"Here’s a little thought for today: Life isn’t about having it all figured out, it’s about enjoying the little things along the way. So take a deep breath, count your blessings, and don’t forget to laugh a little louder today. You’ve got this!"

I need a little reminder

"Just a little note to brighten your day: You’re doing amazing, even if it doesn’t feel like it sometimes. Keep shining, keep smiling, and don’t forget—you’re someone’s reason to smile today!" Good afternoon.

RAIN


Rain consists of water droplets that form as a result of atmospheric water vapour,it condenses and becomes heavy enough to fall due to gravity.

Also,rain is a type of precipitation that occurs when water falls from the sky in droplets. Rain can range from light drizzles to heavy downpours. The water droplets fall to earth in the form of rain when they become saturated with water molecules.

However,rain is a source of fresh water for many communities around the world where rivers,lakes or aquifers are not accessible. It makes modern life easy by providing water for agriculture, electrical energy etc.

Moreso,rain fall occurs in a particular season of the year and has duration. This season is also known as WET SEASON. In Nigeria for example,it typically occurs from April to September. However,the length the rainy season varies by region,for;

South: The rainy season lasts from March to November.
Far North: The rainy season lasts from Mid May to September.
The rainy season is most noticeable on the Southeastern coast,where annual rainfall can reach 130 inches. Climate change is affecting rainfall patterns in Nigeria,contributing to irregular rainfall events outside of the traditional rainy season.

Also,rain duration can vary depending on the intensity of the rain,the shorter,more intense rains being possible:
Light rain: A light rain typically lasts 30-40 minutes for 0.10 of rain, or 2-3 hours for 0.25 in of rain.
Moderate rain: A moderate rain typically lasts 10 minutes for 0.10 in of rain,or 30-60 minutes for 0.25 in of rain.
Heavy rain: A heavy rain typically lasts 5 minutes for 0.10 in of rain,or 15 minutes for 0.25 in of rain.

Rain intensity is measured by the rate of precipitation in millimeters per hour:

Light rain: Less than 2.5 millimeters per hour.
Moderate rain: Between 2.5-7.6 millimeters per hour.
Heavy rain: More than 7.6 millimeters per hour
Violent rain: More than 50 millimeters per hour.
Rain gauges and Weather radar can be used to measure the intensity of rain.


The importance of rain cannot be over emphasized they are:
Rain is a vital source of water for human and ecological survival. It replenishes water resources like rivers,lakes and aquifers and provides water for drinking, sanitation and industrial use.

It is essential for agriculture,as it provides moisture for crops to grow.

It regulates the temperature, especially in tropical and temperate regions.After a hot day,rain cool down the environment

It provides water for hydroelectric power plants.

It is a vital component of many ecosystems including forest, wetlands and rainforest.


Also, rain can cause damages or disaster in the world even with its advantages. Acid rain for instance causes damage to a lot of materials,stone,metal etc.
Heavy rainfall can cause soil erosion and floods etc.

So to that effect,some necessary measures are to be taken to avoid these damages that occur as a result of rainfall. These measures are:
Improve drainage by keeping it clean
Avoid flooded areas
Build dikes and levees
Consider terracing steep slopes etc.


Rain is an amazing weather that symbolizes a lot of events, festivals, cultures etc. No wonder a popular Nigerian Musician named 2Baba sang a song titled “Raindrops” symbolizing blessing according to the music.

Also,rain is often perceived as a message from the Divine. It signifies the end of a long terror, breaking of drought, unhappiness,rebirth, renewal etc. In the Igbo culture,the New Yam festival is a popular festival celebrated to thank the Supreme God for a good harvest and it is usually celebrated towards the end or after the rainy season.

In Conclusion,the rainy season is a season to look forward to because of what comes alongside it. It can be enjoyable and can be disastrous as well.

If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or things

Fruitful day to everyone

A goal without a plan is just a wish." – Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

Thank God it's Friday

UNDERSTANGING YOUR MAN'S EMOTIONS...

Men don't cry, they get angry instead. The society has taught men that it is unmanly to weep. Boys are ordered to keep quiet at their tender age and bottle their frustrations. It's okay for girls to cry but men, nay! Yet, there is healing power in crying but which man wants to appear like a weakling in public? Only Jesus could do that. "Jesus wept!"

Yet, your man goes through a lot, yes a lot! The society makes men look like statues who must not express any form of emotion except when they want séx yet emotion must be properly expressed if not, it results to anger that is why some men get angry all the time.

Your man gets angry a lot because that is the only way he could express his frustrations which you are refusing to come to terms with or understand.

He goes through pains. He goes through rejection. He has fear. Plenty fears: fear of rejection, fear of losing his job, fear of losing you, fear of losing his authority as the head, fear of not being able to provide for you, etc.

When he goes through financial difficulty and you are expecting him to be tender, he may be angry instead, not at you but at his inability to provide.

Lots of crises happen in so many homes because some women do not understand their husband's anger. Most times, you are not the one he is angry at really, it is the situation, the problem he seems very powerless to solve! If you do not have a large heart, you may take his anger personal, like some women do; abuse, fight, criticize, judge and the man may react by transferring his anger to you.

When your man is angry, relax. Show compassion, talk softly, try to find out what is really bothering him before taking unnecessary actions that may ruin your home.

Have you wondered why some women get pregnant every year and give birth to lots of children despite living in abject poverty? Lack of money equals impotence to a man. It is like castrating him, he seeks more assurance and self worth from his wife through love making -it also helps him ease off lots of tension and frustration. Although, you will do well to plan your family, having more than enough children you can comfortably take care of will further compound your problem!

Your husband may want more sex in challenging times. Making love to you reassures him that he is still needed, wanted, valued, respected and honored. Rejecting him is k1lling his self esteem, it is painful to a man. It is the reason lots of men get angry at their wives for consistently refusing them sèx.

Men needs lots of love, affection, tenderness, understanding, prayers, mercy and compassion too.

Uneasy lies the head that wears the crown. Leadership calls for lots of responsibilities and the responsibility can weigh a man down if he couldn't meet them. He may react by getting angry, not at you but at the situation.

Don't take his anger personal. Show him understanding, love and compassion instead. Married women should give their men lots of séx, reassurance and admiration during this period. He needs you to make love to him and reassure him of his manhood.

Men will do well not to transfer their anger/aggression on their women. It is uncalled for.

Learn to deal with situations maturely. Do not transfer work/business issues to your marriage or relationships, you will mess things up. Deal with each issue separately.

May the Lord give you the wisdom you need to make your marriage work.

Thanks for reading

Lagos State Police Command don clear tori say di 45-year-old teacher, Stella Nwadigbo wey chop arrest on top accuse say she physically assault 3-year-old Abayomi Michael, no be di mother of di boy.

Dis dey come afta tori spread say Madam Nwadigbo wey be teacher for Christ-Mitots School for Ikorodu na di mama of di boy.

Tok-tok pesin of di command Ben Hundeyin wey give di clarification, add say Madam Nwadigbo still dey dia custody.

On Wednesday, police arrest di teacher afta pipo express displeasure on how she take slap one 3-year-old pupil as she dey teach am for school.

Videos wey spread on social media show as di teacher hit di 3-year-old, wey don ginger reactions.