Achievement Motivation: • Setting and achieving educational goals fosters a growth mindset. • Success in academics often serves as a stepping stone to other personal aspirations

I know a lot of men want to marry g!rls in their early 20s largely because of their youthfulness, But the truth is, while their youth is enticing, g!rls within that age range still have so much to learn from life. AGE shapes a woman better than education or exposure can ever do. There are things only age can teach a w||man. No matter how exposed or educated a girl in her early 20s, she still believes she has time, And that concept of “I’m still young” creates an HINDERANCE and doesn’t give her the URGENCY she needs to face life or plan her life. Assuming she’s 21-22, even if she waste 3 years of her life chasing fantasies, she’ll still be 25 and still in her prime. But a 25 year old girl cannot afford to waste 3 years of her life chasing fantasies because now she feels the URGENCY. URGENCY shapes a woman’s mindset, because age serves as a constant reminder that she cannot afford to waste any more years on fruitless dating or social activities. If you hang around sensible ladies in their late 20s or early 30s, the energy flow is different, the conversation is different. They’re thinking business, investments, family values, how to ensure they’re not liabilities to their man and how to support him. While majority of girls in their early 20s are discussing Saidaboj, thinking hairdo, fancy nails, latest fashion, phones with clean camera and how to find a man that’ll spoil them. They often come to dates empty handed, No transportation, no data to chat, no airtime to call, “ Babe I don’t like what they cooked at home. 🤦‍♂️ 90% of girls in their early 20s, do not like being asked what they’d bring to the table, they find it offensive because they still think they’ve got time and options. ( To be fair, they’re brokies) Only 10% of them are built different but even at that, age is still a factor, You’d have to be patient with them. The mindset of “ I’m still young “ HINDERS a lot of them from taking their lives seriously and it is completely natural.

Before NYSC 1. Get your statement of results 2. Request your academic transcript or download the one on your portal and merge it into a PDF. 3. Request for proof of English as the language of instruction in your university (letter from the registrar's office). 4. Ensure that you have a good relationship with at least 3 lecturers. Done and dusted is dangerous!!!! You are not done until you are done. During NYSC 1. Write standardized exams in line with your next phase of life (GRE, TOEFL, GMAT, etc) Note: The US embassy in Nigeria funds some of these through the opportunity fund program. 2. Explore professional training and certifications (ICAN, NIM etc). 3. Do not ignore the opportunity to Intern (research assistantship, Ass. QC analysts, etc). 4. Explore Opportunities (some described below). A. Scholarships Local: BEA, OFP (US embassy), NNPC, Shell, etc. Regional: Pan African University Scholarship etc. International: Chevening, Commonwealth, MasterCard etc. Institutional: Vice Chancellor scholarships, sports or art scholarships etc. NOTE: If the International scholarship is your choice, no one needs your NYSC certificate before you can start applying. B. Grants Regional: Tony Elumelu Foundation Grant.... International: Geneva Challenge....... C. Fellowships (No international trip during NYSC, don't forget ☺️) D. Conferences (No international trip during NYSC don't forget ☺️) 5. Let your CDS contribution be remarkable (a recommendation letter acknowledging your role will be important). 6. Don't run with the multitude, realities after NYSC differ. 7. Don't be under pressure (After NYSC what Next???), You may hasten yourself to many errors. 8. Grow yourself in Welcoming rejections, you may get a few while applying. 9. Apply as much as you can 10. Pray as much as you can. Note: Create two CVs (one academic and one general). It helps to maximize your applications. After NYSC If you haven't accomplished any of the above, 1. Be truthful to yourself (Are you willing to stay in the state of deployment or go back home?) 2. Resist pressure (Being alive is more important than anything else, don't let anyone overpush you). 3. Develop a mindset that no one owes you anything (It helps in managing disappointment). 4. Identify platforms where legal opportunities are shared. A. LinkedIn B. Twitter C. Opportunity desk D. Opportunity for Africans E. Scholarship hub. Etc. 5. While applying and waiting, get yourself busy 1. Write a manuscript from your undergraduate project 2. Submit conference abstracts 3. Register with an organization (volunteer) and start gathering experience. 4. Start learning a hands-on skill that you may need later in life. Could also be digital training in Bioinformatics, data science, AI, ML, Coding, Programming, etc. If all of these fail???? Keep trying! You only need one major opportunity! When it comes, you'll forget the days of pains Let that keep you motivated. Written by afolayan Samuel The Lord is helping us!!!🙏🙏 Follow this page for more

Leadership and Personal Growth 1. _Developing Emotional Intelligence_: How to develop self-awareness, empathy, and social skills. 2. _Building Confidence and Self-Esteem_: Strategies for building confidence and self-esteem. 3. _Effective Communication Skills_: How to communicate effectively and build strong relationships. 4. _Leadership Skills for Success_: How to develop leadership skills and achieve success. 5. _Cultivating a Growth Mindset_: How to develop a growth mindset and achieve your goals. Overcoming Obstacles 1. _Overcoming Anxiety and Depression_: Strategies for managing anxiety and depression. 2. _Building Resilience in the Face of Adversity_: How to develop resilience and bounce back from adversity. 3. _Coping with Stress and Burnout_: Tips for managing stress and avoiding burnout. 4. _Overcoming Self-Doubt and Imposter Syndrome_: Strategies for building confidence and overcoming self-doubt. 5. _Finding Purpose and Meaning in Life_: How to discover your purpose and live a fulfilling life.

Here are some more motivational topic ideas: Inspiration and Motivation 1. _The Power of Positive Thinking_: How a positive mindset can change your life. 2. _Overcoming Fear and Doubt_: Strategies for building confidence and overcoming self-doubt. 3. _The Importance of Self-Care_: Taking care of your physical, mental, and emotional well-being. 4. _Embracing Failure as a Learning Opportunity_: How to learn from mistakes and setbacks. 5. _Cultivating Resilience_: Developing the ability to bounce back from adversity. Productivity and Goal-Setting 1. _Setting and Achieving Goals_: Strategies for setting and achieving your goals. 2. _Time Management Techniques_: How to prioritize tasks and manage your time effectively. 3. _Avoiding Procrastination_: Strategies for overcoming procrastination and staying focused. 4. _Building a Morning Routine_: How to start your day on a positive note. 5. _Staying Motivated and Focused_: Tips for maintaining motivation and focus.

The Power of Positive Thinking: Does It Really Work? Positive thinking is the practice of focusing on good thoughts and expecting the best outcomes. Many believe it can improve your life in various ways, but does it really work? When you think positively, you tend to approach problems with confidence instead of fear. For example, if you’re facing a tough situation, a positive mindset can help you stay calm and find solutions. Studies show that positive thinkers are often healthier, less stressed, and more motivated. However, positive thinking alone doesn’t guarantee success. You need to combine it with effort, planning, and action. Simply wishing for something good to happen without working toward it won’t bring results. In short, positive thinking works best when paired with hard work. It helps you stay optimistic, resilient, and focused, even when life gets tough. So yes, positive thinking is powerful—but only if you take action along with it.

🌟 7 Rules of Life to Live By🌟 Living a fulfilling life can sometimes feel like a challenge, but these 7 simple rules can guide us towards happiness and personal growth. Let's dive into each one: 1. LET IT GO - "Never ruin a good day by thinking about a bad yesterday." Holding onto past regrets or mistakes can cloud our present joy. Embrace the present and let go of what no longer serves you. 2. IGNORE THEM - "Don't listen to other people. Live a life that's empowering to you." We often let external opinions dictate our choices. Remember, your life is yours to live. Focus on what truly empowers and fulfills you, not what others think. 3. GIVE IT TIME - "Time heals everything." Patience is key. Whether it's emotional wounds or personal goals, time often provides the perspective and healing we need. Trust in the process. 4. DON'T COMPARE - "The only person you should try to beat is the person you were yesterday." Comparison can be the thief of joy. Instead of measuring yourself against others, focus on your own growth and improvement. 5. STAY CALM - "It's okay not to have everything figured out. Know that in time, you'll get there." Life is unpredictable, and it's normal not to have all the answers. Staying calm allows us to navigate through life's uncertainties with grace. 6. IT'S ON YOU - "Only you are in charge of your happiness." This is a powerful reminder that while external factors can influence us, our happiness ultimately depends on our own actions and mindset. Take control of your joy. 7. SMILE - "Life is short. Enjoy it while you have it." A smile can change your mood, your day, and even someone else's. It's a simple act that reminds us to find joy in the little moments. Remember, life is a journey, not a destination. These rules are here to guide us in making the most of our time on this earth. Share your thoughts or how you apply these rules in your life in the comments below! 😊✨ #LifeRules #PersonalGrowth #Happiness #Mindfulness #SelfImprovement #everyone #danloafers

Everyone with their own mindset

Start each day with mindset of faith , everything will work out fine to my favor today.