Good evening sir,pls hide my identity,am a lady 26years ,I have been dating this guy for close to 5 months now , everything is going well,as he tries his best to support me because he does not have ,the problem is he wants me to be preg*nant as soon as possible but me I don't want it now until when I have a stable source of income but he always insist. Am I doing anything wrong because I Know men of nowadays,they can easily aba*ndon a lady once preg*nant,and also I found out he smo*kes,I conf*ronted him,he said he will stop it that he will do anything to keep me,but I travel for greener pastures,I now went to visit him ,I discovered he still smoking,he will go out that he wants to buy sweet meanwhile he wants to go and sm0ke ,I don't know what to do ,I can't stand being with some one who smookes ,pls what can I do to stop him from smoking,pls I need your advise on these two issues…. thanks,I will be in the comment section