Dear men,
The biggest mistake you can make is thinking that you have time to be linear.
Men have to be winning on all frontiers simultaneously just to live a fucking solid existence.
Gotta make cash, stay jacked, build networks, read, write, travel, make plans, develop relationships, keep on top of grooming etc 24/7.

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You'll never lose
something that's meant to be yours, so loosen your grip. If it's yours, it'll never leave or it'll come back better than ever. If it's not, then it'll go and there will now be room for what is.

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How To Know A Man That Is Ready For Marriage (Part 1)

How do you know when a man is ready to settle?
How do you know if you're the one he's likely going to marry...

This will help you to stop wasting your time with men that have no intention of marrying anytime soon.

1.He won't break up with you or thrêaten to break up with you, because you refused to have sêx with him:
Any man that thrêatens to leave you because you refused to have sêx with him, is not ready for marriage, and even if he's ready, you're not the one he's planning to marry.
If he has any intention of marrying you, he won't be so fixated on sêx. He will be so focused planning to make you his wife.
I didn't say he won't ask you for sêx, I said he won't leave you or threaten to leave you, if you refuse to have sêx with him.

2. He will be committed to you:
When a man is committed to one woman, accountability and transparency won't be a problem for him.
If he doesn't make a every effort to be accountable to you, he's not planning to marry you, at least, not anytime soon.

3.He will be vulnerable with you:
A man that has plans of making you his wife will be vulnerable around you.
He may be strong outside, but he's always weak around you.
You're his safe space. He's not afraid to tell you everything that is going on with him.
He may even cry on your shoulders!
Baby girl, if your man is comfortable crying on your shoulders, you're probably the one, because men don't cry on every shoulder, they are not like women.

4.He will make every effort to see you become better and correct you whenever you make a mistake:
If he doesn't correct you, you are probably not the woman he's planning to marry.
If a man is truly in love with a woman, and if he has plans to marry that woman, he will start working on her, to become the perfect woman of his dreams. He will start gardening, and grooming her.
That's why men are called bridegroom; if he's not grooming you, you're not his bride.

A husband material is a good gardener!
He can take a naive girl and transform her into a world class princess. He wants to always look at you and be proud that you're his woman!

5.He will start introducing you to people that matter to him; his family, mentors, boss, superior colleagues,etc:
If he's only letting you meet a few of his friends, probably, his partners in crime, he's not planning to marry you and you're probably not his main girlfriend. You could be a side chick and be feeling like the main girlfriend.
Well, some men can introduce you to his family, and still not marry you, but at least he respected you enough to let you meet his family. Such a man values you, except he's a serial cheater, who uses his family as a weapon to lure unsuspecting ladies to his bed. You need to be properly guided.

6. Inviting you to cook for him, or giving you the spare key to his apartment are NOT signs that he's planning to marry you.
Many ladies fall for this. They think because they have a key to a guy's apartment, it means the guy is faithful to her. You don't know men, especially the direct sons of Adam. There may be three other ladies that have the key to his apartment, and chances are you will never meet each other in his apartment.
But if he has plans of marrying you, beyond giving you a spare key to his apartment, he will make you feel safe and loved.
You will have his attention and affection.

7. If a man just wants to have sêx with a woman, he will use his money, but if he wants to settle down with a woman, he will use his heart.
You must know when a man is using his heart.

# Fertilization
1. *Choose the right fertilizer*: Select a fertilizer that's balanced (e.g., 10-10-10 NPK) or formulated specifically for your plant type (e.g., high-phosphorus for blooming plants).
2. *Follow instructions*: Don't overfertilize, as this can damage your plants.


# Pruning and Grooming
1. *Prune plants regularly*: Remove dead or damaged leaves and stems to promote healthy growth and prevent disease.
2. *Deadhead flowers*: Remove spent blooms to encourage more flowering.


# Pest and Disease Control
1. *Monitor your plants regularly*: Keep an eye out for signs of pests or disease, such as holes in leaves, white powdery residue, or black spots.

1. *Know your plant's sun requirements*: Some plants need full sun (6+ hours of direct sunlight), while others prefer partial shade or full shade.
2. *Protect plants from extreme temperatures*: If you live in an area with very hot or cold temperatures, take steps to protect your plants (e.g., bring them indoors, use row covers).


# Fertilization
1. *Choose the right fertilizer*: Select a fertilizer that's balanced (e.g., 10-10-10 NPK) or formulated specifically for your plant type (e.g., high-phosphorus for blooming plants).
2. *Follow instructions*: Don't overfertilize, as this can damage your plants.


# Pruning and Grooming
1. *Prune plants regularly*: Remove dead or damaged leaves and stems to promote healthy growth and prevent disease.
2. *Deadhead flowers*: Remove spent blooms to encourage more flowering.

Unspoken Rules for Men:

1. Never shake a hand sitting down. Standing up shows respect and engagement. It signifies that you value the person you are meeting and are fully present in the interaction.

2. Protect who is behind you, and respect who is beside you. This emphasizes loyalty and honor. Protecting those behind you means safeguarding your family, friends, and teammates. Respecting those beside you signifies recognizing the equality and value of your peers.

3. Never insult the cooking when you are the guest. Showing gratitude and respect for hospitality is essential. Criticizing the cooking is disrespectful and ungrateful, especially when someone has gone out of their way to host you.

4. Never eat the last piece of something you didn't buy.
This rule underscores courtesy and consideration for others. It demonstrates awareness and respect for shared resources and the contributions of others.

5. Never make the first offer in a negotiation.
Letting the other party make the first offer can provide strategic advantages. It gives you insight into their expectations and can help you negotiate better terms.

6. Don't take credit for work you didn't do.
Integrity in acknowledging others' efforts is crucial. Taking undue credit undermines trust and damages your credibility.

7. Take the blame, and give credit when due.
Owning up to mistakes and recognizing others' contributions builds respect and trust. It shows maturity and leadership.

8. If you are not invited, don't ask to go.
Respecting boundaries and invitations is key to maintaining good social etiquette. It avoids awkward situations and respects the host’s intentions.

9. Always aim for the head. This metaphorical rule can apply to many scenarios, implying that you should strive for excellence and precision in your efforts.

10. Don't beg for a relationship.Self-respect and dignity are important. Desperation can lead to unhealthy dynamics and undervalues your worth.

11. Dress well no matter what the occasion. Good grooming and dressing appropriately show respect for yourself and others. It also boosts confidence and makes a positive impression.

12. Always carry cash.
Being prepared for various situations, including emergencies, is practical. It reflects foresight and responsibility.

13. Listen, nod, and most of all make eye contact. Active listening and non-verbal engagement are crucial for effective communication. They show that you value and are attentive to the speaker.

14. Show restraint in expressing anger, no matter what. Being angry is a waste of energy. Managing anger is vital for maintaining composure and making rational decisions. It prevents regrettable actions and fosters a more positive environment.

15. Whether it's dinner, drinks, or both, avoid placing your phone on the dinner table.
Prioritizing face-to-face interactions over digital distractions shows respect and attentiveness to those present.

16. Never pose with alcohol. Maintaining a responsible image is important. Posing with alcohol can convey unprofessionalism or recklessness.

17. Proper grammar will get you far in life. Leave the foul language for the less educated.
Good communication skills, including proper grammar, enhance your credibility and professionalism. Avoiding foul language shows respect and maturity.

18. Ask more than you answer. Showing interest in others by asking questions fosters better relationships and understanding. It also demonstrates humility and a willingness to learn.

19. You can tell a great deal about a person by their handshake, so make yours strong and firm. A firm handshake conveys confidence and sincerity. It is often the first impression you make, so it’s important to get it right.

20. Speak honestly. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Honesty builds trust and integrity. It involves being truthful and consistent, fostering deeper connections and mutual respect.

Speaking honestly also means balancing truth with empathy and tact, ensuring that your words are respectful and considerate....

You are your greatest asset. Put your time, effort and money into training, grooming, and encouraging your greatest asset.

You can tell when someone is grooming you for billing

Cut your morning devotions into your personal grooming. You would not go out to work with a dirty face. Why start the day with the face of your soul unwashed?

Cut your morning devotions into your personal grooming. You would not go out to work with a dirty face. Why start the day with the face of your soul unwashed?