Some women choose to follow men,and some choose to follow their dreams. If you are wondering which way to go, remember that your career will never wake up and tell you that it doesn't love you anymore.

Some women choose to follow men,and some choose to follow their dreams. If you are wondering which way to go, remember that your career will never wake up and tell you that it doesn't love you anymore.

Whenever you see a successful woman,look out for three men who are going out of their way to try to block her - Yulia Timoshenko

Better late than never, don't give up

LOOK OUT FOR THIS ALSO ✍🏾 When it comes to choosing a life partner, people have different criteria. Some look for beauty, financial stability, social status, spirituality, or intelligence. Others look out for shared interests, purpose or even tribe. All of that is good, I'm not against it in anyway, as an adult it's your responsibility to know what you desire and if you're serious about it, you go for it. Now, because of the nature of my work, I’ve had the privilege of talking to many people about relationships, however, I’ve noticed something, very few people mention what I’m about to share with you. One of the greatest challenges people face in their relationships is insisting on people who are unwilling. Please pay attention to every word I’m about to say. If you can understand this truth and apply it, your life will change for the better. Don’t insist on someone who is not willing. 🙏🏾 It may not sound like a big deal, but I'm telling you it's super important, look out for someone with a willing heart. Unwilling people will make your journey hard, exhausting, and full of struggles. Love was never designed to be forced. A relationship should not feel like a battlefield where you constantly have to convince someone to love, respect, or value you. Marriage is meant to be a partnership, not a burden. Your partner should be someone who genuinely delights in making your life easier and better, someone who willingly helps you focus on the things that truly matter with as few distractions as possible. An unwilling person will not do that. No way! Instead, they will drain you emotionally, frustrate your efforts, and make the relationship feel like hard labour. If you have to push, beg, drag, or nag someone to fulfill their basic duties in a relationship, pause and ask yourself, am I signing up for a lifetime of struggle? You need to know, it's very important. Because that’s exactly what happens when you marry an unwilling person. A willing partner is committed. They show up, they contribute, they take responsibility—not because they’re forced, but because they want to. Even scripture says, “If I do this thing willingly, I have a reward…” (1 Corinthians 9:17). Willingness brings results. Don't settle for a marriage full of unnecessary crisis, life is hard enough, don't add salt to injury. Willingness makes the journey smooth. 💯 Willingness is proof of love, respect, and commitment. Willingness is key to any successful relationship. A person who is willing will take initiative, they will be intentional about the relationship, and they will put in effort without being pressured. On the other hand, an unwilling person will always find excuses, delay commitments, and resist responsibilities. God didn’t create marriage to be endured, He created it to be enjoyed. But that enjoyment is only possible when both people are equally invested in the relationship. Don’t beg to be loved. Don’t force someone to choose you. The right person won’t need convincing to love you, commit to you, or prioritize you. When it is right, you won’t have to fight for attention, beg for love, or constantly prove your worth. There are a thousand and one other people out there who will be more than willing to love you, except if you're telling you don't know who you are or your worth as a child of God. A relationship where one person is always dragging the other along will never be fulfilling. Marriage is too heavy to operate successfully on the energy of one person, no matter how vibrant and strong you think you are, marriage won't work out with your input alone. Listen, someone can be "God-fearing" and unwilling, what I'm trying to say is this, look out for willingness in your spouse also, at least, in addition to all the other qualities you so desire. If someone truly wants to be with you, they will show it willingly. Do yourself a favour by choosing wisely, and please, don’t settle for an unwilling person for any reason. This is just a counsel and you can do with it as you please 🙏🏾 Enjoy 😊

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Never give up. Believe in yourself. Your belief in self will make you aware of your strength, power, & determination to thrive.

RELATIONSHIP COACH MARRIAGE THERAPIST √THE DIFFERENT STAGES OF MARRIAGE... For you Learn Read and Know 1. THE AMAZEMENT STAGE: This is the "wow" stage. Lots of new things to discover with your spouse. The newness, the freshness is so amazing. Sleeping on the same bed, wearing the same attire, cooking for him, doing house chores with her, bathing together. Wearing your dazzling wedding ring everywhere, turning people's head at the newest couple around. Loads and lots of fun. Sexual exploration and excitement. Being in control of your kitchen, feeding him and lots more. It's the honeymoon stage and it's so so beautiful. 2. THE IRRITATION STAGE: This is when you begin to notice weaknesses you have overlooked or blissfully wish they go away but didn't. The repetition of such weaknesses begins to work on your nerves and you are getting irritated: he snores a lot, she is slow in the kitchen, she belches loudly, he screams unnecessarily, she won't bathe before coming to bed or shave, he spends many hours watching football and ignores you when you talk. "What's just wrong with this guy?" You think aloud, well it's part of marriage. 3. THE ANGER STAGE: This is when the repetition of such weaknesses gets on your nerves and you display your anger. The introverted partners stuffs it in and either keep malice, avoid you or stubbornly continue with the irritating habit. It's the stage you begin to wonder: "have I really married the wrong guy?" "Have I married the wrong woman?" No, you did not, you are simply going through a phase together. 4. THE RESSOLUTION STAGE: When you both begin to face the reality of marriage and acknowledge your partner's weaknesses. You eventually realize anger and malice does not solve any problem and begins to find ways to deal with your differences, both of you begin to compromise here and there and adjust to each other. 5. THE ACCEPTANCE STAGE: When it dawned on you that some things are just part of your partner and may never change till Jesus comes. You resigned from anger, abuse and quarrel and choose to accept them, lovingly adjust to them and enjoy them regardless of their weaknesses. 6. THE RESTUL STAGE:This îs the stage you permanently accept them with all their strengths, weaknesses, short comings and flaws and love them unconditionally regardless of what they do. This is real love -agape,, divine and true. You reconnect emotionally, spiritually and physically at a deeper level and enjoy honey moon again while building a lasting marriage regardless of the challenges you face. There is no perfect marriage. Every marriage goes through this stages. How you handle it will determine if you will come out bitter or better. You don't have to àbuse your spouse or keep malice if Christ is at the centre of your home and you obey the word of God daily. Nevertheless, do not be disappointed if you go through the unpleasant stages in marriage. It is a phase and will surely ènd. Handle your marriage with wisdom and keep loving regardless of the challenges you face. That is what will make your marriage a Heaven on earth experience.

I know my redeemer liveth and I will never be put to shame

You will face many defeat in life but never let yourself be defeated.