Dear Singles, please come closer 🙏 Relevant Questions You Should Ask During Courtship that May Be seen As Not Important❗ 👌Ask your proposed partner if they SNORE while sleeping😴. Don't look at me that way, it's not bad to snore but you've to know if they do, so you can prepare yourself to enjoy and endure their snoring nature forever. Romantic snoring☺😁 👌Ask them if they observe Morning devotion, so you don't end up praying alone or them telling you that they do their devotion in their heart or workplace. Two of you praying together should be the spiritual goal❗ 👌Ask them if they can sweep, wash, cook, and iron. It might look like they can do it till you ask them and then you will know that they can't or aren't so good at doing it. Then you will have to be doing it ALONE. That's stressing and unprepared of you, you know❓ 👌Ask them if they prefer sleeping with the light on or off. So if you're the opposite of them, you will start adjusting your body system to that😜 👌 Ask them how they react when they are angry. Are they sensitive to jokes, etc? Woooh!! Make person no tell you "Am I your mate?", 'Do you know who I am "🙄 or break plates on top of your head😒. Mbok o❗ 👌 Ask them and make deep inquiries too to know if they are married or have been married before or probably have a child out of wedlock. So you don't wake up one day to the biggest shock of your life and stories that keep touching the heart. 👌Ask them how many times they eat surplus and stored food. Except you want to be cooking every day because your partner no gree eat one particular food twice abi thrice😜 👌Ask them where they start undressing after work😁 Some partners, start from the sitting room. You will find one leg of his socks in the parlour, their bra or tie in the kitchen and their shirt or trouser on the bedroom floor, ewoo❗ 👌Ask them if they prefer sleeping on an arranged or scattered bed. Yes, ask oo. Some partners can comfortably sleep on a scattered bed with their dirty clothes on top and they just won't mind😏. But won't you mind? Abi you fit follow them sleep liadat?🤪 Na liadat fight dey start too😌. 👌 Ask them of their source of income. The kind of work they do. Is there any Plan B or C in case things don't go as you both planned? Ask ooo. You need money to run the affairs of your home❗ 👌Ask them how many children they would need, if children are not forth coming as soon as they expected, what next ❓ Are they open to adoption ❓Will you guys still stick together, Abi Dem go try second wife😳🙆 👌 Lastly, for now, Ask them how they squeeze their toothpaste, from the button abi from the top? Asks oo. Some marriages have been dissolved because of this matter🤦🏽‍♀️. IF they are not virgins! Ask about their sexual life. I won't go deeper on this one but just ask them how many times you can be having sex. I know some sex periods could be so impromptu. Don't look at me that way, I read🙄, for enlightenment's sake because there's nothing wrong with knowing this. Let them know how far your body can manage and respond to the sex moment. (If you already have an experience before salvation) If both of you are virgins Mbok ask oo🙃.....AND don't neglect to ask them about their purpose and vision in life. A visionless home is hopeless. If we take time to observe, we will know that sometimes LITTLE and unnecessary issues cause big misunderstandings in some homes. No question is more or less important during courtship. Courtship is the BEST time to know a bit of everything about your partner, so you can prepare yourself enough for the outcome. Here's me praying for you and me today, May our marriages truly make us happy. May we not regret the choice of partner we finally get to settle with. May our children emulate our goodly and godly lifestyle. May our homes be beautiful ones. May our homes be filled with Love, Security and Trust.🙏 Above all may God be the third cord of our marriages. May there be peace, both internally and externally and May God grant all of us our positive heart desires💯🙏

WHY DO YOU WANT TO MARRY? Some want to marry to escape house chores. Some to get people to shut up and stop reminding them of their age. Some out of jealousy of their friends who are getting married one by one. Some, as a rebound from a broken relationship to prove to their EX that someone can need, love and marry them. Some, to escape parental pressure. Some, because of sex - access to unlimited sex in marriage. Some, to have a man lavish money on them "legitimately." Some, to bear children. Some, to have a legally married maid who do all their sundry and slave to d£ath in the kitchen. Some to bear "Mrs." Some, to secure Pastoral appointment. Some, to travel out or get residential permit abroad. Some, to get a dad or mum for their kids. And on and on it goes. These are the wrong reasons for getting married. You read that right, read slowly again: THESE ARE WRONG REASONS FOR GETTING MARRIED. You basically marry to help another person fulfill destiny. Others are bonuses. You marry to give and be a blessing. Not use someone and suck blessings out of them. After my fiance proposed and I accepted. I asked him "What is your vision? I like to know so I can help you fulfil it." Marrying for selfish reasons is the reason many marriages are breaking down. No one wants to give, no one wants to love. No one wants to give patience and kindness. Everyone is shouting "Me! Me!! Me!!!" And when they don't get what they want, they cheat, they m√rder, they get divorced! Selfishness is the root cause of all marital crises. We marry to give not just to get. We marry to be a blessing to our spouse not use them as blessings. We marry to make someone's life better, not bitter. Until you get to this point, you are not ready for marriage regardless of your age.

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THE BLOOD OF LENORA CHAPTER TWO The door leading to Barbara’s kitchen opened. Sophia and three handsome looking men whom Lenora recognized as Felix’s best friends stepped out. Lenora stared astoundingly seeing them. “You said it was a surprise, Barbara. How come Sophia, Donald, Jack and Steve are here?”. Lenora quizzed musingly. She laughed unbelievably. Barbara’s countenance changed. She did not smile. Her disposition seemed threatened. “Happy birthday in advance, our dear friend Lenora. We actually came here to surprise you”. Sophia spoke unfriendly. She moved slowly to Lenora and halted. “You will celebrate this birthday in Abraham’s bosom”. Sophia uttered antagonistically with a hostile smirk. Lenora gobbled in an uncomfortable state. She stood up looking from Barbara to Sophia then to the others. “What’s going on here? You guys are scaring me”. She turned to Barbara who threw her face away. “Did I do anything wrong?”. She inquired further. Her tone trembled. Her face in despair. “Guys, let’s finish this!”. Sophia ordered. Donald sluggishly walked up. He grabbed the struggling Lenora and covered her face with a napkin. Her voice unheard. Her hands swirling in the air. Her legs smattering the tiled floor. Barbara exited the scene tearfully and in remorsefulness. Right in the room Barbara ran into, she heard a deep excruciating cry. She knew it was Lenora’s. Suddenly, the place became calm. “Barbara! Barbara!”. Sophia called out loud. Barbara at a leisurely pace entered the sitting room. She covered her face at the scurvy sight of Lenora’s body. She sobbed. “We all agreed on this! Why acting emotional? See! We are just five here. It remains between us! Don’t spill this with your childish attitude!”. Donald warned audaciously. “You guys didn’t tell me you will ki!! Her. You didn’t! We only agreed to keep her away until we are done with Felix! Killing her wasn't the idea! Lenora is my friend!”. “Will you shut up!". Donald snapped

THE BLOOD OF LENORA CHAPTER ONE “Catalina, please can you accompany me to Barbara’s house? She said she has a special package for me. You know tomorrow is my birthday” Lenora called out Catalina who happened to be her roommate. She had wore her favourite colour, a well-fitted long knee white gown with a touch of sea green beret. She admired herself in the mirror and blushed. Her tall fair disposition with a neatly braided ponytail looking attractive. “This your birthday go hot ooh, Lenora. See the beauty! Now I know why Felix can’t stop salivating at the sight of you”. Catalina eulogized with a fixed gaze at Lenora and a glorifying smile. Lenora grinned like a Cheshire cat and swirled at the mirror honourably. Catalina chuckled. “Let’s go abeg!”. Catalina poked her jokingly. She stood up from the bed. “ Barbara’s giving you a surprise package and she didn’t tell me not even Sophia! Somebody that’s stingy and if at all wants to give anybody anything will first of all announce it! I’m shocked ooh!”. Catalina satirized and scoffed. “We know she’s tightfisted but I guess she has repented. I can’t wait to see the package…..but you won’t go in with me. You will stay outside and wait for me. She said I shouldn’t tell anyone until tomorrow”. Lenora giggled and grinned widely. Catalina looked at her surprisingly and scoffed too. “This is shocking I must confess! Hmm! Okay oh. I will do as you’ve said. I can’t wait to see what it is. Let’s go”. Lenora and Catalina set off. They got to Barbara’s apartment. Lenora nudged Catalina to stay outside the gate while she went in. Catalina shrugged and hung around. Lenora entered Barbara’s house. “Hope you came alone?”. Barbara impatiently asked the moment she sighted her. Lenora lied and teased her. She quickly dashed into the couch comfortably. “what’s this awe-striking package, Barbara?”. Lenora was smiling freely and expectantly. The door leading to Barbara’s kitchen opened.

WHY DO YOU WANT TO MARRY? Some want to marry to escape house chores. Some to get people to shut up and stop reminding them of their age. Some out of jealousy of their friends who are getting married one by one. Some, as a rebound from a broken relationship to prove to their EX that someone can need, love and marry them. Some, to escape parental pressure. Some, because of sex - access to unlimited sex in marriage. Some, to have a man lavish money on them "legitimately." Some, to bear children. Some, to have a legally married maid who do all their sundry and slave to d£ath in the kitchen. Some to bear "Mrs." Some, to secure Pastoral appointment. Some, to travel out or get residential permit abroad. Some, to get a dad or mum for their kids. And on and on it goes. These are the wrong reasons for getting married. You read that right, read slowly again: THESE ARE WRONG REASONS FOR GETTING MARRIED. You basically marry to help another person fulfill destiny. Others are bonuses. You marry to give and be a blessing. Not use someone and suck blessings out of them. After my fiance proposed and I accepted. I asked him "What is your vision? I like to know so I can help you fulfil it." Marrying for selfish reasons is the reason many marriages are breaking down. No one wants to give, no one wants to love. No one wants to give patience and kindness. Everyone is shouting "Me! Me!! Me!!!" And when they don't get what they want, they cheat, they m√rder, they get divorced! Selfishness is the root cause of all marital crises. We marry to give not just to get. We marry to be a blessing to our spouse not use them as blessings. We marry to make someone's life better, not bitter. Until you get to this point, you are not ready for marriage regardless of your age. May the good Lord grant you understanding.

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It was a beautiful Sunday morning in the small town of Willow Creek. The sun was shining brightly, casting a warm glow over the streets and homes. Emma, a young girl with curly brown hair, woke up early, feeling excited and refreshed. She loved Sundays because it was the one day of the week when her family didn't have to rush around. After getting dressed, Emma ran downstairs to the kitchen, where her mom was already making breakfast. The delicious smell of pancakes and bacon filled the air, making Emma's stomach growl with hunger. "Good morning, sweetie!" her mom said, giving her a warm hug. "What do you want to do today?" Emma thought for a moment before answering. "I want to go for a bike ride with Dad!" she exclaimed. Her mom smiled. "That sounds like a great idea. Your dad is already getting the bikes ready." After breakfast, Emma and her dad set off on their bike ride, enjoying the fresh air and the scenic views of the countryside. They rode past fields of golden wheat, sparkling streams, and colorful wildflowers. As they rode, Emma felt carefree and happy, enjoying the quality time with her dad. She realized that Sundays were special because they allowed her to slow down, relax, and appreciate the beauty of the world around her. After their bike ride, Emma and her dad returned home, tired but content. They spent the rest of the day lounging in the garden, reading books, and enjoying each other's company. As the sun began to set, Emma snuggled up close to her mom and dad on the couch, feeling grateful for the wonderful Sunday they had shared together. She knew that she would always treasure the memories of this special day.

The first Time Hubby invited me to his family house 🏡 to come see his mum and siblings… I said na like this the thing Dey be 😂… I kept postponing the invitation telling him am not ready to see them 😂😂 then I asked him .. can’t we just marry like that without seeing your people 😂😂 they will come for the wedding 💒 naa … Uche ndi Private life Madonna University 😂 My thought 💭 then was very plenty .. what if they don’t like me now .. like this you no go marry me again ??? 🤔 What if there is another person they wanted for him and am here coming to show myself … 😌 What if immediately I come .. they all enter one room and start doing Muchu Muchu 😂😂😂 Which cloth will I wear … ( I had lots of cloth in my wardrobe ooo .. but at the Mention of coming to see the family .. all my clothes vanished 😂😂 I had so many what if in my heart ❤️ and was so skeptical about their validation .. but guess what all this thought 💭 vanished with this few point I noted down here 👇👇 1) Just be your self : Don’t be too Nervous 😟 as whether they will like you or not cos most times the devil capitalizes on our thought 💭 and emotions. And you see yourself been overwhelmed with Negative thoughts.. A lady told me that a day to the day she was to go see her hubby’s family .. so many negative thoughts about them not accepting her … she said her mistakes was not praying over it .. and when she got there .. exactly the way she thought about it .. it happened.. though she is not married into the family .. but only God knows the best 🙌 Maybe for her Good .. 👍 2) Don’t over dress 👗.. cos you might end up meeting lesser expectations of what you opted for .. if you love ❤️ casual.. just make it clean and neat, if you love native, English wear etc .. just make it simple and nice 👍 wear a nice perfume.. not choking Hazards that will saturate the room .. 3) Don’t Go to show yourself so much on the first day : you want to sweep the house that day, you want to cook 🧑‍🍳 that day, you want to mop that day, you want to do certainly everything that day .. sis calm down is just the first day .. help with the little you can .. they might stand up to assist you or tell you not to worry .. Mine was after eating 🥣 cos they prepared delicious meal for me .. my mother in-law can cook 🧑‍🍳.. she na chef 🧑‍🍳 all the way .. ✌️ That day after eating I stood up to carry the plate to the kitchen.. hubby allowed me to take the tray to the kitchen .. maybe to allow me proof a good wife to be for his mum .. but 2 mins later I Didt come out .. he came to the kitchen and saw me bringing out the plate to wash … the next thing he just clapped 3 times then called me Ezigbo Mmadu ( you can demonstrate this I just said like kpa kpa kpa .. Ezigbo mmadu ) keep that plate let’s go inside .. I said No naa Allow me let me wash it .. in my mind I no wan wash am ooo 🙈🙈😂😂😂😂 but as a good girl naa I can’t just keep the plate like that … I just washed my hands 🙌 fast fast.. before he will now change his mind and tell me to wash it .. to test if am wife material 😂😂😂😂.. we came back to the parlor ..and continued our discussion.. 4) Dominating the conversation: Be a good listener and give others a chance to share their thoughts and stories. I love you love talking .. but at this point can you just hear 👂 what they have to say … May be you will hear their mind from there 😂😂😂 5) Be Sensitive: whatever you dont like is more reasons when you come back you say No .. A lady told me that on her first visit to her husband to be family house .. the first mud house 🏡 she met at the gate was shrine with Bl00d spills .. just the sight of that alone told her .. she can’t Marry this man .. and that’s how the relationship ended ✌️she said she can’t start fighting battles her family abolished long ago .. she left .. Being late: Be punctual and arrive on time for your visit. If you say you are coming by 12 .. latest 12:30 you don’t keep people waiting and you expect them to start smiling with you when you arrive by 2 or by 4 .. you ve certainly kpaid the vibes… Advice to the Man 👇👇👇👇 Then As a man, you are the one from the family. You have a Role to play .. you don’t just invite your wife to be to your family house 🏡.. then you allow her to face your family in fears … Protect her from unnecessary questioning and jokes .. Your wife should not come in and become another younger sister. Let her be your wife, the extension of another family. There are things your wife to be should not be subjected to before marriage. When she becomes your wife, she will naturally gravitate toward it. The lord bless your Marriage 🙌 Your marriage will succeed 🙏 Osuchukwu Jane Ezeakolam I’m A Priest Wife With A Difference 📸 Hubby and I.