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THE BENEFITS OF KEEPING SEX OFF DURING DATING

1. It helps you to make wise and clear decisions in choosing a partner. Sex beclouds your judgement because it is pleasurable.

2. It keeps away jokers. Only a serious person will want to date you without sex. This is how to know who is a player or not.

3. It helps you two know each other deeper. When sex is introduced as two people are getting to know each other, the lovers dwells so much on sex that they miss out on other important things about each other. Sex distracts young lovers from building the right foundation for a future marriage.

4. It makes you two love each other for your heart and character, not sexual excitement.

5. It prevents unwanted pregnancy. When you love someone and you trust them, often you might not use protection during sex. Many men and women have become unplanned parents because they were engaging in sex with someone they love in a relationship. Often, the pregnancy changes things between them, some break up, other men abandon the woman and child. Others do get married but with a feeling they were trapped by the pregnancy.

6. It brings Godly peace in the relationship. Many Christian lovers feel guilty because of their sexual activity. A lack of Godly peace and continuous guilt makes the relationship suffer, you start to question.

7. It makes you both disciplined. You will need discipline in marriage, if you will get married. Premarital sex is the mother of extra marital sex. If you're strafing & jerking off now, real commitment will be difficult for you.

8. In the event that you do break up, the break up will not be messy and full of regret. Many have sexed a person they thought would be their husband/wife only for the relationship to end. It becomes very difficult to move on once sex has been involved.

9. If you do get married, you will both look forward to the honeymoon. Don't rush, great sex is on the way.

10. It's easier to leave a relationship when sex is not involved. It is easier to see things clearly when sex is not involved. Many young folks use sex to repress issues in their relationships. Orgasm can make everything wrong feels right. Premarital sexxx is not a proof of love.

Conclusively, There’s a delight in waiting for your wedding night, knowing well that you WAITED & falling into each other's arms in deep passion without guilt. It might be rare these days, but it’s still beautiful, pious and morally satisfying. Sex consummates marriage. Marry first, then sex.

Everyday comes with new opportunities...

Your duty is to seize that opportunity and change your life.

Skipping any means to change your life means you're choosing to be average and poor in life.

Start today, start now and watch your life become better...

The internet has created unlimited opportunities...

But if you’re waiting for the “perfect time” to start, you’d stay broke forever... Know that and know peace.

Sometimes, we search for closure in situations that leave us feeling lost or unresolved, but the truth is, the only closure we truly need is the peace that comes from having a good heart. Holding onto kindness and compassion, even when others may not understand or appreciate it, gives us the strength to move forward. We don’t always get the answers or apologies we expect, but staying true to ourselves, acting with integrity, and choosing love over bitterness is the ultimate form of closure. It’s a reminder that we are in control of our own peace, and that’s something no one can take away from us.

Having a good heart doesn’t mean ignoring the hurt or pretending everything is fine—it means choosing to heal through empathy and self-love. It’s knowing that, despite what may have happened, we still have the power to show up in this world with grace and kindness. Sometimes, the real closure comes from letting go of the need for validation and instead, finding contentment in simply doing the right thing. When you carry a good heart, you carry everything you need to move forward, no matter how unclear the past may seem.

You are a choosing generation

HOW TO MAKE BETTER DECISIONS IN LIFE

Making good decisions is important because our choices shape our future. Here are some simple steps to help you make better decisions in life:

1. Think Before You Act
Before making any decision, take a moment to think. Ask yourself: What will happen if I choose this? Rushing into choices without thinking can lead to regrets.

2. Gather Information
The more you know, the better your decision will be. If you're choosing a job, a business, or even a relationship, take time to research and understand your options.

3. Consider the Long-Term Effect
Some decisions feel good at the moment but can cause problems later. Always ask yourself: Will this help me in the future, or will I regret it?

4. Listen to Advice, But Decide for Yourself
It's good to hear from experienced people, but remember—it's your life. Take advice, but make a decision that feels right for you.

5. Trust Your Instincts
Sometimes, your gut feeling is right. If something doesn’t feel right, it might be a warning sign. Pay attention to your intuition.

6. Learn from Past Mistakes
Everyone makes mistakes. Instead of feeling bad about them, use them as lessons. Think about what went wrong and how you can do better next time.

7. Don’t Let Fear Stop You
Fear of failure can keep you from making decisions. Remember, no one has a perfect life. It’s better to try and learn than to stay stuck.

Judges 6:12: “The Lord's angel appeared to him there and said, ‘The Lord is with you, brave and mighty man!’”
[14] “Then the Lord ordered him, ‘Go with all your great strength and rescue Israel from the Midianites. I myself am sending you.’”

Gideon was just like many others, struggling to survive in a harsh environment when he received a divine visitation along with an unexpected greeting. The word of the Lord came to him through the angel, and that word served as a seed of greatness planted within him. With that word, anything is possible.

I pray that you and your family will continue to give thanks to God for choosing you as His own, for providing you with His Word and His Holy Spirit, for the glory of His presence in your lives, and for renewing your strength in His presence. Claim a new anointing and a fresh revelation of His word and presence this year.

May you and your family remain thankful, for God goes with you this year, ensuring your success in all your endeavors. Receive the Spirit of might from the Lord, and go forth to fulfill His will. You will prosper and prevail because He has planted that seed of greatness within you and your family, in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen.

You are blessed for life. Good morning, dear! I celebrate you. Keep winning and shining endlessly.

Sex is not love,
Going on dates is not love,
Talking 24/7 is not love,
Laying up is not love,
Saying “I love you" is not love....
Love is someone seeing the absolute worse side of you and still choosing you without demeaning you.

Thanks for choosing danloader

A man can b insane for as long as d party goes on, but wen is time of choosing a partner, a man becomes sane.