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When it comes to choosing a life partner, people have different criteria.
Some look for beauty, financial stability, social status, spirituality, or intelligence.
Others look out for shared interests, purpose or even tribe.
All of that is good, I'm not against it in anyway, as an adult it's your responsibility to know what you desire and if you're serious about it, you go for it.
Now, because of the nature of my work, I’ve had the privilege of talking to many people about relationships, however, I’ve noticed something, very few people mention what I’m about to share with you.
One of the greatest challenges people face in their relationships is insisting on people who are unwilling.
Please pay attention to every word I’m about to say. If you can understand this truth and apply it, your life will change for the better.
Don’t insist on someone who is not willing. 🙏🏾
It may not sound like a big deal, but I'm telling you it's super important, look out for someone with a willing heart.
Unwilling people will make your journey hard, exhausting, and full of struggles.
Love was never designed to be forced.
A relationship should not feel like a battlefield where you constantly have to convince someone to love, respect, or value you.
Marriage is meant to be a partnership, not a burden.
Your partner should be someone who genuinely delights in making your life easier and better, someone who willingly helps you focus on the things that truly matter with as few distractions as possible.
An unwilling person will not do that. No way!
Instead, they will drain you emotionally, frustrate your efforts, and make the relationship feel like hard labour.
If you have to push, beg, drag, or nag someone to fulfill their basic duties in a relationship, pause and ask yourself, am I signing up for a lifetime of struggle?
You need to know, it's very important.
Because that’s exactly what happens when you marry an unwilling person.
A willing partner is committed.
They show up, they contribute, they take responsibility—not because they’re forced, but because they want to.
Even scripture says, “If I do this thing willingly, I have a reward…” (1 Corinthians 9:17).
Willingness brings results. Don't settle for a marriage full of unnecessary crisis, life is hard enough, don't add salt to injury.
Willingness makes the journey smooth.
Willingness is proof of love, respect, and commitment.
Willingness is key to any successful relationship.
A person who is willing will take initiative, they will be intentional about the relationship, and they will put in effort without being pressured.
On the other hand, an unwilling person will always find excuses, delay commitments, and resist responsibilities.
God didn’t create marriage to be endured, He created it to be enjoyed.
But that enjoyment is only possible when both people are equally invested in the relationship.
Don’t beg to be loved. Don’t force someone to choose you. The right person won’t need convincing to love you, commit to you, or prioritize you.
When it is right, you won’t have to fight for attention, beg for love, or constantly prove your worth.
There are a thousand and one other people out there who will be more than willing to love you, except if you're telling you don't know who you are or your worth as a child of God.
A relationship where one person is always dragging the other along will never be fulfilling.
Marriage is too heavy to operate successfully on the energy of one person, no matter how vibrant and strong you think you are, marriage won't work out with your input alone.
Listen, someone can be "God-fearing" and unwilling, what I'm trying to say is this, look out for willingness in your spouse also, at least, in addition to all the other qualities you so desire.
If someone truly wants to be with you, they will show it willingly.
Do yourself a favour by choosing wisely, and please, don’t settle for an unwilling person for any reason.
This is just a counsel and you can do with it as you please 🙏🏾
Enjoy
LOOK OUT FOR THIS ALSO ✍🏾
When it comes to choosing a life partner, people have different criteria.
Some look for beauty, financial stability, social status, spirituality, or intelligence.
Others look out for shared interests, purpose or even tribe.
All of that is good, I'm not against it in anyway, as an adult it's your responsibility to know what you desire and if you're serious about it, you go for it.
Now, because of the nature of my work, I’ve had the privilege of talking to many people about relationships, however, I’ve noticed something, very few people mention what I’m about to share with you.
One of the greatest challenges people face in their relationships is insisting on people who are unwilling.
Please pay attention to every word I’m about to say. If you can understand this truth and apply it, your life will change for the better.
Don’t insist on someone who is not willing. 🙏🏾
It may not sound like a big deal, but I'm telling you it's super important, look out for someone with a willing heart.
Unwilling people will make your journey hard, exhausting, and full of struggles.
Love was never designed to be forced.
A relationship should not feel like a battlefield where you constantly have to convince someone to love, respect, or value you.
Marriage is meant to be a partnership, not a burden.
Your partner should be someone who genuinely delights in making your life easier and better, someone who willingly helps you focus on the things that truly matter with as few distractions as possible.
An unwilling person will not do that. No way!
Instead, they will drain you emotionally, frustrate your efforts, and make the relationship feel like hard labour.
If you have to push, beg, drag, or nag someone to fulfill their basic duties in a relationship, pause and ask yourself, am I signing up for a lifetime of struggle?
You need to know, it's very important.
Because that’s exactly what happens when you marry an unwilling person.
A willing partner is committed.
They show up, they contribute, they take responsibility—not because they’re forced, but because they want to.
Even scripture says, “If I do this thing willingly, I have a reward…” (1 Corinthians 9:17).
Willingness brings results. Don't settle for a marriage full of unnecessary crisis, life is hard enough, don't add salt to injury.
Willingness makes the journey smooth. 💯
Willingness is proof of love, respect, and commitment.
Willingness is key to any successful relationship.
A person who is willing will take initiative, they will be intentional about the relationship, and they will put in effort without being pressured.
On the other hand, an unwilling person will always find excuses, delay commitments, and resist responsibilities.
God didn’t create marriage to be endured, He created it to be enjoyed.
But that enjoyment is only possible when both people are equally invested in the relationship.
Don’t beg to be loved. Don’t force someone to choose you. The right person won’t need convincing to love you, commit to you, or prioritize you.
When it is right, you won’t have to fight for attention, beg for love, or constantly prove your worth.
There are a thousand and one other people out there who will be more than willing to love you, except if you're telling you don't know who you are or your worth as a child of God.
A relationship where one person is always dragging the other along will never be fulfilling.
Marriage is too heavy to operate successfully on the energy of one person, no matter how vibrant and strong you think you are, marriage won't work out with your input alone.
Listen, someone can be "God-fearing" and unwilling, what I'm trying to say is this, look out for willingness in your spouse also, at least, in addition to all the other qualities you so desire.
If someone truly wants to be with you, they will show it willingly.
Do yourself a favour by choosing wisely, and please, don’t settle for an unwilling person for any reason.
This is just a counsel and you can do with it as you please 🙏🏾
Enjoy 😊
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