Wealthy people pay for time, lazy people pay for distractions.
Choose what you pay for wisely.

THE HIGH COST OF A FEW MINUTES OF PLEASURE

Why Sexual Discipline Is a Must for Every Man

Some men have destroyed their entire future for just a few minutes in bed.
Some have lost their money, health, focus, and even their lives—just because they couldn’t control their urges.

Lust is expensive—but many don’t realize the price until it’s too late.

If you think a little “fun” can’t ruin you, let me remind you:

Samson lost his strength to Delilah.

David risked his kingdom for Bathsheba.

Many great men have been reduced to nothing—all because of a few minutes of pleasure.

Oga, wake up before you become the next victim.

WHAT SEXUAL INDULGENCE WILL COST YOU

1. YOUR MONEY

Sex is not cheap—especially in today’s world.

One "babe" says, “I need urgent 2K.” You send it.

Another one says, “I need my hair done.” You pay.

Another one says, “My rent is due.” You cover it.

Before you know it, your bank account is dry—but guess what? The same women will leave you for the next man with more money.

Ask yourself:

How many successful men waste money on women before building themselves?

How many rich men spend recklessly on pleasure without making sure their empire is secured?

If money is power, why would you drain yourself just to impress someone who will forget you tomorrow?

Solution: Secure your finances before you secure a woman.

2. YOUR HEALTH

Casual sex comes with consequences.

STDs don’t care if you were just “having fun.”

Unwanted pregnancies don’t care if you were “not ready.”

Stress, anxiety, and emotional drama come as part of the package.

Many men have ruined their health chasing after pleasure.
From infections to lifelong regrets, the body always pays the price.

Solution: Control your body before it destroys you.

3. YOUR FOCUS & DISCIPLINE

Every time you chase pleasure, you waste:

Time you could use to build yourself.

Energy you could use to achieve success.

Discipline that makes you strong as a man.

Oga, the men at the top didn’t get there by chasing women all day.
They built themselves first—then women came as a result.

But many of you?

You are busy DMing women instead of learning skills.

You are on dating apps instead of reading books.

You are watching porn instead of working on your goals.

And then you wonder why life is hard.

Solution: Master your discipline, and success will follow.

4. YOUR REPUTATION

Men don’t respect weak men.
And nothing weakens a man more than being controlled by lust.

If you’re chasing every woman in town, people talk.

If you’re sleeping around recklessly, people notice.

If you’re addicted to sex and pleasure, people lose respect for you.

You may think nobody knows—but the streets are always watching.

And when real opportunities come, your bad reputation will close doors in your face.

Solution: Build a name that commands respect, not mockery.

5. YOUR DESTINY

History is full of men who had great potential but lost everything to women, sex, and pleasure.

Politicians destroyed by scandals.

Businessmen ruined by side chicks.

Athletes and celebrities who lost their wealth because they couldn’t control themselves.

For what? A few minutes of pleasure?

One bad decision can cost you your entire future.

Solution: Think long-term. Don’t let short-term pleasure destroy your lifetime success.

BOTTOM LINE: DISCIPLINE OR DESTRUCTION?

Sex isn’t bad—but lack of control will destroy you.

A moment of pleasure can cost you years of regret.

An undisciplined man will always be a slave to his desires.

If you can’t control your lust, someone else will control you through it.

The greatest men in history were masters of their discipline—not slaves to their desires.

So choose wisely:

Will you be strong enough to build your future?

Or will you waste it all for a few minutes of pleasure?

The choice is yours.

Health is wealth

As part of my commitment to encouraging a conducive learning environment and quality education of our people, I commissioned and handed over an academic block, which I built, to Maurid College of Nursing Science, Mbiaso, Nsit Ibom local government area, during its maiden matriculation ceremony of 300 students, where I served as chairman on the occasion, yesterday.

I also promised to install solar-powered lightings around the institution's premises to ensure security of the students and property at night.

I used the opportunity to charge the prospective healthcare professionals to focus on their studies, so that upon graduation, they will fill the manpower gap created in the health sector by migration of other professionals for greener pastures.

Part of my address to them reads; "Your journey to becoming healthcare professionals is a call to service and humanity. This is further buttressed in the popular maxim that "health is wealth." This is in line with Harvey S. Firestone's philosophy that "the growth and development of people is the highest calling of leadership."

"This quote has consistently guided my life and activities both in private and public service. It is the propelling force behind my mega empowerment, scholarship, bursary, skill acquisition, facilitation of jobs in strategic Federal Ministries, Departments and Agencies (MDAs) and foreign trainings to Akwa Ibom people."

"Also, the newly completed edifice, which shall be commissioned and donated to the institution today, is my modest effort to encourage this massive investment and, most especially, to ensure you get a conducive learning environment."

"These efforts are aimed at raising Akwa Ibom men and women who are stable enough to compete favourably with their counterparts globally."

Worthy of commendation is the Chairman of Maurid Group of Schools, Dr. Godwin Umontuen, for his foresight and investment in education, and for being a true patriot who cares about the development of the state and country.

His massive investment is interwoven with love and patriotism for the country at the centre. It is selfless, with clear intention to train and equip health professionals needed to provide healthcare services for mankind.

*To all the incredible mothers, wishing you a Happy Mother's Day filled with love, joy, and appreciation for all you do! May your day be as special as you are.*
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A person with a robust network of people is stronger than an individual with only money."

This proverb emphasizes the importance of building and fostering relationships, as they can be more valuable than wealth.

Financial Mistakes Ladies Make in Their 20s & 30s That Can Ruin Their Future

Your 20s and 30s are some of the most important years of your life. This is when you start making major financial decisions, some good, some bad.

And let’s be real: money mistakes made in these years don’t just disappear; they follow you for years, sometimes even decades.

If you don’t handle your money wisely now, you might wake up at 40 or 50, wondering where all your hard-earned money went.

Here are some major financial mistakes women make in their 20s and 30s that can ruin their future. If you’re guilty of any of these, don’t panic, just start making changes today.

Overspending to Impress People Who Don’t Care
This one is dangerous, yet so common. Too many ladies spend money they don’t have just to look good for people who aren’t even watching.

- Buying expensive clothes, wigs, or designer bags you can’t afford just to keep up with trends.

- Eating out at fancy restaurants every weekend to impress friends.

- Going broke because of destination trips, birthday celebrations, and ‘soft life’ vibes.

Listen, it’s great to look good and enjoy life, but NOT at the cost of your financial future.

What’s the point of looking rich if your bank account is crying?

Not Having Savings, Spending Everything You Earn
If your account balance reads "0" at the end of every month, you’re in trouble.

- No matter how much or how little you earn, ALWAYS save something.

- Emergencies happen. Life is unpredictable. If you don’t have savings, one financial crisis can wipe you out completely.

- Start small, just 10% of your income can make a big difference in the long run.

A woman who has savings is a woman who has control over her life.

Depending on Men for Financial Security

Ladies, listen carefully: NEVER put your entire financial future in the hands of a man.

- Yes, it’s okay if your partner supports you, but you must have your own money.

- Too many women give up their financial independence, only to regret it later when things go wrong.

A financially independent woman is a powerful woman. No one can control you when you control your own money.

Avoiding Investment and Thinking ‘I’ll Figure It Out Later’

Many women think investing is for men or rich people. WRONG.

- The earlier you start investing, the better.

- Learn about stocks, real estate, or even small business investments.

- Money sitting in your account is losing value—make your money work for you.

Your future self will thank you for the smart choices you make today.

Accumulating Too Much Debt

Debt can feel like a quick solution, but it can also be a lifelong trap.

- Credit cards, unnecessary loans, buying things in installments, it all adds up.

- Many women enter their 30s drowning in debt with nothing to show for it.

- If you must take a loan, let it be for something that will increase your financial value (like education or business).

Debt steals your future wealth. Avoid it as much as possible.

Failing to Learn About Money

- You don’t need to be a financial expert, but basic money knowledge is a MUST.

- Read books, watch videos, attend seminars, educate yourself.

- Financial freedom starts with financial education.

If you don’t control money, money will control you.

I hope you put this to use.