RELATIONSHIP COACH MARRIAGE THERAPIST

√THE DIFFERENT STAGES OF MARRIAGE...
For you Learn Read and Know

1. THE AMAZEMENT STAGE: This is the "wow" stage. Lots of new things to discover with your spouse. The newness, the freshness is so amazing. Sleeping on the same bed, wearing the same attire, cooking for him, doing house chores with her, bathing together. Wearing your dazzling wedding ring everywhere, turning people's head at the newest couple around. Loads and lots of fun. Sexual exploration and excitement. Being in control of your kitchen, feeding him and lots more. It's the honeymoon stage and it's so so beautiful.

2. THE IRRITATION STAGE: This is when you begin to notice weaknesses you have overlooked or blissfully wish they go away but didn't. The repetition of such weaknesses begins to work on your nerves and you are getting irritated: he snores a lot, she is slow in the kitchen, she belches loudly, he screams unnecessarily, she won't bathe before coming to bed or shave, he spends many hours watching football and ignores you when you talk. "What's just wrong with this guy?" You think aloud, well it's part of marriage.

3. THE ANGER STAGE: This is when the repetition of such weaknesses gets on your nerves and you display your anger. The introverted partners stuffs it in and either keep malice, avoid you or stubbornly continue with the irritating habit. It's the stage you begin to wonder: "have I really married the wrong guy?" "Have I married the wrong woman?" No, you did not, you are simply going through a phase together.

4. THE RESSOLUTION STAGE: When you both begin to face the reality of marriage and acknowledge your partner's weaknesses. You eventually realize anger and malice does not solve any problem and begins to find ways to deal with your differences, both of you begin to compromise here and there and adjust to each other.

5. THE ACCEPTANCE STAGE: When it dawned on you that some things are just part of your partner and may never change till Jesus comes. You resigned from anger, abuse and quarrel and choose to accept them, lovingly adjust to them and enjoy them regardless of their weaknesses.

6. THE RESTUL STAGE:This îs the stage you permanently accept them with all their strengths, weaknesses, short comings and flaws and love them unconditionally regardless of what they do. This is real love -agape,, divine and true. You reconnect emotionally, spiritually and physically at a deeper level and enjoy honey moon again while building a lasting marriage regardless of the challenges you face.

There is no perfect marriage. Every marriage goes through this stages. How you handle it will determine if you will come out bitter or better.

You don't have to àbuse your spouse or keep malice if Christ is at the centre of your home and you obey the word of God daily.

Nevertheless, do not be disappointed if you go through the unpleasant stages in marriage. It is a phase and will surely ènd.

Handle your marriage with wisdom and keep loving regardless of the challenges you face. That is what will make your marriage a Heaven on earth experience.

"Self-Control's Mighty Hand"

With iron will, and steadfast heart,
Discipline's power, sets us apart.
It guides our steps, through life's turmoil and strife,
And helps us build, a strong and noble life.

Like a master builder, it constructs our way,
Laying foundations, for a brighter day.
It teaches us patience, persistence and might,
And helps us overcome, the darkness of night.

With discipline's hand, we shape our destiny,
And forge a character, that's strong and free.
It's the voice that whispers, "You can do more,"
And helps us rise, to our highest score.

So let's embrace discipline's mighty hand,
And let it guide us, to a promised land.
For with self-control, we'll achieve our goals,
And stand as champions, with hearts that unfold.

Just in case no one has told you this today,
If you keep telling yourself you can't do something, you are literally stopping yourself from being able to achieve it. Instead of doubting yourself, believe in yourself, back yourself, honor yourself. Stop being so influenced by your own self-doubt and fear.
Go for what you want, stop sabotaging yourself and start discovering all the wonderful things you are capable of. You'll begin to see that all this time you had what it takes and more. I promise it will be worth it. I promise you'll never regret making your own dreams come true.

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RURAL DEVELOPMENT: GOV ENO DIRECTS CONSTRUCTION OF ROAD IN IKONO-UYO

...mourns demise of Obong Ekiko

Governor of Akwa Ibom State, Pastor Umo Eno, has directed the State Ministry of Works to award a contract for the construction of a 5 kilometre road in Ikono Clan, Uyo Local Government Area.

The Governor announced this while addressing sympathisers at the funeral service in honour of late elderstatesman, Obong Cyril Mathew Ekiko, at Primary School grounds, Nung Asang.

Governor Eno explained that the road construction, besides aligning with the rural development thrust of his administration, was to keep faith with the understanding he had with the deceased during his political campaign.

"I didn't know Uyo extends to this area. I would have thought it is Etinan Local Government Area. Be that as it may, I have asked the Ministry of Works to work with you to open up another road here. We are doing two already, but we will try and add one more in honour of your Dad."

He recalled consulting late Obong Cyril Ekiko, a former Member of the Cross River State House of Assembly in the second republic, to canvass support for his election as governor and the elder statesman drew his attention to the non inclusion of indigenes of Ikono Uyo in the State Executive Council since the creation of the State. He informed the people that the area has been fully represented in the new State Exco billed for inauguration on Monday February 24, 2025.

"During our campaign, I remember vividly that I visited the late Obong Ekiko, and one of the things he told me was not to forget Ikono Uyo when I become Governor, that they have not had any member in the State EXCO, either as a Commissioner or Spacial Adviser.

"But I am happy today that even though he wasn't around, we have kept our faith, we have kept the promise. Today, Ikono Uyo has, for the first time, a member in the State Executive Council that will be sworn in on Monday.

He acknowledged that the deceased stood firm in support of truth and condoled the family on the demise of the patriarch, saying that the passing of a loved one evokes painful and emotional feelings and that he, and by extension the people of the State, shared in the sadness and feeling of loss experienced by the family.

Governor Eno urged the family to take solace in the fact that the deceased had laid a solid foundation of growth predicated on excellent pursuit and intellectual curiosity whose candle the survivors should hold admirably to, in order to immortalised him, and prayed for the repose of his soul.

Chief mourner and son of the deceased, Engr. Mbong Ekiko expressed appreciation to the Governor for leading the State delegation to bid farewell to his late father, a gesture which he said culminated to his community benefitting in the rural development drive of the present administration.

Media Unit
Govt. House, Uyo
23/2/25

Why me!!!!!
I am heart broken
Last last
After everything it ended in tears
What did I do to deserve this after all the love I have for you
After all the care u decided to break my heart
Love is wicked I hate hrt break
What did I do to deserve this, is it bad to fall in love, after all the promises u made that u won't hurt me
This man wey dey sell bread close to my house after all I told you about the love I have for bread, you still get mind travel

Amebo see dem as dey focus dey read una too like gossip
Una Good Evening

Don't miss Gods promise

RURAL DEVELOPMENT: GOV ENO DIRECTS CONSTRUCTION OF ROAD IN IKONO-UYO

...mourns demise of Obong Ekiko

Governor of Akwa Ibom State, Pastor Umo Eno, has directed the State Ministry of Works to award a contract for the construction of a 5 kilometre road in Ikono Clan, Uyo Local Government Area.

The Governor announced this while addressing sympathisers at the funeral service in honour of late elderstatesman, Obong Cyril Mathew Ekiko, at Primary School grounds, Nung Asang.

Governor Eno explained that the road construction, besides aligning with the rural development thrust of his administration, was to keep faith with the understanding he had with the deceased during his political campaign.

"I didn't know Uyo extends to this area. I would have thought it is Etinan Local Government Area. Be that as it may, I have asked the Ministry of Works to work with you to open up another road here. We are doing two already, but we will try and add one more in honour of your Dad."

He recalled consulting late Obong Cyril Ekiko, a former Member of the Cross River State House of Assembly in the second republic, to canvass support for his election as governor and the elder statesman drew his attention to the non inclusion of indigenes of Ikono Uyo in the State Executive Council since the creation of the State. He informed the people that the area has been fully represented in the new State Exco billed for inauguration on Monday February 24, 2025.

"During our campaign, I remember vividly that I visited the late Obong Ekiko, and one of the things he told me was not to forget Ikono Uyo when I become Governor, that they have not had any member in the State EXCO, either as a Commissioner or Spacial Adviser.

"But I am happy today that even though he wasn't around, we have kept our faith, we have kept the promise. Today, Ikono Uyo has, for the first time, a member in the State Executive Council that will be sworn in on Monday.

He acknowledged that the deceased stood firm in support of truth and condoled the family on the demise of the patriarch, saying that the passing of a loved one evokes painful and emotional feelings and that he, and by extension the people of the State, shared in the sadness and feeling of loss experienced by the family.

Governor Eno urged the family to take solace in the fact that the deceased had laid a solid foundation of growth predicated on excellent pursuit and intellectual curiosity whose candle the survivors should hold admirably to, in order to immortalised him, and prayed for the repose of his soul.

Chief mourner and son of the deceased, Engr. Mbong Ekiko expressed appreciation to the Governor for leading the State delegation to bid farewell to his late father, a gesture which he said culminated to his community benefitting in the rural development drive of the present administration.

Media Unit
Govt. House, Uyo
23/2/25

Love is a beautiful thing and a fulfill promise from God

James 1:1-3, 12 James, a servant of God and of the Lord Jesus Christ, to the twelve tribes which are scattered abroad, greeting.
My brethren, count it all joy when ye fall into divers temptations;
Knowing this, that the trying of your faith worketh patience.
Blessed is the man that endureth temptation: for when he is tried, he shall receive the crown of life, which the Lord hath promised to them that love him.

James 1:12 Blessed is the man that endureth temptation: for when he is tried, he shall receive the crown of life, which the Lord hath promised to them that love him.