution be remarkable (a recommendation letter acknowledging your role will be important). 6. Don't run with the multitude, realities after NYSC differ. 7. Don't be under pressure (After NYSC what Next???), You may hasten yourself to many errors. 8. Grow yourself in Welcoming rejections, you may get a few while applying. 9. Apply as much as you can 10. Pray as much as you can. Note: Create two CVs (one academic and one general). It helps to maximize your applications. After NYSC If you haven't accomplished any of the above, 1. Be truthful to yourself (Are you willing to stay in the state of deployment or go back home?) 2. Resist pressure (Being alive is more important than anything else, don't let anyone overpush you). 3. Develop a mindset that no one owes you anything (It helps in managing disappointment). 4. Identify platforms where legal opportunities are shared. A. LinkedIn B. Twitter C. Opportunity desk D. Opportunity for Africans E. Scholarship hub. Etc. 5. While applying and waiting, get yourself busy 1. Write a manuscript from your undergraduate project 2. Submit conference abstracts 3. Register with an organization (volunteer) and start gathering experience. 4. Start learning a hands-on skill that you may need later in life. Could also be digital training in Bioinformatics, data science, AI, ML, Coding, Programming, etc. If all of these fail???? Keep trying! You only need one major opportunity! When it comes, you'll forget the days of pains Let that keep you motivated. Written by afolayan Samuel The Lord is helping us!!!🙏🙏 Follow this page for more

Healthy relationships are not boring, you just want to cheat because there’s no love no more! Remember love is exciting don’t loose your partner trust (that part of the excitement)

Any relationship can be healthy no matter how crazy they both are as long as they see eye to eye!

Leadership and Personal Growth 1. _Developing Emotional Intelligence_: How to develop self-awareness, empathy, and social skills. 2. _Building Confidence and Self-Esteem_: Strategies for building confidence and self-esteem. 3. _Effective Communication Skills_: How to communicate effectively and build strong relationships. 4. _Leadership Skills for Success_: How to develop leadership skills and achieve success. 5. _Cultivating a Growth Mindset_: How to develop a growth mindset and achieve your goals. Overcoming Obstacles 1. _Overcoming Anxiety and Depression_: Strategies for managing anxiety and depression. 2. _Building Resilience in the Face of Adversity_: How to develop resilience and bounce back from adversity. 3. _Coping with Stress and Burnout_: Tips for managing stress and avoiding burnout. 4. _Overcoming Self-Doubt and Imposter Syndrome_: Strategies for building confidence and overcoming self-doubt. 5. _Finding Purpose and Meaning in Life_: How to discover your purpose and live a fulfilling life.