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SEVEN THINGS YOU SHOULD GIVE YOUR SPOUSE DAILY

When it comes to giving, many married people are generous to everybody except their spouses. There are seven things you should give your spouse daily – not weekly, monthly or annually. They are things you must give your spouse daily. Let’s see them:

1. Give Your Spouse A TOUCH

One of the ways to bond with your spouse is to give him or her a touch. We have encouragement touch, affirmation touch, healing touch, apology touch, and we have sexual touch. Study your partner and know what touch to give at a particular time.

If you want God to touch your marriage, touch your spouse. Don’t let today go without you touching your spouse!

2. Give Your Spouse SPACE

As much as you need to bond with your spouse and be together for daily intimacy, communication, affection, planning, etc., you still need to give your spouse his or her space. There is time for couples’ prayers, time for couples’ bonding. Also there is time for personal prayer, personal meditation, personal rest, personal planning, etc.

Don’t choke your spouse. Don’t be over-possessive and over-demanding to your spouse. Stop unnecessary policing and monitoring. Give your spouse the space they need when they need it.

3. Give Your Spouse A CALL/CHAT

Some people can chat with all the contacts on their phone and all the people on their Face book friends list but they will never chat with or call their spouse all through the day.

Chatting with or calling your spouse in a day at work is a way of saying, “Dear, despite my busy schedule, I have you in mind. I am thinking about you.”

Make sure you send a chat, or give a call, to your spouse today. Make it a habit; it is beneficial to both of you. Nobody can be tired of receiving a caring chat or a call from someone they love.

4. Give Your Spouse A HUG

Hugging is fast disappearing in many marriages today. Research has proved that hugging is one of the emotional needs of every human being. It is the scarcity of spousal hugs that makes many men indiscriminately hug ladies who are not their wives. Many women too crave for hugs and unwittingly allow every Tom and Jerry to hug them because their husbands are not giving them hugs.

Hugs can be given in the morning, or at night, but let no day pass without you hugging your spouse. It is one valuable thing you must give your spouse. It could be a welcoming hug, a goodbye hug, an appreciating hug, or an affirmative hug.

Hugging is a non-verbal means of communication. Use it well. Don’t let your husband or wife crave for a hug from strangers when you are still alive. Hug passionately! Hug romantically.

5. Give Your Spouse A SMILE

God smiles on a home when couples smile at each other. A smile is a way of telling your spouse, “You delight me,” “Your presence amuses me,” “I am pleased with you.”

Frowning at your spouse is not a thing that should last a whole day. One of the ways to know your marriage is SMELLING is when you are not SMILING with each other. Smile. It is one of the best gifts you can give your spouse in a day.

I don’t like people who are not generous with their smiles. It is free. You don’t need to pay to smile. Just relax your muscles and smile. Couples, please smile! Keep smiling! To prevent your marriage from smelling, keep smiling with your spouse!!!

6. Give Your Spouse PEACE OF MIND

The home is the endpoint of everything we do daily. If you are a doctor, you can’t sleep in the hospital all the days of your life. You will need to come home. If you are an engineer, you can’t sleep in the site everyday. If you are a lawyer, you can’t sleep in the court everyday. Even as a pastor, you can’t be in the church 24/7. We all must go back home.

Home is the endpoint. Therefore, if your spouse will be excited to come home, it must be a peaceful home. Stop nagging, stop fighting, Stop insulting, stop abusing, stop threatening, and stop humiliating your spouse. Give him/her rest of mind. Give your wife rest of mind.

Be the head of your wife sir, not the headache of your wife. Madam, be a wife to your husband, not a ‘knife’. Blessed are the couples who give each other peace of mind daily!

7. Give Your Spouse A PRAYER

No matter how wealthy or highly connected you are, there are things you cannot do for your spouse. You are limited. One of the ways to show love to your spouse is to commit him/her to the unlimited God. Say a word of prayer for your spouse daily.

Every other thing may fail and may not work, but no force can withstand the power of prayer. You can’t heal your spouse, only God can heal him/her. You can’t lengthen the days of your spouse. Only God can do that. You can’t save your spouse. You can’t take away addiction and evil habits from your spouse , only God can do that for him/her..

Stay in the light, letting your worldly love for the things of the world away you will move you away from the light.

There are battles carried in silence, unseen wounds that weigh heavy on the heart, and quiet struggles that go unnoticed. Some days, just moving forward takes more strength than the world will ever know. Healing isn’t instant, and peace doesn’t arrive all at once, but with time, the weight begins to lift. One day, the past won’t feel so close, the fears won’t be so loud, and life will feel lighter again. Until then, trust the process—better days are on their way.

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Education is not the filling of a pail, but the lighting of a fire.

As the first light of dawn breaks, it brings with it hope and vitality.

"Unshakeable Heart"

In the face of fear, we find our might,
A courage that's born, in the darkest night.
It's the voice that whispers, "Do not flee,"
A heart that beats strong, with a spirit free.

Like a rock that stands, through the raging sea,
Courage holds its ground, wild and carefree.
It's the fire that burns, with a passion pure,
A soul that's unshakeable, forever secure.

With every step forward, with every fall,
Courage rises stronger, through it all.
It's the light that shines, in the darkest place,
A beacon of hope, that guides us to our pace.

So let courage be our guide, our shining light,
That leads us through, the darkest of nights.
For with an unshakeable heart, we'll face each test,
And emerge victorious, with a courage that's blessed.

"Doorways to Destiny"

In every moment, a chance is born,
A doorway to destiny, waiting to be sworn.
Opportunities knock, with a gentle hand,
Inviting us to step, into a new land.

Like a sunrise breaking, over the hills,
A new beginning unfolds, with thrilling skills.
Each chance we take, with a courageous heart,
Leads us to a future, where our dreams never part.

With every step forward, with every choice we make,
We pave the way, for a brighter path to take.
So let's seize each moment, with an open mind,
And welcome every opportunity, with a grateful heart and kind.

For in the doorway of chance, our futures are made,
And the choices we take, will forever be displayed.
So let's step forward boldly, with a spirit so bright,
And turn each opportunity, into a shining light.

, We can easily forgive a child who is afraid of the dark; the real tragedy of life is when men are afraid of the light

By an Anonymous!👇🏿

*A PROSE OF AN OBSERVER ABOUT IBB BOOK LAUNCH*

I have always said that if you stay alive long enough in Nigeria you will see devil exhumed from the grave and deoderised by Nigerians.

IBB's book launch presented a perfect platform for such occasion.

OBJ was there. Taking notes for his next book.

GEJ was present. Looking clueless and neither here nor there as usual

Gowon as usual dwelt on inanities.

He eulogised IBB for restoring his rank yet unlike IBB is not bold enough to write his own book.

Perhaps, Gowon is also waiting for his contemporaries to die before lying over their graves like IBB.

and of course Bobo Chicago who claimed to fight for democracy but the current face of tyranny, evil and undemocratic practices was also there.

The people who betrayed Abiola and urged him to Golgotha were there shining their rotten teeth in the glistening light.

The picture represents the perfect problem with Nigeria.

These were men who contributed in the ruination of a country.

Nobody has bad word for IBB.

Given time, he has transformed into the perfect General.

He has become a hero and maker of men.

But give to IBB, as a military leader he understood evil craftsmanship.

He has dealt with rotten idiots who paraded themselves as Democrats so the audience before him were very familiar.

One vital question.

How did a man who did everything to destroy democracy suddenly became the beacon of democracy in Nigeria, to the extent that aspiring leaders visit his Minna Mecca to receive tutelage on leadership?

There were also billionaires like Arthur Eze who is at best a nuisance in Igboland.

There were Alakija. She was gifted with oil wells.

There was Dangote etc.

They all had good things to say about IBB.

No mention of Dele Giwa.

An unsung hero in a useless country.

Moshood Abiola at least got 1 day named after him each year.

That was enough price for dying for Nigeria and ruining his family and business.

After all IBB was his dear friend.

The billionaires claimed IBB made them.

Thus, they rewarded him with about 16 billion naira for his library project.

Laughable!

All the Nigerian dictators own libraries.

They gave back to him.

IBB was a maker of men.

By the way, Abacha also made some men.

When will they stand up and speak for him or probably build a library for him?

Buhari also made some men during his 8 years democratic dictatorship.

He will likely receive his flowers and a library named after him.

The Emilokrook made some men also as Lagos State Governor.

We recall he rebuilt the house of our Prof Wole Soyinka who was so poor he couldn't afford to rebuild his house.

In future the crooks he made will donate to his library.

So YOU, where exactly are you in the scheme of things as a Nigerian?

Your reward is poverty, hunger, unemployment, disease, homelessness, japa then heaven.

I can only take one positive thing from the meeting.

He took responsibility by admitting for the first time, that his friend, Abiola won the June 12 election.

Sadly again, and deliberately not for forgetfulness, Humphrey Nwosu, the electoral umpire during June 12 who was brave to announce most of the results against military directive wasn't mentioned.

Folks like Humphrey Nwosu doesn't fit the Nigerian optics.

He was a gatecrasher to uncommon destiny.

He lived in a wrong country among unclean people.

He became part of the collateral damage.

An unsung hero.

As IBB admitted to Abiola's victory, 33 years after, I look forward to the day the dark Professor, Mahmood will develop the manhood to confess openly to Peter Obi that he rigged the 2023 election to favour the Chicago drug baron.

I once said that even if devil appears physically in Nigeria that he would receive massive supporters.

Nigeria is the seat of evil.

It is a crime scene.

It's not habitable for human beings.

Living in Nigeria for far too long is capable of turning a saint to a devil.

I am yet to see an African country were evil is celebrated and bad character rewarded such as Nigeria by Nigerians.

It is one country I can tell you for sure that it cannot be redeemed.

A country populated by religious maggots who spend billions of naira to visit Mecca and Israel yet return to Nigeria as agents of Satan to ruin their people.

IBB is evil.

But those who came after him were undiluted devils.