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Sometimes it’s better to move on than to hold on to a person who doesn’t understand you. Sometimes your absence will teach what your presence cannot...
Hey you, Stop breaking your own heart by trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn’t meant to work. You can’t force someone to care about you. You can’t force someone to be loyal. You can’t force someone to be the person you need them to be.
I’ll be real with you, sometimes the person you want most is the person you’re best without. You have got to understand some things are meant to happen, but just not meant to be. Some things are meant to come in your life, just not meant to stay.
Don’t lose yourself by trying to fix what's meant to stay broken. You can’t get the relationship you need from someone who’s not ready to give it you. And I know it’s hard when your heart has labeled that person as someone you could spend forever with, but you just have to accept that they’re not that person anymore. And you might not understand WHY NOW, but I promise you your future will always bring understanding of why things didn’t work out. TRUST ME
It is better to be alone and be happy than to be in a miserable relationship...
Whoever sees you as an option doesn't deserve to be a priority in your life, you call him honey but he treats you like a monkey, He is your everything but you are nothing to him, you are doing everything to make it work, but he keeps thinking you are desperate and turns all your efforts to weakness...

#Relationshiptips
#Love
#lifegoeson

If I am not your first choice, please don't waste my time. Don't chase me if I'm not the one you truly want to be with. Don't play games. Don't love me in halves.

If I am not your first choice, don't encourage me to share myself with you. Don't let me open up to you about my past, my childhood, my fears. Don't let me reveal my soul to you if you're not ready to nurture it. Don't ask for a place in my heart if you're not planning on staying there. Don't awaken my love if you're not ready to love me. Don't hold me if you'll easily let me go.

If I am not your first choice, don't stop me from finding the one who would put me first. Don't lie to me and tell me that I'm the only one when you're still juggling options. It is okay to not know what you want, but please, if that is the case just let me go.

If I am not your first choice, please leave. Leave and don't disturb my peace. Leave instead of half-loving me. Leave instead of lying to me. Leave because I don't need this kind of darkened hope in my life. Leave before I get hurt enough to leave you. Leave before you leave a mark. Leave, because I can't keep sharing my world with you if you're distracted.

If I am not your first choice, please leave. Because I'm the kind of person who pours when I love, who cares more than most. I am the kind of person who believes in rare connections. I'm the kind of person who will write you love letters, and make sure that you know you're enough when you doubt the way your heart beats. I'm the kind of person who will give you every part of me, but I need you to meet me there. You can't meet me half-way. You can't ask me to quiet the way I love. You can't ask me to settle for an almost. I'm the kind of person who wants all or nothing, who believes that a person's love isn't rare if everyone gets it, and I won't settle until I find someone who is ready. I won't settle until I find someone who is not afraid to choose me.
#Relationshiptips
#Lifegoeson

Don't sacrifice your happiness for a woman.
Don't train any woman in school.
Don't give any woman a life that you have not given to yourself.
Dont pedestalize any woman.
Don't empower any woman unless you are 90x better than her.
Listen to me brothers: IF you know how fast women forget the good deeds and sacrifices you did for her, you will fear women.
The truth is, all the things you are doing for her means absolutely nothing to her and you will only discovers this when she finds your replacement and that is not difficult for her.
The only time women remember is the bad you did to them and not the good.
A woman's loyalty is not guaranteed.
Anything you are doing for a woman just count it as loss, never do for a woman what you can not let go.
Be wise.

#Relationshiptips
#lifegoeson

HEALTH TIPS FOR LADIES.

1. Always wash your vagina after sex to avoid odour.
2. Drink plenty of water every day so as to wash bacteria and infections out of your body.
3. Always massage your breast before bed time, or let your man such it so hard to avoid cancer.
4. Don't wash your vagina with any kind of soap. Clean water alone is enough.
5. If you are the type that likes giving her man #BlowJob, try as much as you can to brush your teeth/mouth morning and night, and take a cup of lemon , warm water every morning after brushing, to avoid mouth odour/mouth infection.
6. Always shave your armpits and public hair.
7. As a lady, take lots of yogurts and pineapples because, it helps in making vagina healthy and sweet during sex.
8. Use good pads during your periods, and change it when it full.
9. Take your bath at least twice everyday especially when you are on your menses.
10. Change your sets of panties and bras always, at least, once in three months...
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*HEALTH TIPS FOR A HEALTHY LIVING.

1. For stress, eat banana and watermelon.

2. For good skin, eat lemon, apple, coconut and carrot.

3. For good eyes, eat carrot, apple and vitamin A.

4. For cough, eat pineapple, garlic and ginger.

5. For diarrhea, eat coconut and avocado and cabbage.

6. For good gut, eat cabbage, garlic and onions.

7. For hydration, eat cucumber orange and watermelon.

8. For good kidney, drink 2-3 liters of water a day, eat beans and tomato.

9. For good heart, eat avocado, eat Beans, garlic and onions.

10. For good prostate, eat tomato, Sour sop and carrots and beans.

11. For more red blood cells, eat beetroot, carrot and cucumber.

12. For strong bones & immunity, eat eggs, fish and beef.

Stay Healthy
#healthyliving
#healthiswealth

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GRAB & GO FRUIT BOXES

I love making these I always eat alot more fruit

Watermelon
Strawberries and grapes
Blueberries
Kiwi

Staying fit involves a combination of exercise, proper nutrition, and healthy habits. Here are some tips to help you stay on track:

1. Stay Consistent: Regular exercise is key. Aim for at least 30 minutes of moderate-intensity activity most days of the week. Find something you enjoy to make it easier to stick with it.


2. Mix Up Your Workouts: Incorporate a variety of activities like cardio, strength training, and flexibility exercises to keep things interesting and prevent plateaus.

#getfitwithArnie

Tips for staying fit......Walk with me
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10 TIPS TO BECOME AN EXCELLENT PUBLIC SPEAKER

1. Practice and prepare.
Nervousness is normal, but practicing your speech or presentation beforehand can help you feel more confident and prepared.

2. Know your audience.
Understand who you will be speaking to and tailor your message to resonate with them. Consider their interests, knowledge level, and any cultural or demographic factors.

3. Study great public speakers.
Watch and learn from exceptional speakers to observe their body language 1, delivery style, and techniques for engaging the audience.

4. Use visual aids effectively.
Utilize visual aids such as slides or props to enhance your presentation, but ensure they support your message rather than distract from it.

5. Speak with enthusiasm.
Show genuine enthusiasm for your topic, as it will help captivate your audience and make your message more memorable.

6. Focus on body language.
Pay attention to your posture, gestures, and facial expressions. Maintain eye contact with the audience and use confident body language to convey your message effectively.

7. Engage the audience.
Encourage audience participation through questions, interactive activities, or storytelling. This helps create a connection and keeps their attention.

8. Control your voice.
Vary your tone, pitch, and pace to add emphasis and keep the audience engaged. Practice using pauses effectively to allow important points to sink in.

9. Manage nerves.
Accept that nervousness is normal and channel that energy into enthusiasm. Deep breathing exercises, positive self-talk, and visualization techniques can help calm nerves before speaking.

10. Seek feedback and improve.
After each speaking engagement, ask for feedback from trusted individuals or join a public speaking group. Continuously work on improving your skills based on constructive criticism.

Remember, becoming an excellent public speaker takes time and practice.