Sincerely speaking, I don't know where we get our audacity from as ladies oooo. How can you be demanding money from a man who has not married you and acting as if it's your right? This same man, you told it's not the right time to have séx with you. This same man, you told, it's too early to come and see your parents. This same man, you told, he is taking things too fast. But, you still expect him to send money to you countless times like he is your ATM. You still bill him like he is responsible for paying your house rent and all of that. I know this may not sit well with you ooo, but I will go ahead and tell you. A man who is not yet legally married to you does not owe you anything. It's a beautiful thing to be in a relationship with a man sensitive enough to know when he needs to render help to you even without asking. You need to be with a man who loves you enough to think of rendering amazing gifts on your special days. A man you are in a relationship with can always give you money out of his good heart and goodwill. But, YOU ARE NOT ENTITLED TO THE MONEY OF A MAN YOU ARE NOT YET MARRIED TOO. Stop expecting too much too soon! Stop expecting him to carry the financial responsibilities of your family just because you are in a relationship with him. Find something and do as a single lady, even if you are a student. Don't carry your financial bûrden and lay on a man who is yet to begin a journey with you. This is why some of them begin to ask for too much too soon as well. Life is trade by barter. You cannot trade recklèssly and expect not to be bàttered. Please take your time and read this carefully. It will make a whole lot of sense to you. Your marriage will thrive 🌹

If I stick to the plan & I do the work, 2025 will be one of my best years!

My goal is to tell my MOM - " Go MOM, choose what you want, I will buy it for you"

LADIES, whenever you feel that a man should give you money or buy something for you but he cannot afford it, and you're tempted to say HE IS BROKE or STINGY, hold your chest and say to yourself: “NO, I AM THE BROKE ONE BECAUSE I CAN'T AFFORD WHAT I WANT BY MYSELF..” Unfortunately Broke Women NEVER Believe they’re broke, they assume they are dating the wrong guy. Work and have your own money sister, MONEY IS UNISEX 😃...To whom the brain is given sense is expected 🫵

I grew up and getting to see most preacher's on pulpit talked about how they were able to travel across different countries of the world probably to preached and lodged in expensive suits. It was the trend of that age, and if you were not the traveling priest, then no one will take your ministry serious not even host you on their pulpit. You have to go far to see far. 😂 Fast forwarded today, that trend had gone into oblivion. Today what is trending, are preacher's talking about about how they've prayed for 12hours at a stretch. This overtime has become a norm among many pulpit scavengers. I see this happen every time, how if you don't talk about realms and portals then you haven't been with the Lord. People who dishes the message of Jesus Christ with their high sounding cymbals. In a bid to sound too deep and seen as the custodians of the mysteries of the Elyon. But we have come to believe the simplicity of the Gospel. How that Jesus died, was buried and was resurrected on the third day. How that the immortal God came to be with the mortal man so that the mortal man can become one with the immortal God. There is no portal or realms that Christ had not revealed to his beloved, The Church. In His death and resurrection, all things that were once a mystery was revealed in Christ. This deception that tends to shifts the focus of those He came to saved and tie their attention to mundane realms, portals and cosmic systems that are only figments of our imagination is not of Christ. It's Christ and Christ alone crucified. Anything short of these is an anomaly. Enough of the deception. Sadly young upcoming Ministers are being cajoled into these brainwashed gospel. I see zeal and fire mixed with wrong knowledge parading everywhere on the pulpit all because everyone wants to sound like their Daddy in the Lord. Brethren, it's time to wake up. We have dwelt so long on this mountain. Let's go back to The One. Eternal Truth. Jesus Christ.

The reason I work so hard is to train my daughters to grow and live their lives. If they decide to take care of me, fine. If they don’t, I’ll be fine. At old age, my investments will be giving me dividends, and there won’t be any reason for me to think like this or mount pressure on my daughters just because I trained them. This is one of the reasons young girls go to any length just to provide. It’s too much na. This happens and will keep happening. We should take care of our parents, but this is too much.

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2021 taught me valuable lessons that I didn’t fully appreciate at the time, but I see them now. In 2023, life knocked me down harder than I ever expected. It felt like everything was falling apart, but it forced me to face things I’d been avoiding. Now, in 2024, my eyes are wide open to the truth of who I am and what I need to do. I’m no longer confused or lost. In 2025, I’m coming back stronger, with a clear purpose and a fire inside to keep moving forward. All the pain and struggles were stepping stones that led me here, and now it’s time to make things happen. 💛💪