WHY DO YOU WANT TO MARRY?
Some want to marry to escape house chores.
Some to get people to shut up and stop reminding them of their age.
Some out of jealousy of their friends who are getting married one by one.
Some, as a rebound from a broken relationship to prove to their EX that someone can need, love and marry them.
Some, to escape parental pressure.
Some, because of sex - access to unlimited sex in marriage.
Some, to have a man lavish money on them "legitimately."
Some, to bear children.
Some, to have a legally married maid who do all their sundry and slave to d£ath in the kitchen.
Some to bear "Mrs."
Some, to secure Pastoral appointment.
Some, to travel out or get residential permit abroad.
Some, to get a dad or mum for their kids.
And on and on it goes.
These are the wrong reasons for getting married. You read that right, read slowly again: THESE ARE WRONG REASONS FOR GETTING MARRIED.
You basically marry to help another person fulfill destiny. Others are bonuses.
You marry to give and be a blessing. Not use someone and suck blessings out of them.
After my fiance proposed and I accepted. I asked him "What is your vision? I like to know so I can help you fulfil it."
Marrying for selfish reasons is the reason many marriages are breaking down. No one wants to give, no one wants to love. No one wants to give patience and kindness. Everyone is shouting "Me! Me!! Me!!!" And when they don't get what they want, they cheat, they m√rder, they get divorced! Selfishness is the root cause of all marital crises.
We marry to give not just to get.
We marry to be a blessing to our spouse not use them as blessings.
We marry to make someone's life better, not bitter.
Until you get to this point, you are not ready for marriage regardless of your age.
WHY DO YOU WANT TO MARRY?
Some want to marry to escape house chores.
Some to get people to shut up and stop reminding them of their age.
Some out of jealousy of their friends who are getting married one by one.
Some, as a rebound from a broken relationship to prove to their EX that someone can need, love and marry them.
Some, to escape parental pressure.
Some, because of sex - access to unlimited sex in marriage.
Some, to have a man lavish money on them "legitimately."
Some, to bear children.
Some, to have a legally married maid who do all their sundry and slave to d£ath in the kitchen.
Some to bear "Mrs."
Some, to secure Pastoral appointment.
Some, to travel out or get residential permit abroad.
Some, to get a dad or mum for their kids.
And on and on it goes.
These are the wrong reasons for getting married. You read that right, read slowly again: THESE ARE WRONG REASONS FOR GETTING MARRIED.
You basically marry to help another person fulfill destiny. Others are bonuses.
You marry to give and be a blessing. Not use someone and suck blessings out of them.
After my fiance proposed and I accepted. I asked him "What is your vision? I like to know so I can help you fulfil it."
Marrying for selfish reasons is the reason many marriages are breaking down. No one wants to give, no one wants to love. No one wants to give patience and kindness. Everyone is shouting "Me! Me!! Me!!!" And when they don't get what they want, they cheat, they m√rder, they get divorced! Selfishness is the root cause of all marital crises.
We marry to give not just to get.
We marry to be a blessing to our spouse not use them as blessings.
We marry to make someone's life better, not bitter.
Until you get to this point, you are not ready for marriage regardless of your age.
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