1. Never shake hand while sitting.

2. Never talk bad about the food when you are the guest.

3. Don't eat the last piece of something you didn't buy.

4. Protect who is behind you and respect who is beside you.

5. Never make the first offer in a negotiation.

6. Don't take credit for the work you didn't do.

7. Dress well, no matter what the occasion.

8. Speak honestly: say what you think and mean what you say.

9. Ask more than you answer.

10. Leave the profane language for the less educated.

11. Avoid placing your phone on the table when eating with someone.

12. Listen, smile and most of all make eye contact.

13. If you're not invited, don't ask to go.

14. Never be ashamed of where you come from.

15. Don't beg for a relationship.

How I Teach My Daughters to Recognize a Real Man

1️⃣ Never Fund a Man’s Potential – A man’s growth is his responsibility, not yours. If he’s still “figuring it out,” he’s not ready for you. You are a partner, not a stepping stone.

2️⃣ Do Not Carry His Burdens – A man should come prepared to lead, not looking for a woman to fix, build, or struggle with him. If he cannot provide, protect, or guide, he is not a man—he is still becoming one.

3️⃣ Never Accept Less Than You Deserve –
You don’t shrink to fit a man’s life; he expands to meet your standards.
A strong man rises to the occasion—a weak one asks you to settle.

4️⃣ If He Invites You, He Provides – A man who values your time respects the responsibility that comes with it. If he asks you out, the bill is his. No discussion.

5️⃣ If He Wants Your Time, He Earns It – Your presence is a privilege, not a given. A real man shows consistency, effort, and intentionality. Anything less is a waste of time.

6️⃣ A Man Who Wants You Forever Will Never Rush You Into Bed – A man with true intentions will never pressure you. He will value your mind, your presence, and your standards. Lust moves fast—love moves with patience.

7️⃣ Never Stay in a Relationship with a Liar or a Cheater – Disrespect is not love. Betrayal is not a mistake—it’s a choice. A real man protects your heart, not plays with it. When a man shows you he can’t be trusted, believe him and walk away.

8️⃣ Never Entertain a Man You Wouldn’t Want Your Son to Be – If his character wouldn’t make you proud as a mother, he has no place in your life as a partner. The men you allow in your space set the standard for the next generation—choose wisely.

9️⃣ If He Doesn’t View You as His Wife and Provide for Your Needs, He’s Bringing Chaos and Confusion – A man who isn’t intentional about you is a distraction. If he’s not stepping up, he’s pulling you down. A real man brings clarity, stability, and security—not stress.

My daughters will never settle.

Neither should you.

If your fathers didn’t teach you, i am!

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DID YOU KNOW - LIFE FACTS.

1. Be very selective when it comes to choosing friends. People now a days don't know the true meaning of friendship and loyalty.

2. Know your worth. Know when you have had enough. And move on from the people who keep ruining your happiness.

3. What comes easy, will not always last. And what will last, will not always come easy.

4. Letting go is never easy, but sometimes it's necessary.

5. You don't need to waste your time on someone who only wants you around when it fits their needs.

6. Stop crying over yesterday and start smiling for tomorrow.

7. Find someone who wants you as much as you want them.

8. In life, there are some people you're going to have to lose in order to find yourself.

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“Sadness is caused by intelligence. The more you understand certain things, the more you wish you didn't understand them.” (Charles Bukowski)

A certain level of sadness is often a byproduct of empathy and understanding; the deeper our comprehension of the world's complexities, the more acutely we may feel its suffering.

This poignant awareness of life's inherent fragility and the pain experienced by ourselves and others can lead to moments of sorrow.

However, this capacity for profound understanding is also a source of great strength and compassion. It fuels our desire to make a positive impact, to alleviate suffering, and to build a more compassionate world.

The very intelligence that allows us to feel sadness also empowers us to find meaning, purpose, and ultimately, hope, in the face of life's challenges.

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Imagine waking up one morning, scrolling through your phone, and suddenly seeing the wedding invitation of someone you thought you had a future with. Maybe it was your talking stage, someone you were considering, or someone who told you they weren’t ready for a relationship. Maybe it was a person you had already fallen in love with or even someone you believed you were in a relationship with. Worse still, it could be an ex you broke up with just a few months ago. The shock, the pain, the confusion it’s a lot to handle.

At that moment, anger and hurt may take over. Questions will flood your mind. Did they lie to me? Was I just a backup plan? How did I not see this coming? You may even begin to feel like they just used you to feed their intimate pleasure. The betrayal may feel unbearable, but the truth is, no matter how painful, this might be a blessing in disguise.

Fighting the person or letting bitterness take over will not change anything. Instead, take a deep breath and remind yourself that sometimes, disappointments are God’s way of clearing your path for something better. If they were meant for you, they wouldn’t be marrying someone else.

Come o, No vex but have you even take out time to ask yourself this question?, What if the person you are toasting as a guy or considering accepting his proposal as a lady is already planning their future with someone else? It’s painful to think about, but it also means you deserve someone who truly chooses you, not someone who keeps you as an option.

Healing takes time, but let this be your turning point. Wish them well, walk away with grace, and trust that your own love story is still being written, one that will be true, intentional, and lasting. Hope this blessed you? Shalom!

Did you know that Animals can experience time differently from humans. To smaller animals, the world around them moves more slowly compared to humans. Salamanders and lizards, for example, experience time more slowly than cats and dogs. This is because the perception of time depends on how quickly the brain can process incoming information.

Some people did not reach to the top but they have pride and toxicity what if God let you to be there whats going to happened to his people

, When I was 5 years old, my mother always told me that happiness was the key to life.  When I went to school, they asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up.  I wrote down ‘happy’.  They told me I didn’t understand the assignment, and I told them they didn’t understand life

I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel

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*A PROSE OF AN OBSERVER ABOUT IBB BOOK LAUNCH*

I have always said that if you stay alive long enough in Nigeria you will see devil exhumed from the grave and deoderised by Nigerians.

IBB's book launch presented a perfect platform for such occasion.

OBJ was there. Taking notes for his next book.

GEJ was present. Looking clueless and neither here nor there as usual

Gowon as usual dwelt on inanities.

He eulogised IBB for restoring his rank yet unlike IBB is not bold enough to write his own book.

Perhaps, Gowon is also waiting for his contemporaries to die before lying over their graves like IBB.

and of course Bobo Chicago who claimed to fight for democracy but the current face of tyranny, evil and undemocratic practices was also there.

The people who betrayed Abiola and urged him to Golgotha were there shining their rotten teeth in the glistening light.

The picture represents the perfect problem with Nigeria.

These were men who contributed in the ruination of a country.

Nobody has bad word for IBB.

Given time, he has transformed into the perfect General.

He has become a hero and maker of men.

But give to IBB, as a military leader he understood evil craftsmanship.

He has dealt with rotten idiots who paraded themselves as Democrats so the audience before him were very familiar.

One vital question.

How did a man who did everything to destroy democracy suddenly became the beacon of democracy in Nigeria, to the extent that aspiring leaders visit his Minna Mecca to receive tutelage on leadership?

There were also billionaires like Arthur Eze who is at best a nuisance in Igboland.

There were Alakija. She was gifted with oil wells.

There was Dangote etc.

They all had good things to say about IBB.

No mention of Dele Giwa.

An unsung hero in a useless country.

Moshood Abiola at least got 1 day named after him each year.

That was enough price for dying for Nigeria and ruining his family and business.

After all IBB was his dear friend.

The billionaires claimed IBB made them.

Thus, they rewarded him with about 16 billion naira for his library project.

Laughable!

All the Nigerian dictators own libraries.

They gave back to him.

IBB was a maker of men.

By the way, Abacha also made some men.

When will they stand up and speak for him or probably build a library for him?

Buhari also made some men during his 8 years democratic dictatorship.

He will likely receive his flowers and a library named after him.

The Emilokrook made some men also as Lagos State Governor.

We recall he rebuilt the house of our Prof Wole Soyinka who was so poor he couldn't afford to rebuild his house.

In future the crooks he made will donate to his library.

So YOU, where exactly are you in the scheme of things as a Nigerian?

Your reward is poverty, hunger, unemployment, disease, homelessness, japa then heaven.

I can only take one positive thing from the meeting.

He took responsibility by admitting for the first time, that his friend, Abiola won the June 12 election.

Sadly again, and deliberately not for forgetfulness, Humphrey Nwosu, the electoral umpire during June 12 who was brave to announce most of the results against military directive wasn't mentioned.

Folks like Humphrey Nwosu doesn't fit the Nigerian optics.

He was a gatecrasher to uncommon destiny.

He lived in a wrong country among unclean people.

He became part of the collateral damage.

An unsung hero.

As IBB admitted to Abiola's victory, 33 years after, I look forward to the day the dark Professor, Mahmood will develop the manhood to confess openly to Peter Obi that he rigged the 2023 election to favour the Chicago drug baron.

I once said that even if devil appears physically in Nigeria that he would receive massive supporters.

Nigeria is the seat of evil.

It is a crime scene.

It's not habitable for human beings.

Living in Nigeria for far too long is capable of turning a saint to a devil.

I am yet to see an African country were evil is celebrated and bad character rewarded such as Nigeria by Nigerians.

It is one country I can tell you for sure that it cannot be redeemed.

A country populated by religious maggots who spend billions of naira to visit Mecca and Israel yet return to Nigeria as agents of Satan to ruin their people.

IBB is evil.

But those who came after him were undiluted devils.