Sometimes it’s better to move on than to hold on to a person who doesn’t understand you. Sometimes your absence will teach what your presence cannot... Hey you, Stop breaking your own heart by trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn’t meant to work. You can’t force someone to care about you. You can’t force someone to be loyal. You can’t force someone to be the person you need them to be. I’ll be real with you, sometimes the person you want most is the person you’re best without. You have got to understand some things are meant to happen, but just not meant to be. Some things are meant to come in your life, just not meant to stay. Don’t lose yourself by trying to fix what's meant to stay broken. You can’t get the relationship you need from someone who’s not ready to give it you. And I know it’s hard when your heart has labeled that person as someone you could spend forever with, but you just have to accept that they’re not that person anymore. And you might not understand WHY NOW, but I promise you your future will always bring understanding of why things didn’t work out. TRUST ME It is better to be alone and be happy than to be in a miserable relationship... Whoever sees you as an option doesn't deserve to be a priority in your life, you call him honey but he treats you like a monkey, He is your everything but you are nothing to him, you are doing everything to make it work, but he keeps thinking you are desperate and turns all your efforts to weakness... #Relationshiptips #Love #lifegoeson

If I am not your first choice, please don't waste my time. Don't chase me if I'm not the one you truly want to be with. Don't play games. Don't love me in halves. If I am not your first choice, don't encourage me to share myself with you. Don't let me open up to you about my past, my childhood, my fears. Don't let me reveal my soul to you if you're not ready to nurture it. Don't ask for a place in my heart if you're not planning on staying there. Don't awaken my love if you're not ready to love me. Don't hold me if you'll easily let me go. If I am not your first choice, don't stop me from finding the one who would put me first. Don't lie to me and tell me that I'm the only one when you're still juggling options. It is okay to not know what you want, but please, if that is the case just let me go. If I am not your first choice, please leave. Leave and don't disturb my peace. Leave instead of half-loving me. Leave instead of lying to me. Leave because I don't need this kind of darkened hope in my life. Leave before I get hurt enough to leave you. Leave before you leave a mark. Leave, because I can't keep sharing my world with you if you're distracted. If I am not your first choice, please leave. Because I'm the kind of person who pours when I love, who cares more than most. I am the kind of person who believes in rare connections. I'm the kind of person who will write you love letters, and make sure that you know you're enough when you doubt the way your heart beats. I'm the kind of person who will give you every part of me, but I need you to meet me there. You can't meet me half-way. You can't ask me to quiet the way I love. You can't ask me to settle for an almost. I'm the kind of person who wants all or nothing, who believes that a person's love isn't rare if everyone gets it, and I won't settle until I find someone who is ready. I won't settle until I find someone who is not afraid to choose me. #Relationshiptips #Lifegoeson

Don't sacrifice your happiness for a woman. Don't train any woman in school. Don't give any woman a life that you have not given to yourself. Dont pedestalize any woman. Don't empower any woman unless you are 90x better than her. Listen to me brothers: IF you know how fast women forget the good deeds and sacrifices you did for her, you will fear women. The truth is, all the things you are doing for her means absolutely nothing to her and you will only discovers this when she finds your replacement and that is not difficult for her. The only time women remember is the bad you did to them and not the good. A woman's loyalty is not guaranteed. Anything you are doing for a woman just count it as loss, never do for a woman what you can not let go. Be wise. #Relationshiptips #lifegoeson