STORY TIME 💃💃 NOTE:if you see dis and read please react and comment for me to continue 🥺🥺 Few years ago I asked a lady out for a lunch date through Facebook, She said she was going to bring her friend along since it was our first meeting. Abike and I have been chatting for a while now, so it was only nice i got to know her better. And I had already started catching feelings online So on the day for the date, I got prepared for it. I wore my best suit. I needed to Impress her. When I got to the restaurant which she choosed I was shocked; because it looked expensive. They have already ordered for two bottles of wine. One for her and her friend and one for me. I wanted leaving because I could not afford the wine. But Abike told me to calm down, that this was her treat since she is the one that choosed the restaurant. I was impressed but again uncomfortable, was this a set up? Many thoughts ran through my mind. During the lunch date we ate and drank. We had fun. Everything went perfectly. After the lunch I followed them to the Uber that took them home. That afternoon became my happiest moment. She just paid for our food and she didn't even ask me for Transport fare back home. 100% wife material i screamed out as uber drove off. So I went to my friends house to tell him about my date experience. I met him laying on the bed. And immediately i woke him up. Jide guy. I have found the one. I told Jide. Guy what's the problem? Jide asked me still waking up from sleep. Bro I went to that restaurant, Abike brought plus one as I told you. We ate, we drank and she paid for it. She didn't ask me for a dime. I said excited. You took a girl out on your first date and she paid? She didn't ask you to pay? Jide asked me. Yes na. To shock you even more as they were going, she ordered uber. I said. I know it. So you paid for the uber? Jide asked me. Oga allow me finish first. She ordered uber and she paid for it. I didn't pay. Guy I am calling this girl now to ask her to be my girlfriend. Like guy i have found the one. I said. Immediately my phone started ringing. It was Abike calling. Hello sweetheart Am in your house now. Where are you? Abike asked me over the phone. My friends house. What are you doing in my house? I asked confused. Come on babe. I just moved in. Please can you come home? The sun is too hot. Abike said. Guy what's going on? Jide asked me, I mute the call. Guy its Abike my Facebook date. She is in my house with her belongings. Omo bro you are a married man like this o. Jide said. I unmute the call. Abike are you joking with me? I asked Her over the phone. Babe na. Abike said. I had to hurriedly leave Jide's house and went to my own house. Behold I saw Abike sitting on my corridor with her bags and other stuffs. I blinked my eye to be sure of what I was seeing. I didn't remember asking her to be my girlfriend why this drama. What are you doing here? I asked Abike. Is that how you welcome your wife to be? Abike asked me smiling. Anyways I came for us to prepare for our wedding. Abike said as she left out an evil smile. From there i knew there was problem.

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Financial Mistakes Ladies Make in Their 20s & 30s That Can Ruin Their Future Your 20s and 30s are some of the most important years of your life. This is when you start making major financial decisions, some good, some bad. And let’s be real: money mistakes made in these years don’t just disappear; they follow you for years, sometimes even decades. If you don’t handle your money wisely now, you might wake up at 40 or 50, wondering where all your hard-earned money went. Here are some major financial mistakes women make in their 20s and 30s that can ruin their future. If you’re guilty of any of these, don’t panic, just start making changes today. 🛑 Overspending to Impress People Who Don’t Care This one is dangerous, yet so common. Too many ladies spend money they don’t have just to look good for people who aren’t even watching. - Buying expensive clothes, wigs, or designer bags you can’t afford just to keep up with trends. - Eating out at fancy restaurants every weekend to impress friends. - Going broke because of destination trips, birthday celebrations, and ‘soft life’ vibes. Listen, it’s great to look good and enjoy life, but NOT at the cost of your financial future. 📌What’s the point of looking rich if your bank account is crying? 🛑 Not Having Savings, Spending Everything You Earn If your account balance reads "0" at the end of every month, you’re in trouble. - No matter how much or how little you earn, ALWAYS save something. - Emergencies happen. Life is unpredictable. If you don’t have savings, one financial crisis can wipe you out completely. - Start small, just 10% of your income can make a big difference in the long run. 📌 A woman who has savings is a woman who has control over her life. 🛑 Depending on Men for Financial Security Ladies, listen carefully: NEVER put your entire financial future in the hands of a man. - Yes, it’s okay if your partner supports you, but you must have your own money. - Too many women give up their financial independence, only to regret it later when things go wrong. A financially independent woman is a powerful woman. No one can control you when you control your own money. 🛑 Avoiding Investment and Thinking ‘I’ll Figure It Out Later’ Many women think investing is for men or rich people. WRONG. - The earlier you start investing, the better. - Learn about stocks, real estate, or even small business investments. - Money sitting in your account is losing value—make your money work for you. 📌 Your future self will thank you for the smart choices you make today. 🛑 Accumulating Too Much Debt Debt can feel like a quick solution, but it can also be a lifelong trap. - Credit cards, unnecessary loans, buying things in installments, it all adds up. - Many women enter their 30s drowning in debt with nothing to show for it. - If you must take a loan, let it be for something that will increase your financial value (like education or business). 📌Debt steals your future wealth. Avoid it as much as possible. 🛑 Failing to Learn About Money - You don’t need to be a financial expert, but basic money knowledge is a MUST. - Read books, watch videos, attend seminars, educate yourself. - Financial freedom starts with financial education. If you don’t control money, money will control you. I hope you put this to use.

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A match made in Abia It was a sunny day in Umuahia, the capital city of Abia State, when Eme and Ike first met. Eme, a beautiful young woman with a bright smile, had attended a party with her friends. Ike, a handsome young man with a charming personality, had also been invited to the party. As fate would have it, Eme and Ike bumped into each other while dancing. They exchanged apologies, and Ike couldn't help but notice how beautiful Eme looked. Eme, too, was struck by Ike's charming smile. They started talking, and before long, they discovered they had a lot in common. Both were from Abia State, and they shared a love for afang soup and highlife music. Ike was impressed by Eme's intelligence and wit, while Eme was charmed by Ike's sense of humor and confidence. As the night wore on, they found themselves lost in conversation. Ike asked Eme for her number, and to his delight, she agreed. They exchanged numbers, and Ike couldn't wait to call her the next day. Their first date was a walk along the banks of the Imo River. They talked for hours, sharing stories and laughter. Ike was smitten, and Eme felt the same way. As the days turned into weeks, their love continued to grow. They would take long drives through the countryside, visit local markets, and try out new restaurants. Ike loved Eme's cooking, and Eme loved Ike's singing. One day, Ike took Eme to the same river where they had their first date. He got down on one knee, pulled out a small box, and asked Eme to marry him. Eme was overwhelmed with emotion, but she managed to say yes. Their wedding was a beautiful celebration of their love, with friends and family from all over Abia State in attendance. They spent their honeymoon in a cozy little cottage in the hills, watching the sunset over the rolling hills. Years later, Ike and Eme are still going strong. They have two beautiful children, and they continue to live in Abia State, surrounded by the people and places they love.

♥ Whether it be a romantic dinner at a fancy restaurant or a simple walk in the park, every moment we spend together is pure magic!

I'm che@ting on my husband and I don't feel guilty about it. Not one bit. Maybe I should, but I don't. Let me explain. I met my husband back in my 200 level days. It was love at first sight, or so I thought. He was in 300 level, and the connection was instant. We became inseparable, dating all through my university years until he graduated. Life happened, though. After his graduation, we lost touch, but fate wasn't done with us. Four years after I graduated, we reunited on Facebook like long-lost soulmates. At the time, I was in a relationship and so was he. But our spark reignited and in no time, we both broke things off with our partners to give our love another shot. At least I did and I believed him when he said he had ended things too. The next few months were magical. We were like love struck teenagers. Our relationship was so good, so much so that he proposed, and I said yes. Fast forward two years into our marriage, and I find myself in a new relationship. I don't even know how it happened but my new love makes my heart race in ways my husband never could. I can't go a day without hearing his voice; it's like air to me. My husband is always busy at work, leaving me with plenty of time to nurture this other connection. I am not working at the moment, so my husband takes care of all my needs financially. But all the money he gives me ends up being spent on this new guy. I buy him clothes, gifts, and even food when he's hungry because he doesn't have a job. Yet, no matter what I do, he never shows any appreciation. I have never gotten a thank you from him before. One time, I bought him expensive shoes. Guess what he did? He refused to wear them and even threw them back in my face. The one that shocked me was when I took him out to eat at a fast-food restaurant while my husband was at work. After ordering food, I tried to feed him in public, you know public display of affection is one of my love languages but he sl@pped the food out of my hand—right there in public! He pointed at my bre@sts & literally grabbed them. He loves my breasts more than anything else in the world. That's how I had no choice but to open my bra & breastfeed my 1 year old son right there in the middle of the eatery. Yes, I love my son more than I could ever love anyone, even my husband. And honestly, I think my husband feels the same way about him. So, technically, it's not che@ting. 😜😜😜

There are people you have grossly overrated on social media. In real life, they are not worth 5% of what you think they are worth. There are also lots of people you have grossly underrated on social media but in real life, they are real Odogwus. Social Media covers a multitude of secrets. Never make the mistake of rating people because of the number of followers they have or the number of glamorous pictures and videos they share. In expensive restaurants, those who pay the bills hardly take pictures. Those who do not pay the bills are the ones who take all the pictures and videos because they are not sure when next they will be there. #Danloader

You found him on Facebook You checked his profile picture He is handsome He DM you You reply, all excited You all want to hook up You set a date You dress up that leggings with no underwear You're smelling good You put on a makeup, fresh breath and new weave He takes you for a launch at a fancy restaurant He takes you out for a drink and ice cream You two have a good time He rubs your hand Makes you laugh Gives you looks and smiles You stupidly fall in love It's like you've known him for some years He took you to his apartment He makes you feel comfortable and lays u on his bed Kiss you passionately U love his aggression, strength, power and you give in It feels good U know it's wrong, but it's feel good U ask for protection, he says it's too late U obey and don't disturb He says he loves you and you don't hesitate to say you love him too He hits it nice and slow After, he goes to the kitchen to get a glass of water He helps you drink it, oooh man U feel special "He must be the one" you think to yourself U get dressed He takes you to the taxi park He kisses you on the cheeks and says "I had a great time," Gives u cash U smile and say "See you tomorrow babe" He stays silent Your taxi drives away In the taxi u can't stop smiling U get home and inbox him dat u got home safe He is online, but doesn't reply It's like unlike him, so u inbox him again He doesn't respond Minutes later you can't find him on your friend list HE BLOCKED U Days, weeks and months passes by U started feeling sick, weak, loose weight n act strange with sores in ur mouth U go to clinic Get tested Minutes later Nurse walks in "I'm sorry. u're HIV positive n pregnant "HOW?" U don't understand Reality hits u U walk home Scared Confused U go to d bus stop U lay, hopeless and emotionless U see death coming nearer U look into the sky and mumble a prayer Dat's d end of u Don't be dat girl! Live well.Stop chasing material things.5 minutes pleasure can ruin ur life🤷🤷

Sometime last year, this woman that I know to a large extent was passing my restaurant with a man. She saw me, stopped and was dragging the man playfully that he should come let them eat at my place, that my food is nice. (she laughs a lot and is very free by nature) This man rebuffed her like a child saying, paraphrased “na anywhere you see you go wan enter? If you no fit hold yourself, dey go, you go meet me for house” I wish I was making this post as a video, maybe I would be able to explain with the actual demonstration and face expression on this man’s face. You would think he’s talking to a five year old. I felt embarrassed for her, and a little bad that they didn’t come to eat that day, but I shrugged it off. She on the other hand just stylishly said they will come another time, while laughing and placing her hand on his shoulder as they walked away. *** For context, she’s a single mother. Her husband died years ago, so I believe this is a new relationship as I’ve not seen her with any man till that day. I had to bring up the above 👆🏻 in order for you to understand better my experience day before yesterday’s night. So on Tuesday Night, this lady and the man walked into my restaurant. They asked what I had and I told them. Then the man asked the lady to choose for him. She chose Native soup. Next thing this man said something in Igbo (of course not knowing I’m Igbo) which is weird cos the name of my restaurant would give anyone an idea. He said “do these people know how to cook soup, let alone native soup. That who knows how it will even taste. That it’s not to decorate a place that is the issue, but for the food to have taste, not this nonsense they cook” I don’t even know what he meant by “they” or where he assumed I was from. And the way he said this, very very condescending! The woman started telling him in hush tone that he shouldn’t have said that. He should have waited to taste the food first. I ignored and simply told them the price of food plus that they will have to pay before I serve. He started ranting again. That why would he pay for something he hasn’t seen, then asking the lady if that’s how we do here. The lady gave me sign of “I should please serve and not worry” I could tell she was embarrassed and being that I know her to her house, I made an exception. I served them food. I had actually thought it was the lady who was eating so I placed it before her. They eyes he gave me eh. The lady just moved the tray to him and now said she wanted pepper soup and malt. He angrily told her to eat what he’s eating. She argued that it’s late and she doesn’t want to eat fufu at night. He then told her to starve then as he’s not buying anything else. All these transpired in Igbo. Dear God, was I boiling inside 🤦🏼‍♀️ But I kept my cool of course. I’ve had my share of very rude customers, just that I was feeling for the lady. She had no choice than to join him to eat. When it was time to pay, he started complaining about the price. How he won’t come back if I don’t give him discount (remember I made the price known from onset o) When he saw I wasn’t responding, he brought out cash. I stood up to collect it, he took it back. Said he would transfer, I called account for him, it didn’t go through. He started telling the lady to pay, she said she wasn’t with cash and didn’t bring her phone. He said he needed to use the cash and couldn’t give it to me. Omo eh… Eventually, he gave me the cash as he didn’t see any other way forward. The lady told me thank you in Igbo and that I am doing well. I responded in Igbo too and he then said “so she’s Igbo and acting like oyibo” The way he even refers to me like I’m not there is what’s funny. What brought about this post is that when they were leaving, the woman came back to apologize. Telling me I shouldn’t mind him and all he did, that it’s how he is. I then asked “why be with someone who constantly disrespects and embarrasses you, especially in public” she said it’s cos he’s trying financially. That he just paid all her children’s school fees, so the load has been lifted off of her a little. I told her it’s well as she joyfully left. Like this lady is so full of joy and laughter that I don’t feel she deserves him. But who am I to have a say. He’s probably great in many other areas I’m not seeing so I wish them well. #myrestaurauntseries #portharcourtfoodvendor #ofeakwuboss