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Opinion: Okai’s Arrest is Unlawful and a Threat to Democracy

Okai was unlawfully arrested, and while some people may celebrate his predicament today, it's important to remember that tomorrow, it could be anyone. Reports suggest that his arrest was due to statements he made on social media. While I do not support unnecessary attacks on the government, I strongly believe that democracy thrives on the freedom to criticize our leaders.

Personally, I consider the current administration an improvement over past ones. However, what makes Nigeria a democracy is the ability of citizens to voice their concerns without fear of oppression. Arresting and silencing critics in Kogi State is not just wrong—it undermines the very principles of governance.

The DSS has a clear mandate: safeguarding national security, not policing political opinions. Unless a statement incites violence, poses a real threat to national security, or qualifies as hate speech under the law, detaining someone for expressing their views is undemocratic.

Unfortunately, human rights violations are rampant in Nigeria. Too often, people in positions of power resort to intimidation, making threats like, "Do you know who I am? I will lock you up. You’ll never see daylight again." These statements expose the dangerous reality that some individuals see themselves as above the law in a country where all citizens should be equal.

History has shown similar instances of abuse, such as Amoka’s crackdown on youth hairstyles in Okene. Instead of being condemned for violating people’s rights, he was praised—an alarming reflection of our tolerance for oppression.

We are not living in a communist dictatorship; Nigeria is a democracy. These issues must be addressed, and our leaders must move away from authoritarian tendencies if we are to build a civilized society where freedom of speech is respected.

If Okai said something wrong, the appropriate response is to sue him in court. If he refuses to appear, only then should a legal arrest warrant be issued. Was he even summoned by a court before his arrest?

This is exactly why Okai must be released—because justice and democracy demand it.

We stand with freedom of speech.

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*"As we have stepped into march, may this month bring your expectations to reality*

*March is going to bring you renewed energy, fresh perspectives, anda heart full of love.Wishing you a fantastic month ahead!"*

*"Wishing you a march filled with promise, hope, and endless possibilities.* *May this month be the start of something amazing!"

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Life is a journey filled with highs and lows, lessons and growth. It’s unpredictable, yet beautiful in its own way. Every experience, whether good or bad, shapes who we are. The key to a fulfilling life is embracing change, learning from challenges, and finding joy in the little things. No matter what, keep moving forward—because every new day is a chance to start fresh.

Psalm 62: 1- 2, 5- 8, 10 - 11 1: Truly my soul waiteth upon God: from Him cometh my salvation. 2: He only is my rock and my salvation; He is my defence; I shall not be greatly moved. 5: My soul, wait thou only upon God; for my expectation is from Him. 6: He only is my rock and my salvation: He is my defence; I shall not be moved. 7: In God is my salvation and my glory: the rock of my strength, and my refuge, is in God. 8: Trust in Him at all times; ye people, pour out your heart before Him: God is a refuge for us. Selah 10: Trust not in oppression, and become not vain in robbery: if riches increase, set not your heart upon them. 11: God hath spoken once; twice have I heard this; that power belongeth unto God. 12 Also unto Thee, O Lord, belongeth mercy: for Thou renderest to every man according to His work.

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10 WAYS TO AVOID FINANCIAL CHALLENGES IN MARRIAGE.

Avoiding financial challenges in marriage requires a combination of communication, planning, and shared responsibility.
Here are key strategies to help prevent financial issues in your marriage:

1. Open Communication
Discuss finances early: Before or early in the marriage, have candid discussions about each other's financial situation, goals, debts, spending habits, and values. This helps you both understand each other’s expectations and create a unified approach.

Keep communication ongoing: Regularly check in with each other about your finances—this includes budgeting, savings goals, and any financial concerns. Open dialogue can prevent surprises and resentment.

2. Set Shared Financial Goals
Create common goals: Discuss short-term and long-term goals together, such as saving for a house, retirement, or vacations. Setting common goals helps align both partners and motivates teamwork.

Budget together: Agree on a budget that works for both of you. Break down income, fixed expenses, savings, and discretionary spending. This ensures that both partners contribute to financial decisions and stick to the plan.

3. Separate and Joint Accounts
Decide on account structure: Some couples find it beneficial to have a joint account for shared expenses and personal accounts for individual spending. This can help maintain financial independence while managing shared responsibilities.

Maintain transparency: Regardless of account structure, ensure transparency in how money is spent and saved, avoiding secrecy or hidden debts.

4. Build an Emergency Fund
Save for unexpected expenses: Life is unpredictable, so it’s important to have an emergency fund that can cover 3-6 months of living expenses. This will reduce financial stress during difficult times such as job loss or medical emergencies.

5. Manage Debt Together
Avoid accumulating debt: Be mindful of taking on new debt. If you have existing debt, work together on a plan to pay it down, prioritizing high-interest debts.

Debt management plans: If the debt is significant, consider consulting a financial advisor or credit counselor to create a strategy to reduce it efficiently.

6. Plan for Retirement
Start saving early: Even if retirement seems far off, it's important to begin saving early. Contribute to retirement accounts like 401(k)s or IRAs. Take advantage of employer matching, if available.

Regularly review retirement goals: As your lives and incomes change, reassess your retirement savings plan together.

7. Agree on Spending Limits
Establish spending boundaries: Set limits on how much each partner can spend without consulting the other, especially for larger purchases. This helps prevent impulse buying and keeps finances on track.

Review big purchases together: For significant purchases, discuss and agree on them as a couple. This ensures you’re both comfortable with the decision.

8. Consider Financial Counseling or Advice.
Get professional help if needed: If finances are causing tension or confusion, consider seeing a financial advisor or counselor. Professional advice can help create a clear plan and resolve financial problems.

9. Avoid Keeping Financial Secrets
Be transparent about spending and debts: Hiding financial struggles, purchases, or debt can create distrust in a marriage. It’s important to be open with each other about financial realities, even if they’re difficult to discuss.

10. Maintain Flexibility and Adaptability
Be adaptable: Financial circumstances can change due to career changes, children, or health issues. Be ready to adjust your financial plans as life evolves.

By approaching finances as a team and prioritizing clear communication, couples can work together to avoid financial challenges and build a stable financial future.

You can't expect kids to do everything simply because you, as a parent, "say so." They want and deserve explanations as much as adults do. If we don't take time to explain, kids will begin to wonder about our values and motives and whether they have any basis. Parents who reason with their kids allow them to understand and learn in a nonjudgmental way.

Make your expectations clear. If there is a problem, describe it, express your feelings, and invite your child to work on a solution with you. Be sure to include consequences. Make suggestions and offer choices. Be open to your child's suggestions as well. Negotiate. Kids who participate in decisions are more motivated to carry them out.

3️⃣ *India's vast Kumbh Mela Hindu festival is set to wrap up,* with final ritual river bathing ceremonies *ending six weeks of celebration* that organisers say have been *attended by hundreds of millions of devotees.*

*Despite two deadly stampedes that killed dozens,* the festival in the northern city of Prayagraj *has been hailed as a triumph by Prime Minister Narendra Modi's Hindu nationalist party,* bolstering its carefully cultivated image as a steward of Hindu resurgence and prosperity.

*The Kumbh Mela, held every 12 years,* is rooted in *Hindu mythology, a battle between deities and demons* for control of a pitcher containing the nectar of immortality.

Both *Modi and his ally, firebrand Hindu monk Yogi Adityanath* -- chief minister of India's most populous state of Uttar Pradesh where the festival is being held -- *say the millennia-old Mela has been the _"grandest"_ yet.*