Sincerely speaking, I don't know where we get our audacity from as ladies oooo. How can you be demanding money from a man who has not married you and acting as if it's your right? This same man, you told it's not the right time to have séx with you. This same man, you told, it's too early to come and see your parents. This same man, you told, he is taking things too fast. But, you still expect him to send money to you countless times like he is your ATM. You still bill him like he is responsible for paying your house rent and all of that. I know this may not sit well with you ooo, but I will go ahead and tell you. A man who is not yet legally married to you does not owe you anything. It's a beautiful thing to be in a relationship with a man sensitive enough to know when he needs to render help to you even without asking. You need to be with a man who loves you enough to think of rendering amazing gifts on your special days. A man you are in a relationship with can always give you money out of his good heart and goodwill. But, YOU ARE NOT ENTITLED TO THE MONEY OF A MAN YOU ARE NOT YET MARRIED TOO. Stop expecting too much too soon! Stop expecting him to carry the financial responsibilities of your family just because you are in a relationship with him. Find something and do as a single lady, even if you are a student. Don't carry your financial bûrden and lay on a man who is yet to begin a journey with you. This is why some of them begin to ask for too much too soon as well. Life is trade by barter. You cannot trade recklèssly and expect not to be bàttered. Please take your time and read this carefully. It will make a whole lot of sense to you. Your marriage will thrive 🌹