Don't call her your woman until you officially marry her... Men My neighbor begged me to lend him 10k to give his girlfriend to fix her phone. I asked him; " why don't you tell your girlfriend that you are broke and can't afford 10k at the moment?" He replied that he don't want her to be angry and dump him His answer was too funny to me, after laughing out loud , I simply told him that I don't have 10k to give him. He left with annoyance and I could see disappointments written on his face. When he left, I pondered on this and asked some rhetorical questions; Let's assume that my girlfriend is broke and couldn't fix her phone, then I couldn't help her fix it because I am also broke. Why would she be angry with me for being broke when she is also broke ? Why should my own brokenness give her serious concern when she should concentrate on solving hers? Is she indirectly blaming me for being the cause of her brokenness simply because I am her boyfriend? If she can't endure with me in my temporal brokenness, how will she be able to face marital challenges with me in the future? Being broke doesn't automatically make you a poor man. There is nothing wrong with you for being broke even billionaires experience brokenness once in a while . It is not something you should be ashamed of. The reasons you ventured into a committed relationship are; to check your compatibilities, to test her loyalty and sincerity and to make her know your dons and don'ts Her characters will determine where to place her; whether she belongs to the streets or to be domesticated. Yes, we are meant to help ourselves but not to your own detriments. At this stage, she is not yet your responsibility. Whatever you are doing for her is a PRIVILEGE not her RIGHT . Any woman whom you have not officially married, is not your woman. Don't call her your woman until you pay her bride price because she still have right to flirt with other men without breaking any law. Don't allow her problems to cause you headache when you have yours. . Assist her if you can but don't put yourself into debts to impress her Money can't keep her, . Your sacrifices are nothing to her, women are loyal to their feelings and their feelings are unstable Stop running helter skelter to help her, she will still dump you without having a second thought. Be wise Don't looseguard.

I was born in the wild, where gentle meets iron fists, weakness meets strength, timidness meets courage all to yield a tempered steel of emotions to adapt to these streets. So if I'm on a rampage you should know where I'm coming from. You wont survive being soft

1️⃣ *Massive wildfires that engulfed whole neighborhoods in Los Angeles* and displaced thousands have *killed at least 10 people, authorities said,* as California's National Guard soldiers readied to hit the streets to quell disorder. 🇺🇸 ⚠️ *News of the growing toll, announced late Thursday* by the Los Angeles County Medical Examiner, came as *swaths of the United States' second-largest city lay in ruins.* A *vast firefighting operation continued into the night,* bolstered by water-dropping helicopters thanks to a *temporary lull in winds,* even as new fires continued to spring up. *With reports of looting,* Los Angeles County *Sheriff Robert Luna said a nighttime curfew was planned* , and the state's National Guard was on hand to patrol affected areas. Governor Gavin Newsom said the *service members were part of a thousands-strong deployment of state personnel.*

The Judge Monkey: Once upon a time, two cats were passing through a street. Suddenly they spotted a loaf of bread lying beneath a tree. Both pounced upon it and caught the loaf at the same time. “It is mine. I saw it first," claimed one cat. While the other said, “I pounced upon it first and so it belongs to me." After having fought for a while, one cat said, “Let us divide it into two and take one piece each." “Indeed, a good idea," said the other cat. “But how do we divide it now?" A monkey sitting on the branch of the tree had watched all that happened between the two cats. “That loaf of bread looks good. I could do with it myself," he thought. Slowly he came down from the tree and walked up to the confused cats. “Yes, my dear friends! Can I help you?" asked the monkey. The cats told the monkey what the problem was and said, “Why do not you be the judge between us?" When the monkey nodded, the cats said, “Please divide this loaf for us." The clever monkey smilingly broke the bread into two pieces. But one piece was a little bigger that the other. “OH no! I will take a little bite of this bigger piece to make both equal," said the monkey, slyly. He took a bite from the bigger piece. But, he had taken a big bite. “Uh oh! Now it has become smaller than the other piece. I will just have to take a little bite from this piece now," said the clever monkey. The Judge Monkey took another bite. The two cats sat in front of the monkey, seeing the loaf of bread they had found getting smaller and smaller. When the whole loaf was eaten by the monkey, the monkey said, “I am sorry. I was really difficult to divide that loaf. I must be going now." And the monkey jumped onto the tree and was gone. “If only we had not quarreled among ourselves, we would have remained united and we need not have to go to the monkey and to become hungry now," said the two cats.

_The Rags-to-Riches Story of Jack_ Jack was born into a poor family, but his parents instilled in him a strong sense of determination. Despite financial struggles, Jack worked hard, selling vegetables on the street and reading books on entrepreneurship. He never lost sight of his dreams, and with the help of a small loan, he invested in a plot of land and started cultivating his own vegetables. As his business grew, Jack expanded his operations, hiring workers and investing in new equipment. He became known for his high-quality produce, and people came from all over to buy from him. By 25, Jack was a successful farmer, and by 30, he had built a business empire, employing hundreds and generating millions. Jack's story is a testament to the power of hard work, determination, and a willingness to learn. He went from a poor boy to a wealthy entrepreneur, and his journey is an inspiration to anyone who has ever dreamed of a better life. _What do you think is the most important lesson from Jack's story? Share your thoughts in the comments below!_

Let love begins in your family to the street

1) At some point in marriage, love may fade, you will only need commitment to survive. Especially when your partner changes from the person you knew initially. 2) As a woman, enjoy your single life now because when you marry, you could let go of certain lifestyle and pleasure because of kids and family responsibilities especially if you marry a man that's not supportive. 3) As a man, when you marry, you must let go of certain life for your family reputation and integrity. 4) Attraction Wanes. This is one of the things nobody tells you about marriage. Even if you marry the most beautiful woman or a handsome man, the attraction will certainly wane.You may feel that your partner is no longer attractive or your partner may feel the same about you. But still, the marriage can survive when you fall inlove with your partner's soul and content not just the body. 4) Your in-laws are not your friends. Relate with them with caution. Your mother in-law is not your mother. Maintain a healthy relationship but avoid see finish. 5) You can stay many months without séx because of responsibilities. 6) Marriage is work, you work to make it work. 7) You need to forgive because you will inevitably be offended. 8) Childbirth can alter your physical appearance or cause dámáge to your body. A successful child birth is a miracle. 9) If you marry someone who feels he or she is too good for you, you will be unhappy and miserábIe. The person will always make you feel less, like you're privileged to marry him/her. 10) Sometimes you will hide to eat because of the kids. 11) Even if you're faithful, you can still contract inféction from a cheáting partner. 12) Sometimes even when you're not in the mood, you need to satisfy your partner's séxual desire. 13) Sometimes you feel like your partner is the best in the world. After some weeks, you feel like your partner is the worst. You feel like you were bráin-washed into accepting the marriage. 14) Your wife can fill the whole room and wardrobe with her clothes. 15) If you marry a man that is obsessed with you, talking to other men is a big offense. It can lead to domestic vo!lence. 16) The person you marry can determine your lifespan, health and success in life. 17) The thought of what to cook can dráin you. 18) Sometimes giving a man peace of mind is allowing him to chéat without confronting him. Sad. 19) Raising kids can be draining. 20) If you're a career driven person, marry a supportive partner, Marry someone who is eager to aspire. If you marry unsupportive partner or someone who settles for status quo, you will suffér. 21) Don't be fond of reporting your partner's little mistakes to your family. It will reduce the respect they have for your partner. 22) Don't bring a third party to live with you without agreement with your partner else there may be issues. And when there is agreement, during the course of time, if the third party misbehave and your partner starts complaining, listen or caution. 23) Mind what you discuss with your mother in-law. Your mom and mother in-law are two different beings. 24) Don't disclose your bád past to your partner else it might be used against you during argument. 25) A woman who doesn't respect you cannot truly love you. 26) Respect is a two way street. 27) The way your partner treats you can significantly influence how others perceive and treat you, including their family. If you marry someone who frequently embarrasses you, you may become a subject of ridicule or sympathy in public. cc; Walshak Kos #fypシ゚ #felicitynazy #trend #trending #StayUpdated

3️⃣ Hundreds of *demonstrators took to the streets in Christian areas of Damascus to protest the burning of a Christmas tree* near Hama in central Syria , AFP journalists witnessed. 🇸🇾 _“We demand the rights of Christians,”_ *protesters chanted as they marched through the Syrian capital* towards the headquarters of the Orthodox Patriarchate in the Bab Sharqi neighborhood. 🎄 The protests come a little more than *two weeks after an armed coalition led by Islamists* topped the government of Bashar al-Assad. 🔥 The protests erupted after a video spread on social media showing *hooded fighters setting fire to a Christmas tree in the Christian-majority town of Suqaylabiyah* , near Hama.

😅😱 First Joke of the Year! 🤣😂 1.Dating a photographer is tricky because you won't know if he is posting his side chick or promoting his business.😅 2. Thank God s3x is not like recharge cards. When you want to load your partner, it will show you "This Card Has Been Used By Another Customer". Some people will run mad. You will just be hearing men shouting at night "I Say Tell Me The Truth, Who Recharged You"? 😅😅😅 3. I hate deep kisses I stop the day I found myself chewing rice I never ate😯🤦 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂 4. My mom kept a fish on the table and I ate it,this morning she is now asking me to look under the table if any rat has died 😭😭😭😭😭🚶🏼🤦 5. The last two girls I dated are now in UK I am not saying that I want to date you but don't you want to be in UK. ehnnn fine girl 🥰😂🤣 6. Nigeria and their bad roads aeroplane nearly jam me yesterday in our Street🥴🙄🚶🏼🚶🏼🤦 7. I told my mom to buy me dog, 😂she told me that, she can't be feeding 2 animals🙄, but who is the other animal🙄🙄🥺 8. Rest in peace Michael Jackson, sorry for the late post, I didn't have phone when you died, What a great footballer. I really love all his movies, the guy is really doing well In NBA 🥱🙄🚶🏼🚶🏼🚶🏼 9. The pain of being a visitor.. you still have to laugh even when their child run away with your meat 😂😜😂 10. Which level you dey for relationship Foundation, roofing, painting, finishing💯 Or you never see land buy.😂❤️ 🥴🥴🥴🤣🤣🤣 11. When I was stupid😩 i thought the moon was following me🙊 but now I realized that each street has their own moon🥴🤣😂😅😅 12. Some girls can be so stingy likeee. how can you be sweeping and still use one hand to cover your breasts. No space to even peep🥴😅🚶🏼 Please don't go without foll0wing me