The son:
Mom look at this woman! This is exactly the kind I want to marry! She is so beautiful!

The mom (softly smiling):
My son, I understand that you are attracted to her beauty, but let me give you some advice: beauty alone is not enough to build a married life.

The son (intrigued):
Why, Mom? A beautiful woman like her would make me so happy.

The mother (serious but kind):
My son, a woman can be beautiful in the eyes of everyone, but the true beauty, the one that lasts, is in her heart and character. Look for a woman who will respect you, who will accompany you in the trials of life and who will support you in your dreams.

The son (thinking):
But mommy if she's beautiful and has a good character why not?

The mom (with an accomplice smile):
Sure it can my son. But remember that the ideal woman is not the one who attracts everyone's attention, but the one who is devoted to you, who will make you grow, and who will bring you peace. Don't just trust appearances, they fade with time. Look for the one that will make your soul happy, not just your eyes.

The son (shy smile):
I think I understand it mom. Thanks for your advice.. I will think more before I choose.

The mom (putting her hand on her shoulder):
Take your time son True love is often found where you least expect it. And above all, choose the one who will make you a better man.

Morale :
Don't judge only by appearances, because the true value of a person lies in their heart, character and ability to accompany you through ups and downs of life.

TIME WASTERS!

Your 24 hours is precious. Don't waste it.

If I get more hours daily, I will appreciate it but I can't get more. We all given 24 hours. How well we use it determines where we end in life!

Some use theirs wisely and achieve success faster, some waste theirs and end up at the bottom!

The purpose of marriage is to help each other become great. Everything you do in courtship should be moving you towards greatness not premarital sex!

Your discussion, mannerism, character, dressing, dating -everything should be pushing you towards your divine destiny!

You should know your partner's vision/dream/aspirations/goals as soon as possible and start building each other up towards that end. That is what courtship is about.

If all you do is kiss, romance, pet and have sex, you are sick spirit and soul and eventually, your mind and body breaks down!

Because if you are not succeeding, you will breakdown!

You can't succeed if you don't plan, talk and act towards success!

If you are both in school, all you should talk about is how to graduate as first class students and how to be on fire for God!!!

If all you do is sex chat, masturbate and have sex like crazy, honestly, you need help. Your actions are not normal for a single person who has a glorious destiny to fulfil.

You shall be great!!!

See you at the top!

Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

© Seun Oladele,

This generation need to
understand this:
Chose a soul. not a body, Chose a heart not a face
Chose behaviour. Not wealth
Chose words. not a voice
Chose kindness, not appearance,
Chose honesty, not fame, Chose loyalty, not status, Chose actions, not promises, Chose love, not perfection.

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I’m so happy that you have finally found your soul mate in life. Treasure her and her love in your heart and never let anything take you apart from each other. Happy engagement!

Life: A Beautiful, Messy, and Precious Gift

"Life is a journey, not a destination." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Life is a complex tapestry woven from threads of joy and sorrow, triumph and failure, love and loss. It's a mysterious and unpredictable adventure that unfolds with each passing moment.

In the grand scheme of things, our time on this earth is fleeting. Yet, within this brief window, we experience an incredible range of emotions, connections, and growth.

Life is:

A sunrise that paints the sky with vibrant hues
A warm hug from a loved one
A good laugh that echoes through the soul
A quiet moment of reflection that sparks clarity

Life is also:

A stormy night that tests our resilience
A difficult conversation that challenges our empathy
A setback that forces us to re-evaluate our path
A goodbye that leaves an ache in our hearts

Through it all, life reminds us of its preciousness and fragility. It urges us to cherish every moment, to love without condition, and to live with intention.

As we navigate life's twists and turns, let's remember to:

Breathe deeply and appreciate the beauty around us
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HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR MR RIGHT QUICKER AND FASTER...

Some ladies think being friendly with guys will make them think they are cheap so they act aloof or tough to keep their "dignity" and "honour", you may never attract your soul mate that way.

What makes a lady cheap is pre-marital sex or allowing guys to touch her inappropriately. Desperation -chasing a guy who has no single interest in you also makes you cheap, aside that baby, no where are you cheap for God's sake! Loosen up!

Being friendly with guys won't make you lose rapture, neither will your virginity disappear because you smile at godly brothers.

Be friendly. Friendly ladies easily attract suitors. Learn to smile. Stop carrying the problem of your lineage on your head! Everyone has problems please, we all must learn to handle our challenges with maturity!

Stop treating guys like trash so they can see you as super high! Stop acting like you don't need a man, you need a man, that is why you are a woman and a man needs you.

You need a man sweetheart. Be humble, acknowledge it and make yourself approachable, likeable and lovable. If you don't need a man in your life, you won't be envying your friends and siblings who are getting married.

That you made mistakes in the past doesn't mean you should now act cold to show true repentance, no! The Bible says, "A man that hath friends must himself be friendly". If you want men to troop towards you, be friendly!

Caution needs to be taken though, lest your being friendly turns to something else. Set boundaries. Don't allow men touch you inappropriately in the name of being friendly with you. Don't visit guys in their apartments including your Pastor if the wife is not around.

Don't run after a guy that does not respond to or reciprocate your friendliness. Friendship is a two way thing. I call you, you call me. I respect you, you respect me. If you are the one doing all the calls, reaching out, etc, that friendship is sick and you need to re-define it.

Friendly ladies attract suitors faster and easier. Read my ebooks: "How To Attract Your Perfect Soul Mate", "Soul Mate, Where Are You?" "Overcoming Marital Delay", "Lies That Break Marriages" and "Super Successful Courtship", " Super Successful Marriage" etc for more info on attracting, keeping and getting married to your soul mate. With God and adequate knowledge, a blissful marriage is surely guaranteed!

You will not miss it!

Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

© Seun Oladele
To order for any of the books, chat me up on WhatsApp: +2348077111690.

It is well with our souls...amen

JESUS LOVES YOU. HE IS COMING SOON. PLEASE REPENT. YOUR SOUL IS TOO PRECIOUS TO WASTE.

Psalms 23:3 He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake.

What made me fall in love with you?
Your authenticity. your imperfections. your laugh. your radiant smile. your eyes. your heart. your unwavering honesty. your kindness. your emotional maturity. your dreams. your goals and your beautiful soul.

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