You can't fight to be loved by someone.
If someone genuinely cares about you and wants you in their life, they will do whatever it takes to keep you there. If you're confused about how they feel, if they pull you in only to push you away, if what they say troubles your mind or makes you feel misunderstood -then you must let them go. Actions speak louder than words and if you can't see love or care for yourself in their eyes, the truth is that it probably isn't there. I know that you want to give them the benefit of doubt; they need time, you're pushing them too much, or you both should take it slow -all these possibilities are valid, but they don't apply in cases where you're not sure about your place in someone's life. It's fine to take extra time if you're both headed in the same direction. It's okay to walk slowly on this journey if you both want to get to know each other as friends before anything else. But if they confuse you or give you mixed signals, or if they treat you right only to treat you badly again -then they're bringing negative energy into your life which is not okay. Trust me when I tell you that you can't chase love or care. Because if you must force love -then it is never going to be love.

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You can't fight to be loved by someone.
If someone genuinely cares about you and wants you in their life, they will do whatever it takes to keep you there. If you're confused about how they feel, if they pull you in only to push you away, if what they say troubles your mind or makes you feel misunderstood -then you must let them go. Actions speak louder than words and if you can't see love or care for yourself in their eyes, the truth is that it probably isn't there. I know that you want to give them the benefit of doubt; they need time, you're pushing them too much, or you both should take it slow -all these possibilities are valid, but they don't apply in cases where you're not sure about your place in someone's life. It's fine to take extra time if you're both headed in the same direction. It's okay to walk slowly on this journey if you both want to get to know each other as friends before anything else. But if they confuse you or give you mixed signals, or if they treat you right only to treat you badly again -then they're bringing negative energy into your life which is not okay. Trust me when I tell you that you can't chase love or care. Because if you must force love -then it is never going to be love.

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Hello beautiful souls. Trust you all are doing great.

Trust in God and lean not on your own understanding

With blessings from all of us, may the journey of your love life be full of support and trust for each other. Have a blissful engagement day!

Sheep spends its entire life afraid of wolves, only to be eaten by the shepherd whom it trusted.

Sheep spends its entire life afraid of wolves, only to be eaten by the shepherd whom it trusted.

THE SILENT BATTLE OF LOW SELF-ESTEEM ROBBED TOLU THE LOVE OF A REAL MAN

Find out how not to make the same mistake.

Tolu sat on the edge of the bed, staring at her reflection in the mirror. The woman looking back at her had tired eyes, a forced smile, and a heart full of doubts.

Daniel, her fiancé, had just sent her a sweet message about their upcoming wedding, but instead of feeling joy, she felt unworthy.

"What does he even see in me?" she whispered to herself.

Growing up, Tolu was never the most beautiful or the smartest.

She was the quiet girl in the corner, the one who never believed she was enough.

Her father’s harsh words still echoed in her mind "You're too clumsy, Tolu. Who will even marry you?"

Even when Daniel came into her life, showering her with love, her past wounds whispered that it was only a matter of time before he saw the truth: that she was not worth loving.

It started subtly. She would brush off his compliments, thinking he was just being nice.

When he held her close, she tensed, believing he would one day let go. And then, without realizing it, she began sabotaging their love.

"Why do you love me, Daniel? There are better women out there," she blurted out one evening.
Daniel sighed, holding her hands. "Because you're kind, you're beautiful, and you make me happy."

She pulled away. "No, I'm not. I'm not enough for you."

Days turned into weeks, and Tolu’s self-doubt became a wall between them.

Every time Daniel reassured her, she found a reason to disbelieve him.

She avoided dates, rejected his affection, and convinced herself that he would eventually leave. And one day, after another argument fueled by her insecurities, he did.

As she watched him walk away, her heart shattered. Not because he didn’t love her, but because she had never learned to love herself.

Low self-esteem doesn’t just affect how you see yourself—it affects how you love and how you receive love. It creates fear where there should be trust, distance where there should be intimacy.

If you’ve ever felt like Tolu, it’s time to break the cycle.

You deserve love—not just from someone else, but from yourself.

Join THE WAITLIST FOR THE COURSE HOW TO DEAL WITH LOW SELF-ESTEEM AND BECOME PRODUCTIVE and learn how to embrace your worth so you don’t push love away when it comes knocking.

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RCCG 100 DAYS FASTING AND PRAYER

DAY 50 SATURDAY, MARCH 1ST 2025

TOPIC: DELIVERANCE FOR PRISONERS OF WAR

BIBLE TEXT(S): Judg. 16:20-30, Psa. 79:11, Psa 91:2-4,119:49-50,

INTRODUCTION: Like Samson, there are many Christians who have become prisoners of war, due to their own making; however there are those who became captives themselves while trying to deliver others. We need to pray
that all lawful and unlawful captives be set free.

PRAYER POINTS

1. Bless the Lord, Oh my soul, and all that is within me, Bless His Holy name. Let us worship the Lord in the beauty of His holiness. Psa. 103:1.

2. Father, thank You for ushering us triumphantly into the Landmark Year 2025 in Jesus name.

3. Father, we thank You for being our help in ages past; for all the mercies and blessings and our hope for this new year 2025 in Jesus name. Lam 3:22-23

4. Father, deliver those held captive as prisoners of war, free them from physical and emotional bondage in Jesus name. Judg. 16:20-30

5. Father, grant that those imprisoned may experience Your presence and comfort, sustaining them until freedom is secured in Jesus name. Ps. 79:11

6. Father, protect all prisoners of war from harm and abuse, shielding them from the enemy's cruelty in Jesus name. Judg. 16:20-30

7. Father, help those held captive to trust in Your protection, knowing You are their Rock and Refuge in Jesus name. Psa. 91:2-4

8. Father, grant prisoners of war strength and resilience, to endure the challenges of captivity without compromise in Jesus name. Judg. 16:20-30

9. Father, help those held captives to find comfort in Your Word, sustaining them with hope and encouragement in Jesus name. Psa. 119:49-50

10. Father, bring about the release of prisoners of war, restoring them to their families and communities of faith in Jesus name. Judg. 16:20-30

11. Father, grant all captive deliverance that they may experience the joy of salvation in Jesus name. Psa. 126:1-3

12. Father, heal the physical and emotional wounds of prisoners of war, restoring them to wholeness and health in Jesus name. Judg. 16:20-30

13. Father, help those who have been traumatized to find healing and peace, trusting in Your presence and care in Jesus name. Psa. 34:18

14. Father, grant those who have been oppressed may experience Your vindication, and that justice may be served in Jesus name. Psa. 103:6.

15. Father, in your mercy, restore all the weapons the prisoners of war might have lost to them in Jesus name.

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