Even though not everyone would agree, but there is this peace that comes with isolation #introvert

Introverted

THE DIFFERENT STAGES OF MARRIAGE...
Specially for you.

1. THE AMAZEMENT STAGE: This is the "wow" stage. Lots of new things to discover with your spouse. The newness, the freshness is so amazing. Sleeping on the same bed, wearing the same attire, cooking for him, doing house chores with her, bathing together. Wearing your dazzling wedding ring everywhere, turning people's head at the newest couple around. Loads and lots of fun. Sexual exploration and excitement. Being in control of your kitchen, feeding him and lots more. It's the honeymoon stage and it's so so beautiful.

2. THE IRRITATION STAGE: This is when you begin to notice weaknesses you have overlooked or blissfully wish they go away but didn't. The repetition of such weaknesses begins to work on your nerves and you are getting irritated: he snores a lot, she is slow in the kitchen, she belches loudly, he screams unnecessarily, she won't bathe before coming to bed or shave, he spends many hours watching football and ignores you when you talk. "What's just wrong with this guy?" You think aloud, well it's part of marriage.

3. THE ANGER STAGE: This is when the repetition of such weaknesses gets on your nerves and you display your anger. The introverted partners stuffs it in and either keep malice, avoid you or stubbornly continue with the irritating habit. It's the stage you begin to wonder: "have I really married the wrong guy?" "Have I married the wrong woman?" No, you did not, you are simply going through a phase together.

4. THE RESSOLUTION STAGE: When you both begin to face the reality of marriage and acknowledge your partner's weaknesses. You eventually realize anger and malice does not solve any problem and begins to find ways to deal with your differences, both of you begin to compromise here and there and adjust to each other.

5. THE ACCEPTANCE STAGE: When it dawned on you that some things are just part of your partner and may never change till Jesus comes. You resigned from anger, abuse and quarrel and choose to accept them, lovingly adjust to them and enjoy them regardless of their weaknesses.

6. THE RESTUL STAGE:This is the stage you permanently accept them with all their strengths, weaknesses, short comings and flaws and love them unconditionally regardless of what they do. This is real love -agape, divine and true. You reconnect emotionally, spiritually and physically at a deeper level and enjoy honey moon again while building a lasting marriage regardless of the challenges you face.

There is no perfect marriage. Every marriage goes through this stages. How you handle it will determine if you will come out bitter or better.

You don't have to abuse your spouse or keep malice if Christ is at the centre of your home and you obey the word of God daily.

Nevertheless, do not be disappointed if you go through the unpleasant stages in marriage. It is a phase and will surely end.

Handle your marriage with wisdom and keep loving regardless of the challenges you face. That is what will make your marriage a Heaven on earth experience.
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I try to be an introvert

Naturally introverted,
Selectively extroverted

School 1: When the believer is quiet and sober and a super introvert, he's genuine but when they're the "life of the party" they're not spiritual and really born again.
School 2: When they're quiet and sober they're the wicked ones while the extroverted ones are the kind and understanding christians.
School 3: When they're introverted they'll go to heaven while the extroverts are hell bound.
School 4: The introverted ones are clever secret sinners while the extroverted ones are really open.

Their line of thought not mine, I tell them let God be the judge.

Temperament: a tapestry of traits divine,
Unique to each, a personality shrine.
Emotions, energy, and interactions entwine,
Forming a canvas, intricately designed.

No two alike, yet united we stand,
As Christians, bound by a common hand.
God's love shed abroad, a beacon bright,
In every heart, a guiding light.

Diverse temperaments, yet one in faith,
The Body of Christ, a harmonious weave.
Choleric, melancholic, phlegmatic, sanguine too,
Each thread distinct, yet together anew.

Introvert, extrovert, or blend,
His love transcends.
The Big Five Traits, or Four Temperaments' sway,
Faith unites, come what may.

In Christ, our differences fade,
As love, obedience, and prayer are displayed.
A beautiful mosaic, diverse yet one,
The Church, the home of love.

Abide in Him, the command we share,
Love's call resounds, beyond compare.
Prayer's gentle whisper, a constant refrain,
Obedience's path, where faith sustains...

Don't know if it's making any sense, still working on it sha.

(Spoken Word)

#YFCTenThingsAboutMe

Name: Jefferson Bufa Ndoma
Birthday: January 27th
Genotype: AA
State: Cross River
Relationship status: Situationship
Occupation: Save to say I’m a graduate
Favorite Tv series/movie: Life in a year/Young Royals
Favorite sport: Riding( not a bike tho)
Favorite Artist:- Ariana Grande/Doja Cat
I am very introverted.

Boys really got crazy information and big money. Leave that introvert lifestyle, mix up with valuable people and make money too. There’s a lot of money in this world to go round.

MONEY FEARS NOISE:

You have probably wondered why music doesn't play in banks. This is because money fears noise. I have never seen billionaires in clubs where music is playing with deafening volume. They sit in clubs with low jazz music as they discuss business deals.

Whenever you see people dancing and sweating profusely to high volume music, just know that money is very absent there except for the owner of the club. When you see someone bragging about how rich they are, showing off their belongings, just know that money is soon divorcing them for money fears noise. Money is introverted.

Whenever a family begins to fight, money begins to grow wings. All of a sudden, there will be disappointments, diseases that will demand hospital bills, and other devourers that will siphon the money from the family.

If you want to create a conducive atmosphere for money, just maintain peace, and money will reside there. A troubled man is very unlucky. Avoid unnecessary arguments and passing of blame if you want financial favor to locate you.