🙌🪐🍀 The winner takes all. I have a theory: if you put in 80%, you get 80% back. But if you put in 100%, you get 1,000% back. The last 20% is where the magic happens. Because almost nobody is mad enough to go all in. Only a perfect storm of delusion, obsession and a pinch of childhood trauma makes that extra 20% possible. It's the part where you keep going long after logic says retreat. Where your biggest weakness becomes your biggest strength: an inability to stop. Because at a certain point, success isn't about talent or luck. It's about who's willing to suffer for the longest. Pain is the filter. Few pass it. #delusional #willingness #winner #winningmindset #winning #mindset #positivemindset #success #inspire #inspiration #motivation #motivational #motivationalquotes

🙌🪐🍀 The winner takes all. I have a theory: if you put in 80%, you get 80% back. But if you put in 100%, you get 1,000% back. The last 20% is where the magic happens. Because almost nobody is mad enough to go all in. Only a perfect storm of delusion, obsession and a pinch of childhood trauma makes that extra 20% possible. It's the part where you keep going long after logic says retreat. Where your biggest weakness becomes your biggest strength: an inability to stop. Because at a certain point, success isn't about talent or luck. It's about who's willing to suffer for the longest. Pain is the filter. Few pass it. #delusional #willingness #winner #winningmindset #winning #mindset #positivemindset #success #inspire #inspiration #motivation #motivational #motivationalquotes

Trust “Love and trust, when they first begin, are like the sun and moon. When they first rise, they’re together.” Helen Rowland Another important aspect of commitment in marriage is trust. Trust is the foundation upon which any relationship is built. Without trust, a relationship would crumble. Trust is built over time through honesty, communication, and a willingness to be open and vulnerable.

I had nothing but determination and willingness to learn

LOOK OUT FOR THIS ALSO ✍🏾 When it comes to choosing a life partner, people have different criteria. Some look for beauty, financial stability, social status, spirituality, or intelligence. Others look out for shared interests, purpose or even tribe. All of that is good, I'm not against it in anyway, as an adult it's your responsibility to know what you desire and if you're serious about it, you go for it. Now, because of the nature of my work, I’ve had the privilege of talking to many people about relationships, however, I’ve noticed something, very few people mention what I’m about to share with you. One of the greatest challenges people face in their relationships is insisting on people who are unwilling. Please pay attention to every word I’m about to say. If you can understand this truth and apply it, your life will change for the better. Don’t insist on someone who is not willing. 🙏🏾 It may not sound like a big deal, but I'm telling you it's super important, look out for someone with a willing heart. Unwilling people will make your journey hard, exhausting, and full of struggles. Love was never designed to be forced. A relationship should not feel like a battlefield where you constantly have to convince someone to love, respect, or value you. Marriage is meant to be a partnership, not a burden. Your partner should be someone who genuinely delights in making your life easier and better, someone who willingly helps you focus on the things that truly matter with as few distractions as possible. An unwilling person will not do that. No way! Instead, they will drain you emotionally, frustrate your efforts, and make the relationship feel like hard labour. If you have to push, beg, drag, or nag someone to fulfill their basic duties in a relationship, pause and ask yourself, am I signing up for a lifetime of struggle? You need to know, it's very important. Because that’s exactly what happens when you marry an unwilling person. A willing partner is committed. They show up, they contribute, they take responsibility—not because they’re forced, but because they want to. Even scripture says, “If I do this thing willingly, I have a reward…” (1 Corinthians 9:17). Willingness brings results. Don't settle for a marriage full of unnecessary crisis, life is hard enough, don't add salt to injury. Willingness makes the journey smooth. 💯 Willingness is proof of love, respect, and commitment. Willingness is key to any successful relationship. A person who is willing will take initiative, they will be intentional about the relationship, and they will put in effort without being pressured. On the other hand, an unwilling person will always find excuses, delay commitments, and resist responsibilities. God didn’t create marriage to be endured, He created it to be enjoyed. But that enjoyment is only possible when both people are equally invested in the relationship. Don’t beg to be loved. Don’t force someone to choose you. The right person won’t need convincing to love you, commit to you, or prioritize you. When it is right, you won’t have to fight for attention, beg for love, or constantly prove your worth. There are a thousand and one other people out there who will be more than willing to love you, except if you're telling you don't know who you are or your worth as a child of God. A relationship where one person is always dragging the other along will never be fulfilling. Marriage is too heavy to operate successfully on the energy of one person, no matter how vibrant and strong you think you are, marriage won't work out with your input alone. Listen, someone can be "God-fearing" and unwilling, what I'm trying to say is this, look out for willingness in your spouse also, at least, in addition to all the other qualities you so desire. If someone truly wants to be with you, they will show it willingly. Do yourself a favour by choosing wisely, and please, don’t settle for an unwilling person for any reason. This is just a counsel and you can do with it as you please 🙏🏾 Enjoy 😊

Your willingness to change is what makes the change happen

OPPORTUNITY Getting and using opportunities involves recognizing favorable situations and taking proactive steps to capitalize on them. This requires awareness, preparation, and a willingness to act. To make the most of an opportunity, you should be adaptable, resourceful, and confident in your decisions. Seizing opportunities often leads to personal growth, career advancement, and achieving goals. The key is to stay open to new possibilities and be ready to take action when the right moment arises. #motivation #inspiration #danloader

The capacity to learn is a gift; the ability to learn is a skill; the willingness to learn is a choice

HOW TO OVERCOME SELF DOUBT AND STRATEGIES FOR BUILDING CONFIDENCE Self-doubt can be a crippling obstacle to achieving our goals and realizing our potential. It can whisper lies of inadequacy, fuel anxiety, and hold us back from pursuing our dreams. However, it is possible to overcome self-doubt and build confidence. 🔘Recognize and Challenge Negative Self-Talk The first step to overcoming self-doubt is to recognize and challenge negative self-talk. Notice when you're thinking critical or discouraging thoughts about yourself, and challenge those thoughts by reframing them in a positive and realistic light. 🔘Focus on Strengths Rather than dwelling on weaknesses, focus on your strengths and the things you do well. Celebrate your successes, no matter how small they may seem. 🔘Set Achievable Goals Setting achievable goals can help you build confidence by giving you a sense of accomplishment and momentum. Break down larger goals into smaller, manageable tasks, and focus on making progress one step at a time. 🔘Practice Self-Compassion Remember that everyone makes mistakes, and it's okay not to be perfect. Practice self-compassion by treating yourself with kindness, understanding, and patience. 🔘Surround Yourself with Positive Influences The people you surround yourself with can have a profound impact on your confidence. Seek out supportive friends, family, and mentors who encourage and believe in you. 🔘TAKE ACTION Finally, take action. Don't let self-doubt hold you back from pursuing your goals and dreams. Take the first step, even if it's scary or uncertain. As you take action, you'll build confidence and momentum, and you'll be amazed at what you can achieve. By implementing these strategies, you can overcome self-doubt and build confidence. Remember, confidence is not the absence of fear or doubt, but the willingness to take action in spite of it.

YOUR GIRL-CHILD IS WORTH MORE. Last week, our ultrasound unit welcomed a 16-year-old girl, heavily pregnant and carrying the weight of a difficult reality. As she lay on the examination table, her nervous eyes scanned the room, searching for a glimmer of hope. I was curious to know and understand the circumstances that led her to this point. So I asked, and she opened up, sharing a story that would break the hearts of even the most hardened individual. "I was denied education," she whispered, her voice barely audible. "My father said it was a waste of resources to train a girl." These words hung in the air, a stark reminder of the harsh realities faced by countless young girls around the world. As the examination progressed, the weight of her situation became increasingly apparent to me. This young girl, barely out of childhood herself, was now facing the daunting challenges of motherhood. Then I asked myself, what about her dreams and aspirations? What about her future? This young girl's story is a powerful testament to the importance of education and empowerment. It highlights the need for comprehensive support systems, that would prioritize the needs and rights of girls and young women. This is a reminder that parents can do better!!! She is also as important as a boy child. Besides, no one decides their fate. I honestly don't have a better way to communicate how concern I feel regarding this menace, but I do hope this message go a long way into fixing our hearts and opening our eyes to the reality that, that child under your care didn't choose to be a boy or a girl. As we reflect on this young girl's journey, we are compelled to ask: What can we do differently? How can we create a world where girls are valued, empowered, and educated? The answers, much like the solutions, will require a collective effort, a commitment to challenging the status quo, and a willingness to fight for the rights and dignity of girls everywhere. For this young girl, and for countless others like her, we must do better. We must create a world where education is a fundamental right, not a privilege reserved for the few.