How To Know A Man That Is Ready For Marriage (Part 1)
How do you know when a man is ready to settle?
How do you know if you're the one he's likely going to marry...
This will help you to stop wasting your time with men that have no intention of marrying anytime soon.
1.He won't break up with you or thrêaten to break up with you, because you refused to have sêx with him:
Any man that thrêatens to leave you because you refused to have sêx with him, is not ready for marriage, and even if he's ready, you're not the one he's planning to marry.
If he has any intention of marrying you, he won't be so fixated on sêx. He will be so focused planning to make you his wife.
I didn't say he won't ask you for sêx, I said he won't leave you or threaten to leave you, if you refuse to have sêx with him.
2. He will be committed to you:
When a man is committed to one woman, accountability and transparency won't be a problem for him.
If he doesn't make a every effort to be accountable to you, he's not planning to marry you, at least, not anytime soon.
3.He will be vulnerable with you:
A man that has plans of making you his wife will be vulnerable around you.
He may be strong outside, but he's always weak around you.
You're his safe space. He's not afraid to tell you everything that is going on with him.
He may even cry on your shoulders!
Baby girl, if your man is comfortable crying on your shoulders, you're probably the one, because men don't cry on every shoulder, they are not like women.
4.He will make every effort to see you become better and correct you whenever you make a mistake:
If he doesn't correct you, you are probably not the woman he's planning to marry.
If a man is truly in love with a woman, and if he has plans to marry that woman, he will start working on her, to become the perfect woman of his dreams. He will start gardening, and grooming her.
That's why men are called bridegroom; if he's not grooming you, you're not his bride.
A husband material is a good gardener!
He can take a naive girl and transform her into a world class princess. He wants to always look at you and be proud that you're his woman!
5.He will start introducing you to people that matter to him; his family, mentors, boss, superior colleagues,etc:
If he's only letting you meet a few of his friends, probably, his partners in crime, he's not planning to marry you and you're probably not his main girlfriend. You could be a side chick and be feeling like the main girlfriend.
Well, some men can introduce you to his family, and still not marry you, but at least he respected you enough to let you meet his family. Such a man values you, except he's a serial cheater, who uses his family as a weapon to lure unsuspecting ladies to his bed. You need to be properly guided.
6. Inviting you to cook for him, or giving you the spare key to his apartment are NOT signs that he's planning to marry you.
Many ladies fall for this. They think because they have a key to a guy's apartment, it means the guy is faithful to her. You don't know men, especially the direct sons of Adam. There may be three other ladies that have the key to his apartment, and chances are you will never meet each other in his apartment.
But if he has plans of marrying you, beyond giving you a spare key to his apartment, he will make you feel safe and loved.
You will have his attention and affection.
7. If a man just wants to have sêx with a woman, he will use his money, but if he wants to settle down with a woman, he will use his heart.
You must know when a man is using his heart.
How To Know A Man That Is Ready For Marriage (Part 1)
How do you know when a man is ready to settle?
How do you know if you're the one he's likely going to marry...
This will help you to stop wasting your time with men that have no intention of marrying anytime soon.
1.He won't break up with you or thrêaten to break up with you, because you refused to have sêx with him:
Any man that thrêatens to leave you because you refused to have sêx with him, is not ready for marriage, and even if he's ready, you're not the one he's planning to marry.
If he has any intention of marrying you, he won't be so fixated on sêx. He will be so focused planning to make you his wife.
I didn't say he won't ask you for sêx, I said he won't leave you or threaten to leave you, if you refuse to have sêx with him.
2. He will be committed to you:
When a man is committed to one woman, accountability and transparency won't be a problem for him.
If he doesn't make a every effort to be accountable to you, he's not planning to marry you, at least, not anytime soon.
3.He will be vulnerable with you:
A man that has plans of making you his wife will be vulnerable around you.
He may be strong outside, but he's always weak around you.
You're his safe space. He's not afraid to tell you everything that is going on with him.
He may even cry on your shoulders!
Baby girl, if your man is comfortable crying on your shoulders, you're probably the one, because men don't cry on every shoulder, they are not like women. 😉
4.He will make every effort to see you become better and correct you whenever you make a mistake:
If he doesn't correct you, you are probably not the woman he's planning to marry.
If a man is truly in love with a woman, and if he has plans to marry that woman, he will start working on her, to become the perfect woman of his dreams. He will start gardening, and grooming her.
That's why men are called bridegroom; if he's not grooming you, you're not his bride.
A husband material is a good gardener!
He can take a naive girl and transform her into a world class princess. He wants to always look at you and be proud that you're his woman!
5.He will start introducing you to people that matter to him; his family, mentors, boss, superior colleagues,etc:
If he's only letting you meet a few of his friends, probably, his partners in crime, he's not planning to marry you and you're probably not his main girlfriend. You could be a side chick and be feeling like the main girlfriend.
Well, some men can introduce you to his family, and still not marry you, but at least he respected you enough to let you meet his family. Such a man values you, except he's a serial cheater, who uses his family as a weapon to lure unsuspecting ladies to his bed. You need to be properly guided.
6. Inviting you to cook for him, or giving you the spare key to his apartment are NOT signs that he's planning to marry you.
Many ladies fall for this. They think because they have a key to a guy's apartment, it means the guy is faithful to her. You don't know men, especially the direct sons of Adam. There may be three other ladies that have the key to his apartment, and chances are you will never meet each other in his apartment.
But if he has plans of marrying you, beyond giving you a spare key to his apartment, he will make you feel safe and loved.
You will have his attention and affection.
7. If a man just wants to have sêx with a woman, he will use his money, but if he wants to settle down with a woman, he will use his heart.
You must know when a man is using his heart.