Book update: Only big bum bum matters tomorrow by Damilare Kuku. Tells the story of a lady trying to get a bigger bum through surgery. It dives into themes of family relationships and love.

A divorced friend remarried 2 months ago, I heard from her younger sister that her ex husband was very vexed about it. That why wasn't he informed before she remarried...he even threw small drama at the family.

Thank God, she was wise enough to leave his son with her mother, despite her new husband's pleas to bring him, she refused. The ex husband would had used the son to create bigger drama.

Her ex husband swore no one will ever marry her again, he destroyed her name and she had some challenges remarrying, once he knew she's dating, he'll find a way to manipulate the suitors mind, she had lost two suitors because of him. But this one came as a surprise to him, because she kept the relationship hidden even from some family and friends.

What pissed him more was when he learnt she married as a first wife, her present husband was never married,he married her like a New bride not bazawara(divorced woman)and all the things her ex husband denied her, she's enjoying it in her present marriage. Her present husband enrolled her in a school and also established a small business for her. That support she didn't have in her first marriage, she's getting it in her second.

I learnt from her story that
*When it's your time, nothing can stop it. What is meant for you will always be for you.
*To keep a low profile with relationships especially when you have enemies around you, waiting to shame you.
*A failed marriage is never the end, being a single mum won't stop you from finding love again.
*No matter the lies and rumors about you, stay true to yourself, God see's your heart, someone befitting of you will see you for who you truly are.
*If that man won't value you, another man will.
* Not all men are same, some may break you, some will build you. There are good men out there too.

Life is unpredictable.

A person with a robust network of people is stronger than an individual with only money."

This proverb emphasizes the importance of building and fostering relationships, as they can be more valuable than wealth.

Social!

Social refers to:

1. *Relating to society or human relationships*: Interactions, connections, and institutions that shape our lives.
2. *Interacting or communicating with others*: Engaging in activities, sharing experiences, and building relationships.

Social aspects include:

1. *Community and culture*: Shared values, norms, and practices that define a group or society.
2. *Communication and language*: Verbal and non-verbal interactions, including speech, writing, and body language.
3. *Social structures and institutions*: Organizations, governments, and systems that shape social behavior and interactions.

Examples of social contexts:

1. *Family and friendships*: Personal relationships and networks.
2. *Workplace and education*: Professional and academic environments.
3. *Community and civic engagement*: Volunteering, activism, and community participation.

Social skills and competencies:

1. *Communication and listening*: Effective expression and reception of information.
2. *Empathy and understanding*: Recognizing and respecting others' perspectives and emotions.
3. *Cooperation and teamwork*: Collaborating and working together towards common goals.

Do you have any specific questions about social contexts, relationships, or skills?

"Relationships don't always make sense. Especially from the outside."

Advice for Young People:

1. Invest in Yourself – Learn new skills, read books, and never stop improving.


2. Be Patient and Consistent – Success doesn’t happen overnight; keep working hard.


3. Build Strong Relationships – Surround yourself with positive, driven people.


4. Stay Financially Smart – Save money, avoid unnecessary debt, and explore investments.


5. Take Risks and Learn – Don’t be afraid to fail; every mistake is a lesson.


6. Prioritize Health – Take care of your mind and body; success is useless without well-being.


7. Develop Good Habits – Small daily habits shape your future.

@megabyte life #

Nurture your relationships with love, care, and kindness, and watch them blossom into lifelong connections that bring joy and fulfillment.

Sometimes in order for God to bless you, you have to make room for what he's trying to give you. It may require you to let go of old habits, old ways of thinking, friendships, relationships, even jobs. This next chapter is called: Make room.

The "love of women" can refer to a deep emotional, romantic, or physical attraction to women. It’s a complex and multifaceted concept, shaped by cultural, personal, and social factors. It can manifest as romantic love, admiration, or an appreciation for women in a variety of forms—whether it’s for individual women, as part of a broader appreciation for gender, or in a romantic sense, where one is attracted to women in particular.

In the context of romantic relationships, the love of women often involves feelings of affection, care, and commitment. It can also be tied to ideas of respect, equality, and mutual understanding. There’s also the idea that such love should be based on genuine connection rather than objectification or superficial attraction.

However, the "love of women" can be interpreted differently depending on the perspective. Sometimes, it can carry negative connotations, especially when it leads to possessiveness, objectification, or unhealthy behavior.

How do you see the love of women? Are you exploring a specific angle or perspective on this?

The love of money, often referred to as "greed" or "avarice," is an intense desire to accumulate wealth and material possessions. This can lead to an obsession with financial gain, sometimes at the expense of ethics or relationships. People who have an overwhelming love of money might prioritize it over other values such as love, integrity, or social well-being.

In many cultures, the love of money is seen as a potential negative trait, as it can lead to selfish behavior and a lack of empathy for others. However, some also view financial ambition as a motivating force for personal achievement and success, as long as it doesn't harm others.

The concept is often explored in literature, philosophy, and religion, with warnings against excessive attachment to wealth, such as the biblical saying, "For the love of money is the root of all evil" (1 Timothy 6:10).

What are your thoughts on the idea of money and its role in people's lives?