PERFECT YET WRONG FOR YOU I know he looks so good, he is caring, he is kind, he understands you, everything about him looks perfect for you but is he the right one for you? I know she is modest, hard working, loyal, beautiful and in all ways absolutely charming and perfect but is she the right one for you? It is very possible to meet someone that ticks all your boxes now and yet is a wrong match for you. Many young people fail to know that, we don’t marry for now, we marry for the future. The guy that is look so perfect now, can he handle the things that you will experience in the next 20years when you both get married? Certain things you need to do in the future, does he have the audacity to stand by you, would he still understand you and stand by you when you begin to go through certain personal phases of your life as a lady? That lady that is look like the best for you now, have you seen how she will be in the next 30 years? Can she handle the things you will face then? You are more interested in marry for beauty and shape which is good, but can she handle the responsibilities God will entrust you in 25years from now? Does she have the tenacity to follow you through certain tough decisions you would have to make in the future? I bet you, after 20 years of marriage, beauty, shape, eloquence, physical ambience, height, cute eyes, sweet lines etc will not matter so much to you anymore What will matter to you, is that you are living peaceful life, watching your children grow, and fulfilling your purpose. I have never heard any couple who have been married for 30 years and above, saying that the reason why they have lived together for these long is because their partner is the most beautiful, most charming, most perfect, etc Whenever couples are celebrating their 30,40,50,60 years anniversary, what they often say as their reasons for staying together for that long is; trust, commitment, patience, faith in each other, etc This is why you need to involve God that knows your future more than you can ever possibly do to help guide you in choosing the right spouse. They may look perfect now but will they fit into all that God wants to do in your life and take you through in the future to come? Think. Philip Nwego

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When people were asked about their extramarital affairs, the responses were so w!ld that it'll make you question if marriage really still works fr.😭

I'll marry my best friend, my husband will be blessed, I'll not be in an abusive marriage... Amen 🙏🔥

*_CLASS OF ONE_* I was thinking this morning..... about our speed in this race of life. Last Saturday, I was privileged to attend the wedding of the daughter of my good friend and former classmate in College. As I sat as part of the guests at the reception, listening to the proud MOB (mother of the bride) giving her speech, I reflected on how far we've come as former classmates in school. I considered how her children are of marriageable age (the youngest just turned 20), while mine are still teenagers and so. I recalled another classmate of ours whose son just graduated as a medical doctor, but our other friend's son was just about to enter Secondary school. As I pondered on why it seemed some are lagging behind, the face of another of our classmates flashed by and I was reminded that his children are still in Nursery school While some of my classmates are yet to find their missing ribs. At this point, it dawned on me that though we were all classmates and graduated together the same year, life has shuffled us and placed us in different classes today. We were classmates in school, but not classmates in life. Everyone has his unique class. I concluded that in the school of life there are no classmates because Life is a class of one. *Life is a class of one. Hmm!!! That conclusion held me down for a bit. Ten years after I got employed in my dream job, getting a second promotion became a prayer point. One day, a colleague that we came in together on the same level walked up to me and said 'brother' na wa o! We came in together and I have gotten three promotions and you, just one. Is there something you are not doing?' I left him feeling bad but not for long because soon after, I realized that in the school of life there are no classmates. Life is a class of one. He is on his path while I am on mine. Just 3years after that, I became his boss. 🤷🏽‍♂️ *Have you considered why from the same branch of a tree you have both ripe and unripe fruits? The seeds were released same time and exposed to the same nutrients and environmental conditions but yet some ripen before others. Identical twins that deliberately wait for each other to be in the same class, engage in the same business-like P-Square (Peter and Paul Mburu), and even wed on the same day, will not get their wives pregnant on the same day. Life is a differentiator. My mind is made up that Life is a class of one. *If it is true that in the school of life there are no classmates because Life is a class of one, then why do we look at one another and feel inadequate, like we are not where we should be? Why would someone that has been privileged to be in a somewhat lofty position look down on others like he is superior in some way? Life is a class of one. I am in my class for now (it can always change) and you are in yours. Do not sweat over the class others are in because there are no classmates in life. If you like, give yourself double promotion as we do in those days, life will eventually place you in the class you are meant to be. Do not compare yourself with anyone, because you are in a class of one.~ *There are no classmates in life. The race is not for the swift, nor the battle for the strong but time, grace, and opportunities happen to them all. May our journey in life not be delayed and may the journey to our destiny not be cut short.🙏 - *~Hate no one~* - *~Envy no one~* - *TRUST IN GOD & DON'T BE LAZY. Let's ponder on this as we journey through life.

Actor Lateef Oladimeji...At a Podcast Interview feeling so emotional, he said someone called his wife Barren. For the fact that the couple not having kids yet doesn't warrant anybody calling the wife barren, there are some things in life that you dont mock people with....children is one of them...tori bo se wu olorun oba lon sola. The truth is, marriage will shake you, marriage will wine you, the real "Iji aye fimi lakalaka" is this thing called marriage. Marriage will make u look stupid, every married couple with different types of Marrita challenges, some na Poverty, some na childlessness, some na Violence, some na distance..to see prick knack na wahala, After getting married, Some people will be like..this is not the person i got married to..dem don exchange am...mo ti shi omo gbe ni ward. My friend, it is the same person u said i do to...what ure facing is Marrita challenges, in which it requires wisdom to deal with if u want it to last. For Dimeji and wife, commonsense should tell anyone that if they wants to have their own child, they will have it...there are 10 others means to have your own biological children..i believe they are not ready yet..there is nothing like being barren in their own case... The funniest part is that ..na the.people closer to them will be doing all these bullying, them, they open pseudo accounts to bully this beautiful couple...Very soon, una will be put to everlasting shame..God will answer them IJMN. Amen. Good afternoon fans dlizzy cares ❤💋🥰

DØ Yöu KnØw ⁉️ ⁉️ 🚨 Rema recently completed his initial 5-year contract with Mavin Records & Jonzing World and re-signed before releasing Benin Boys with Shallipopi last year. It’s possible that he triggered the extension clause in his original contract, which is why he’s still with both labels. Even after achieving so much success, Omah Lay is still signed to Keyqaad, a label he joined in 2020. Why do these artists choose to stay with their labels even after they’ve become successful? Are they getting significant value from the label, or is there more to it? That’s our topic for discussion today. RECORD DEAL CLAUSES EVERY UNKNOWN ARTIST SHOULD DEMAND BEFORE SIGNING A RECORD DEAL (WITH REALISTIC COMPROMISES) - Part 2 The lesson began on Monday, 6th January 2025. You can visit my wall to catch up on Part 1. 2. Term and Options (Contract Duration) Explanation: The term refers to how long the contract will last, usually measured by the number of albums an artist must deliver within a specific timeframe. For labels, long-term contracts are beneficial, especially if an artist becomes successful quickly. The label can easily recoup its investment and start making a profit almost immediately. In such cases, a long-term deal can be a win-win situation for both parties. However, if a label doesn’t invest heavily in an artist, a long-term deal can work against the artist. It can tie down their career and limit their opportunities to explore better options. For a new artist, shorter contracts offer more flexibility. You don’t know how things will play out, so a shorter term is safer. However, labels often insist on longer contracts during negotiations. Realistic Compromise: Agree to a 2-3 album deal over 3 years or less with options for extensions. However, ensure that the extension clause is performance-based — meaning the label must meet certain goals to trigger the extension. If the goals are not met, both parties can walk away immediately after the initial term. For example: The label must invest a specific amount in your promotion and marketing within that period. If the label fails to achieve these milestones, you can renegotiate or leave. This protects both parties and ensures the label is motivated to prioritize your growth. Why This Matters: Without a clear and fair term clause, you risk being locked into a contract that doesn’t serve your long-term career goals. Always negotiate terms that allow you to retain some control over your future. 📌Final Thoughts: Contracts are like marriage — if the foundation isn’t solid, you’ll struggle to break free when things go wrong. Copied

There's nothing like having your own money in marriage Atleast if you one fight anyhow fight you go with your full chest 😂😂😂

Listen up, Men! Your friend’s wife is NOT your friend. Don’t blur the lines, don’t cross boundaries, and don’t fall for this modern nonsense of “we’re just besties.” You are a man, and part of being a man is respecting your brotherhood and maintaining discipline. Let me break it down for you: there is no scenario where being personal or overly familiar with your friend’s wife ends well. You’re playing with fire, and the flames will consume your reputation, your character, and your peace of mind. Respect the boundaries. Stay in your lane. Sleeping with a married woman is the ultimate betrayal—of yourself, your values, and your integrity. The curse that comes with such an act is no joke. You may think you’re getting away with it, but trust me, the consequences will hit you like a freight train. Now imagine this: another man sleeping with your wife. Think about the rage, humiliation, and betrayal you’d feel. Why would you inflict that kind of pain on another man—especially your friend? If you wouldn’t want it done to you, don’t do it to someone else. Being a man means standing for something—loyalty, honor, and discipline. Your job is to protect your circle, not destroy it. If you’re even tempted to cross that line, check yourself, walk away, and fix whatever brokenness inside you is making you consider such betrayal. Be your brother’s keeper, not his destroyer. Respect marriages, respect boundaries, and most importantly, respect yourself. Real men don’t chase cheap thrills—they build legacies of trust, loyalty, and integrity. Stay disciplined, stay loyal #MasculinityRestored #RespectBoundarie

A TALE OF SECOND CHANCES 💕 (p.3) Diana came in last, young and beautiful as a rose. She was an epitome of beauty. Many believed Ted married her for that reason, because she was like a priceless treasure that many wished to possess. She was an aspiring actress before their marriage and rose to stardom months after. She’d agreed to marry him for the purpose of fame and had engaged in countless amorous relationships while Ted traveled the world building his empire. A few months to his thirty-fifth birthday, a letter reached MaryAnn, who now lived in a mansion in the city and was immensely successful, having opened many branches of Annie’s Fruity Mix all around the country. It was a letter from Ted. It read thus: "Dearest Red Rose, I hope you’re doing well! I am happy to see how far you’ve come since I last saw you. I’m sorry things had to be this way. I have many regrets even now. I hope Roselyne doesn’t hate me. I hope you let her get the gifts I send? I fear I may not see my thirty-fifth birthday. I have been diagnosed with a heart disease and I am deteriorating rapidly. The doctors say I have a short time to live. I’d very much love to see you again. Enclosed herein is the hospital where I am. Please come, and bring Roselyne along. Your loving husband, Teddy ❤” All the anger she’d felt faded at once, and she called her personal assistant to clear her schedule for the next day so she could visit her husband. Things didn’t go as planned because the lady Estella would not let them come into Ted’s chambers. An argument ensued between the two, and MaryAnn stood her ground until Ted’s PA walked up to her and pressed a note into her palm, extricating her from the argument. ... To be continued. ©️ Racheal Sam. #rainbowtalesbyrachealsam #viralstories #fictionbooks #fictionwriter #bedtimestories #MoralStory