How fast would this year be?

10 WAYS TO ENJOY COURTSHIP WITHOUT STRESS...

1. Respect each other.

2. Pray for and with each other.

3. Get involved in each other's vision, aspirations, dream and goals.

4. Protect each other from sin.

5. Do not tempt each other.

6. Avoid all unholy, romantic, flirty conversations.

7. Inspire, motivate, encourage each other to grow and be successful.

8. Speak each other's love language.

9. Understand their temperament and relate with them based on that knowledge.

10. Read and share knowledge together.

Did I mention sex? No one should ask me "Ma, is it okay to kiss in courtship?" "Ma, can we call each other pet names?" "Ma, can we kiss and romance?"

Those are annoying questions.

I want to hear "Ma, how can I help my fiance become a millionaire in dollars?" "My wife to-be wants to be the first female President of Nigeria, how can we achieve that?", "How can I help my fiance become successful in ministry?" "How Can I help my fiancee become a great, international, successful singer?" "What are the keys to a great and successful marriage?" These are what I Want to hear!!

Leave kissing alone and face your courtship

15 QUALITIES OF AN EXCELLENT HUSBAND

A man who who deserves the praise and respect of his wife has these qualities:

1. HE LOVES HIS WIFE MORE THAN ANY MORTAL. Your wife is next to your heart after God, treat her with all the affection she deserves.

2. HE IS NOT A MUMMY'S BOY. I don't know what some men are doing with marriage. A man who still runs to his momma for supper and can't make sound decisions without seeking his father's approval is a marital accident.

3. HE RESPECTS HER BOTH IN PRIVATE AND PUBLIC . Not by prostrating before her but by being mindful of her feelings, approaching her like an adult and being careful not to criticize or embarrass her in public.

4. HE IS VERY UNDERSTANDING . Women are complex. To live successfully with one requires a great deal of understanding and massive knowledge. A woman can be laughing with you now and burst into tears the next. She can be calm this minute and be irritable and mad the next. She struggles with so many things disturbing her hormones and destabilizing her emotionally. She has her monthly cycle to deal with and her family planning p1lls also jog her hormones up and down. An average man finds it difficult understanding his wife because he doesn't menstruate and not on family planning p1lls but an excellent husband takes the time and pain to understand his wife.

5. HE IS COMPASSIONATE. Women need plenty of compassion especially when she fails and falls short.

6. HE FORGIVES EASILY. Your wife will make mistakes, she will offend you; she is human and not perfect, learn to forgive easily and overlook her idiosyncrasies, she will respect you lot for it.

6. HE WORKS HARD AND PROVIDES FOR HER NEED. Please, be concerned about her needs: food,clothing and shelter. An excellent husband provides these for his wife.

7. HE REALLY LISTENS TO HER . When I counsel women, I listen to their hearts not just their mouths. Your wife has a lot to tell you, ALWAYS listen.

8. HE TOUCHES HER A LOT. I don't mean sex. Women need plenty of non-sexual touches daily. Your wife is not a sex toy that should only be given affection when you want to sleep with her. An excellent husband shows his wife affection all the time. Hug your wife regularly. Peck her a lot. Massage her weary limbs after a hard day job...she needs it.

9. HE KEEPS WOOING HER. A woman never gets tired of hearing "I love you" from her husband daily, it makes her feel wanted.

11. HE ASSISTS WITH CHORES. Nothing makes a husband sexier than assisting with cooking and changing baby's diapers once in a while, try it!

12. HE IS HONEST. He is sincere and open in all his dealings. He does not speak half truth or get involved in shady deals.

13. HE APPRECIATES HIS WIFE'S ADVICE and does not see her as a st√pid woman who has nothing upstairs.

14. HE PRAYS WITH AND FOR HIS WIFE. An excellent husband lifts his wife up in prayers. He understands she has seeds of greatness within her and goes through daily battles while trying to fulfil her God-given destiny.

15. HE IS PROUD OF HIS WIFE and is not ashamed to let people know he values and adores her.

Excellent husbands are in high demand daily. As you pray to marry an excellent wife, work on your self to become an excellent husband. We attract who we are.
May the good Lord grant you understanding

Fact you don't know

TALK ABOUT MONEY IN COURTSHIP

Because you will need plenty of it in marriage. Those who say all that matters in marriage is love not money are not serious!

Will love pay your bills and put food on the table?

Let me talk to our guys. Listen to me, dear young man, don't let that lady manipulate you into marriage when you are not ready but age is fighting against her, because if you do, you are in for a shocker!

Women can sweet tongue you into what you don't want to do and blame you for being st√pid to listen to them in the first place!

Women naturally respect men who have money. (Those who argue with this truth are hypocrites!)

Before any lady corner you and tie you down in forced matrimony, ask serious questions:

1. How much do you both earn monthly? How much will you require to run your marriage monthly? Take inflation into consideration and calculate how much you will spend on rent, feeding, utility bills, transportation, medicals among others.

2. Who pays the running bills monthly? The husband, wife or both of you? At what percentage? 50/50, 60/40, 70/30? Discuss.

3. For how long will you both work as salary earners? Any plan to invest in other businesses? What does it take? How much of your finance will go into it? What type of sacrifice will it require?

4. Will you be saving monthly? How much?

5. Will you be operating joint account, separate account or both joint and separate account?

6. If you are doing business, how much does it generate monthly? How can you grow your monthly income?

7. What is your yearly financial goals? How do you plan to achieve it?

8. Do you believe in paying tithe, offerings and sowing special seeds and giving to the poor?

9. What percentage of your income will be going to your parents or siblings monthly?

10. When children start coming, how much will you need to take good care of them monthly?

Plan your finances before getting married.

Set up your self for financial growth not financial failure in marriage. Always think of ways to grow your income. Read books, attend classes and seminars that will help in this regard.

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May you not fail in your financial responsibilities in Jesus' name!

Don't look down on anybody else just be yourself

Always love yourself and be greafull to God