I carry my husband's phone anytime, I know the password to his phones, email and even his facebook account, I can access his Whatsapp anytime any day, Infact he gave me his ATM pin while we were still in courtship. Meanwhile, my husband knows all my passwords too. Why am I writing this? . All these married men and women that get so agitated and paranoid anytime their spouses carry their phone, What really is the problem? If you fall in this category, hope all is well with you? 🤷‍♀️ The funniest of them are those set of persons who want to maintain privacy in their marriage. You hear them make statements like, “My wife cannot know my ATM pin oo, I don’t trust her to that extent”, Wait oo, you don’t trust your wife? Sir, you entered into marriage with your full chest with a person you don’t trust? 🤦🏻‍♀️ For another set, you will hear them say, “How will my husband go through my phone, what’s he looking for inside there? “My phone is my privacy”. Aunty shift, which yeye privacy is that one?🙄 If your privacy is so important to you, why didn't you remain single? You must understand that the day you accepted to marry that person, that day did you lost all forms of privacy, For any marriage to work, transparency is key. Transparency builds TRUST, Transparency builds ONENESS, Transparency builds UNITY, Transparency blocks channels the enemy would have passed through to invade your home, It makes your partner understand that you trust them so much that you can entrust something as private as your ATM pin to them. Why will you keep your phone's password from your spouse if truly your conscience is free? Why do you excuse yourself whenever you are with your partner and you want o make a call? You will be hiding in your own house like a thief because only God knows who you are on the phone with 😩 If your privacy is so important to you, then why did you choose to settle down, you should have just remained like Apostle Paul and died single, Privacy ko, privacy ni 🙄 Baba you need to be lashed fifty strokes of the kane for choosing privacy over peace, Yes, your hiding your phone every now and then from your partner is stealing your spouse's peace of mind, causing unnecessary suspiciousness here and there. . You need to change, you really need to change Any conversation with anyone your spouse shouldn't be aware of should never have happened in the first place no matter who the person is, Those chats and messages your spouse should never read shouldn't even exist in your phone at all 🤷‍♀️ Be transparent with your partner, stop hiding things from them. know this and know the true definition of peace. God's Word says, "Adam and Eve were both naked and were not ashamed", Nakedness here doesn't only implies when you both are not wearing clothes like when you bathing together or having some sort of sexual intimacy, Nakedness in marriage also implies being open and transparent as much as possible with your partner, not getting to hide anything from them, not keeping any information that pertains to you from them. . Just remain single if YOUR PRIVACY is so precious to you, marriage is not for you biko. Make you no go use privacy frustrate person pikin in the name of marriage 🤦🏻‍♀️ . Having said all, transparency is key to a lasting marriage. Be transparent with your partner, that's what it means to be ONE 🫂 with them. It is with love that I write ✍️ this to you. I hope you take heed 🙏🏻 ___________________ Your Friend, ©️ Peace Ogbonna Daniel #Savedtosave #Toolateforyourmarriagetofail #journeyofachristiancouple

Good evening sir,pls hide my identity,am a lady 26years ,I have been dating this guy for close to 5 months now , everything is going well,as he tries his best to support me because he does not have ,the problem is he wants me to be preg*nant as soon as possible but me I don't want it now until when I have a stable source of income but he always insist. Am I doing anything wrong because I Know men of nowadays,they can easily aba*ndon a lady once preg*nant,and also I found out he smo*kes,I conf*ronted him,he said he will stop it that he will do anything to keep me,but I travel for greener pastures,I now went to visit him ,I discovered he still smoking,he will go out that he wants to buy sweet meanwhile he wants to go and sm0ke ,I don't know what to do ,I can't stand being with some one who smookes ,pls what can I do to stop him from smoking,pls I need your advise on these two issues…. thanks,I will be in the comment section

DON'T RELY ON PEOPLE If you rely on people, you will be disappointed. People will let you down. They will get busy and not be there when you need them. They may copy gossiping made by your enemy to turn down you even when you have not done wrong thing. Sometimes, people will turn on you and hate you for no reason. In the Bible, Peter was Jesus's closed friend. Christ loved him and they worked both day and night... But when Jesus needed Peter most, I mean, when Christ was about to be crucified on the Cross, he(Peter) denied that he did not even know Christ. Thus, don't be angry or hate people when they deny or disappoint you. Do know why? We can't comprehend God. He works in different ways. I mean, when He (God) loveyou, He can train and shape you by allowing people whom you rely on, to disappoint or deny you. But, it is not bad when you carry cross like Christ because it will make your name and appellation to be more popular. And when you are on the Cross, you will begin to know who is who. So, it is good to carry cross and rely on God because it has multi-trillions favor, blessings and benefits. Good morning to you all. Have a blessed day.

Good evening admin please post for me and hide my I’d. I am currently in a tricky situation. This afternoon, my best friend begged me to give her 5k to fill her gas, I told her I don’t have but I will get it from my boyfriend and give her. I even bra*gged to her that whenever I give my guy a d33p k1$$ on his l1ps he usually give me 5k. Of a truth, it has happened three times in the past. The first time I gave him a d33p k1$$ in January this year he gave me 5k, again in April this year I gave him a d33p k1$$ and he blessed me with 5k. Last month I k1$$ed him d33ply and he gave me 5k as usual. So this afternoon I went with my friend to my guy’s house, my plan was to give him the usual k1$$, collect 5k as usual and give to my friend to go fill her gas. My people can you believe that I and my friend have been in my guy’s house since 1pm in the afternoon, I have given my guy many d33p k1&$es but he didn’t give me 5k as expected. I have k1$$ed h1m to the extent that there is no more s@liva in my mouth still my boy friend has refused to do the needful. As I type now, my friend and I are still in his house… please what do I do? If I leave without getting the 5k my friend will use it to m0ck me, she would think I am a br@ggart. Please help me with urgent advice. I am waiting in comment section. Thanks

The people suffering the most in Ebonyi State currently are those destitutes from Ezza-Effium. They are the ones highly engaged in street hawking in the state capital currently, they are scattered all over the corners of the state capital doing odds jobs for survival, most of them are the ones engaged in street begging too. If you sample the population of the children into hawking in Ebonyi capital, you will find out that 70 percent of them are those destitutes from Ezza-Effium. The remaining 30 percent will be shared amongst the remaining communities in Ebonyi at large. I'm very sure of this analysis, I have taken time to research on this and have been able to come up with this finding. I'm saying it to attract the government's attention to this menace, the Governor of Ebonyi State should please look into this problem, since the initially enrolled hawker's funds were diverted by privileged few. Joseph Udemezue Akpukwa, AMLSCN.

I want your followers to look into this matter. Am a plu$ siz£ married lady, sometimes my husband used to say that he has more physical strength than me that regardless of my b1g b0dy s1ze my physical strength can’t match his. Mind you, my husband is a sl1m guy, a c0mplete opp0site of me. So yesterday my husband decided we should lay the argument to rest by engaging in a m0ck wr3stl1ng match to determine who’s stronger. It was agreed that the winner will receive 50k cash price and it was further agreed that whoever is able to make the opp0nent’s back t0uch the ground is the winner. My hubby provided the cash price of 50k and invited our neighbor who’s a teacher to be the referee. Long story short, three minutes into the c0ntest I l1fted my hu*bby sh0ulder high and l@nd3d him on the gr0und gbummm like a b@g of cement! And the referee proclaimed me winner , and things took a dramatic twist, instead of congratulating me and giving me the cash price my hu$band started claiming that I have c0mm1ted ab0mination, that in his v1llage it’s an abom1nation for a woman to f*all her husband. Then I asked if he didn’t know that it was an ab0mination when he asked us to engage in the m0ck f1ght , he said he knew but he thought that he would easily d3f3at me , that is why he agreed. Now he’s saying I should f0rfeit the cash price of 50k and let it go, he said if I insist on collecting the money, he will report me to the elders in the village and tell them that I have c0mmitted abom1nation and they will tell me to bring a big g0at, two crates of beer and cola nuts to appease the village ancestors. We have been dra*gging the matt3r back and f0rth since yesterday and honestly I don’t know what to do anymore. Please I need advice. What do I do?

LIVE AND LET LIVE Do you know that there are more than 476 million indigenous people living in 90 countries across the world? Do you also know that there are over one hundred tribes around the world that avoid all contact with outsiders? Do you know that in Nigeria alone, there are approximately 371 Nigerian tribes across over 250 ethnic groups? It is estimated that up to 7,000 different languages are spoken around the world. Do you know that there are over 10,000 distinct religions in the world? What does this tell you? This world is too vast. The more you understand it, the more you realize that you know nothing about it or the opportunity it offers you. The more you understand it, the more you cherish who you are and what you have. The more you understand it, the more you realize that you have been given everything you need to solve your day-to-day problems and to contribute your quota to making the world a better place. The more you understand it, the more you realize that the creator of the universe is a lover of variety, diversification, plurality, diversity, heterogeneity, and freedom, but at the same time a lover of peace. Open your eyes to see where you are. I mean your two eyes. Do research. Study about your past to see how it is connected with the present and how you are connected with each other. You will discover that there is enough space for all of us to thrive. Live and let live. Fada Angelo Chidi Unegbu

Admin please keep me anonymous. I need desp3rate advise right now I've been dating this particular girl since January Although she's a single mom of one but right from the time I've met her, she's been a wonderful and caring person and have been blessed massively both financially and emotionally but the problem I have is her twin brother and her in-law ( husband to her elder sister) The man has been abu$ing her s3xually which I got to know about through her and since the man discovered I knew his secr3t,he sees me as a thr3at to the extent of thr*****ening to k1*ll me The twin brother b3*ats the girl at any given opportunity plus collects the phone I bought for this girl I'm really pa*1ned right now cos my girl doesn't want to give up on me likewise me too It's really aff3cting me for sure I need advice I'll be in the comment section

Admin sir, please post for me and conceal my I’d. My landlord and I have been doing something for three months now. He's a young vibrant guy. His dad gave him the house but he's a hard working man too. So we have been into each other deeply. My rent expired last month and he did not raise the issue. But on Wednesday I receive a written message from a lawyer about quitting the premises if I can't afford the rent. I was sh0cked because am dating the landlord why paying rent? I waited for him to come back and I even called him to tell him about the message I received. He said he's driving home. Getting home I showed him the message he said that's how lawyers do. That once a property is left under their care whether the person is the landlord’s daughter or wife that the next thing he will apply f0rce to make sure I pay. I told him I don't understand, besides the first year I paid it was paid directly to the landlord not to a lawyer. How come a lawyer is issuing me notice now? He said that's how lawyers do once an apartment is placed under their care. This guy since we started seeing has only given me 50k, though he takes me out. The rent has also increased from 120k to 180k. Where do I start from? He said there's nothing he can do about it , I told him to call the lawyer, he called him in my presence and the lawyer said he's only doing his job. Doing his job for who? My landlord's father is l@te he's the the one in charge of all the properties so who is the lawyer doing his job for? I have been given up till next month ending to move out or I make payment directly to the lawyer. Is this even right? I am his girlfriend. We are sl33ping together. Since we started I haven't sl3pt in my room. I sl33p in his room, I cook there and do everything there why should I pay rent for my apartment again? I told him if that's the case I should move in with him he said his sisters do visit and the room we have been sleeping even belongs to her. But we are inti*mate and always into each other. I also believe he loves me because he gave me that 50k to add to my business when he was also looking for money to do something. So it's not about him not loving me. What could be the probl3m please? Help me post. We are still doing things together, and he's trying to let the lawyer understand that I am his woman but the lawyer kept saying he can't do his job for him. My man is the eldest son so what is this lawyer even saying? Since we started dating I haven't really been saving for my rent because I thought there would be no need. Is this how lawyers do their job? Please I need advice and opinions

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