Before making up your mind to leave your marriage, make sure you have a STRONG HEART. You will need all the Obi Akpor that you can get because you know why, this “society” that will judge you harshly are made up of more women than men. Yes, you heard me.
Your fellow women will judge you, and don’t be surprised if your mother, sisters and even aunts follow the bandwagon because many of them will.
They will judge you. The shitty ones will say it to your face, the not so shitty ones will say it on your absence.
Have enough Obi Akpor not to feel bad when they use you as bad marriage example in your family gathering.

Leave all these ones they are shouting
“Leave for your life” on social media. In real life if you leave, they will not accommodate you when you finally leave. Some will stop relating with you. They will cut ties with you because in their minds, you will come to snatch their own husbands, especially if you are good looking. Most of them won’t even let their brothers marry you no matter the goodness you want to bring into his life!
All those married ones shouting Queen May up and down won’t even let her sleep over at their place for one night if she has accommodation issues.
They can only support you from afar. In real life, dear divorcee, you are on your own!

As you are thinking of leaving that marriage of yours, bear in mind all that I’ve written above. Don’t just pack up and leave for any yeye reason that is not life threatening, especially if your husband is a responsible family oriented man. Work on your flaws if it’s workable. Overlook somethings if possible, but if you must leave, even if you have the whole money in the world and financial stability all around you, you will need a STRONG HEART.

Society is not nice.
The street is not friendly.
Don’t say I didn’t warn you.