SINGLE LADIES, PLEASE LISTEN TO ME.
1. Do not marry EMPTY HANDED.
It takes two hands to wash a cloth clean. Every promising young man is looking for a helper. If you do not add any value to your home other than sex, you have become a leper.
Before you get married, go and learn money-making skills. Don't let the load be too heavy for the man. This also boosts your confidence psychologically. Insults come when you are not capable. While waiting to get married, get busy with financial stuff.
2. Do not marry EMPTY HEADED.
Go to school. There are a lot of part-time and weekend courses. There are uncountable online courses if situations around you are not favorable to attending a regular school.
It will help your psyche in a marriage. We have seen a lot of broken marriages where the man left because, to him, the woman was no longer a good image maker for him.
3. Do not marry into a culture you do not understand.
Marry with a sound mind making sound judgments. Know where you are going before you head for it. Don't get married and begin to fight every cultural demand from your in-laws. Shine your eyes before you enter.
4. Do not give birth to the number of children you cannot take care of.
Some children have become psychological misfits courtesy of their parent's inability to care for them. Ladies, times have changed. Take responsibility for the number of children you can handle with the help of God. That adage..... it is God that takes care of children is no more Internet compliant. It is now offline. No data!
Go and do family planning before you become a ridicule among your peers. We had a gateman who had 7 children and when his wife delivered the 8th one, he was excited to tell everyone. I shook my head. Feeding eight children with a 30k salary?
I heard of this young girl who married an 'okada' rider who already had 23 children. The guy died at the age of 31 leaving behind wives who had no jobs, and no education.
5. Do not love without your glasses on.
Love is
1. Do not marry EMPTY HANDED.
It takes two hands to wash a cloth clean. Every promising young man is looking for a helper. If you do not add any value to your home other than sex, you have become a leper.
Before you get married, go and learn money-making skills. Don't let the load be too heavy for the man. This also boosts your confidence psychologically. Insults come when you are not capable. While waiting to get married, get busy with financial stuff.
2. Do not marry EMPTY HEADED.
Go to school. There are a lot of part-time and weekend courses. There are uncountable online courses if situations around you are not favorable to attending a regular school.
It will help your psyche in a marriage. We have seen a lot of broken marriages where the man left because, to him, the woman was no longer a good image maker for him.
3. Do not marry into a culture you do not understand.
Marry with a sound mind making sound judgments. Know where you are going before you head for it. Don't get married and begin to fight every cultural demand from your in-laws. Shine your eyes before you enter.
4. Do not give birth to the number of children you cannot take care of.
Some children have become psychological misfits courtesy of their parent's inability to care for them. Ladies, times have changed. Take responsibility for the number of children you can handle with the help of God. That adage..... it is God that takes care of children is no more Internet compliant. It is now offline. No data!
Go and do family planning before you become a ridicule among your peers. We had a gateman who had 7 children and when his wife delivered the 8th one, he was excited to tell everyone. I shook my head. Feeding eight children with a 30k salary?
I heard of this young girl who married an 'okada' rider who already had 23 children. The guy died at the age of 31 leaving behind wives who had no jobs, and no education.
5. Do not love without your glasses on.
Love is
SINGLE LADIES, PLEASE LISTEN TO ME.
1. Do not marry EMPTY HANDED.
It takes two hands to wash a cloth clean. Every promising young man is looking for a helper. If you do not add any value to your home other than sex, you have become a leper.
Before you get married, go and learn money-making skills. Don't let the load be too heavy for the man. This also boosts your confidence psychologically. Insults come when you are not capable. While waiting to get married, get busy with financial stuff.
2. Do not marry EMPTY HEADED.
Go to school. There are a lot of part-time and weekend courses. There are uncountable online courses if situations around you are not favorable to attending a regular school.
It will help your psyche in a marriage. We have seen a lot of broken marriages where the man left because, to him, the woman was no longer a good image maker for him.
3. Do not marry into a culture you do not understand.
Marry with a sound mind making sound judgments. Know where you are going before you head for it. Don't get married and begin to fight every cultural demand from your in-laws. Shine your eyes before you enter.
4. Do not give birth to the number of children you cannot take care of.
Some children have become psychological misfits courtesy of their parent's inability to care for them. Ladies, times have changed. Take responsibility for the number of children you can handle with the help of God. That adage..... it is God that takes care of children is no more Internet compliant. It is now offline. No data!
Go and do family planning before you become a ridicule among your peers. We had a gateman who had 7 children and when his wife delivered the 8th one, he was excited to tell everyone. I shook my head. Feeding eight children with a 30k salary?
I heard of this young girl who married an 'okada' rider who already had 23 children. The guy died at the age of 31 leaving behind wives who had no jobs, and no education.
5. Do not love without your glasses on.
Love is
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