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Nobody grinds harder than the women who's tasted failure, pain , rejection , loss, disrespect , loneliness and heartbreak at a young age.

Office of The Leader of The Senate FEDERAL REPUBLIC OF NIGERIA SENATOR NATASHA AKPOTI-UDUAGHAN WAS SUSPENDED FOR GROSS MISCONDUCT AND UNRULY BEHAVIOUR AND NOT AS A RESULT OF ALLEGATION OF SEXUAL HARASSMENT/ASSAULT The Authority of the Senate of the Federal Republic of Nigeria firmly rebuts the deliberate misinformation and false narratives being Circulated by certain media organizations regarding the six-month #suspension of Senator Natasha Akpoti Uduaghan. Let it be unequivocally stated that Senator Uduaghan was suspended solely for her persistent acts of misconduct, blatant disregard for the provisions of the Senate Standing Orders 2023 (As Amended) and gross indiscipline- nothing more, nothing less. It has come to the attention of the Senate that some media reports are attempting to falsely suggest that Senator Uduaghan's suspension was due to allegations of sexual harassment. This is completely untrue, misleading, and a calculated attempt to distort the facts. If Senator Uduaghan had strictly followed our guiding principles, the Senate would have treated her petition based on merit in line with its practice. But she never obeyed the established practices of the institution where she was serving. Facts of the Suspension Senator Uduaghan's suspension was a decision of the Committee of the Whole Senate, following the submission of a report by the Chairman of the Senate Committee on Ethics and Privileges. The report found her guilty of violating Sections 6.1 and 6.2 of the Senate Rules and recommended her immediate suspension. The disciplinary action was a response to her repeated violations of legislative decorum, including: 1. Refusing to sit in her assigned seat during plenary on 25th February 2025, despite multiple pleas from the Minority Leader and other ranking Senators-an act of open defiance and disorderly conduct. 2. Speaking without being recognized by the presiding officer, in clear violation of parliamentary practices and procedures on 25th February 2025. 3. Engaging in unruly and disruptive behavior, obstructing the orderly conduct of Senate proceedings. 4. Making abusive and disrespectful remarks against the leadership of the Senate. 5. Defying and refusing to comply with the summons of the Senate Committee on Ethics and Privileges mandated to investigate cases of misconduct. These actions represented a direct challenge to the Authority of the Senate and a violation of the Senate Standing Orders 2023 (As Amended) that govern the business of the Senate and the conduct of its members. The disciplinary measure was, therefore, necessary and justified to restore order and uphold the integrity of the Senate as the country's foremost democratic institution. On the Petition and Allegations Contrary to the false claims being circulated, Senator Uduaghan was NOT suspended for making any sexual harassment or for submitting a petition. Her petition was rightfully discountenanced because it failed to meet the clear and established procedural requirements for submitting petitions to the Senate. The rules of the Senate apply to all members without exception, and no petition-regardless of its subject-can be considered if it does not follow due process. To suggest that her suspension was linked to her petition is not only a distortion of facts but an intentional and malicious attempt to mislead the public. Condemnation of Misleading Media Reports The Senate strongly condemns the irresponsible and unethical reporting by some media organizations that have deliberately twisted the facts to suit a false narrative. This coordinated misinformation campaign is nothing more than an attempt to politicise a disciplinary action that was strictly based on clear violations of Senate Standing Orders 2023 (As Amended). It is reckless, misleading, and a disservice to the people of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, who deserve truthful and factual reporting. We, therefore, urge all foreign correspondents and responsible media houses to correct these misrepresentations and avoid propagating falsehoods that undermine the integrity of Nigeria's legislative process. Conclusion The Senate remains committed to upholding discipline, order, and parliamentary ethics. No senator-regardless of status, gender, or political affiliation is above the rules of the Senate. Senator Uduaghan's suspension was the direct consequence of her actions and nothing else. We urge the public and the media to disregard any false reports suggesting otherwise and to always seek the truth before spreading politically motivated narratives. Senator Bamidele Opeyemi, CON Leader Of The Senate, Federal Republic of Nigeria 8th March 2025

Nobody grinds harder than the women who's tasted failure, pain , rejection , loss, disrespect , loneliness and heartbreak at a young age.

She Tests You with Disrespect. Your Response Sets the Tone. A woman will always test you. Not because she hates you, but because she needs to feel your strength. And the quickest way to measure a man’s strength? Disrespect. She ignores your texts. She raises her voice. She talks over you. She flirts with other men in front of you. She throws tantrums over nonsense. And how do weak men respond? They explain. They argue. They beg. They tolerate. They fail. A strong man? He checks that nonsense instantly. He sets the tone. He makes it clear, this is unacceptable. No long talk. No emotional outbursts. Just a simple understanding: “I don’t tolerate disrespect.” And if she keeps pushing? He walks. Because a woman who disrespects you once and gets away with it will do it again. And again. And again, until you’re a joke in her eyes. You either set the tone, or she will set it for you. Respect is given to men who demand it. Disrespect is given to men who tolerate it. If you disappoint, you must appear before the council of brotherhood and explain why you've decided to disgrace everybody! ✍️ Girls Approach Copied

Trump kicking Zelenskyy out of White House is disrespectful.

I believe in mutual respect Don't disrespect your neighbor

The real flex is learning to raise your emotional intelligence so toxic people can't play mind games with you, learning to pause before reacting so manipulators can't disrespect you and blame you for your negative reactions, and learning to say "no" so takers can't take from you. #Danloader

Kindness has its limits. There’s a time to be nice, and a time to stand your ground. Being a good person doesn’t mean tolerating disrespect. Boundaries aren’t mean they’re necessary.

How I Teach My Daughters to Recognize a Real Man 1️⃣ Never Fund a Man’s Potential – A man’s growth is his responsibility, not yours. If he’s still “figuring it out,” he’s not ready for you. You are a partner, not a stepping stone. 2️⃣ Do Not Carry His Burdens – A man should come prepared to lead, not looking for a woman to fix, build, or struggle with him. If he cannot provide, protect, or guide, he is not a man—he is still becoming one. 3️⃣ Never Accept Less Than You Deserve – You don’t shrink to fit a man’s life; he expands to meet your standards. A strong man rises to the occasion—a weak one asks you to settle. 4️⃣ If He Invites You, He Provides – A man who values your time respects the responsibility that comes with it. If he asks you out, the bill is his. No discussion. 5️⃣ If He Wants Your Time, He Earns It – Your presence is a privilege, not a given. A real man shows consistency, effort, and intentionality. Anything less is a waste of time. 6️⃣ A Man Who Wants You Forever Will Never Rush You Into Bed – A man with true intentions will never pressure you. He will value your mind, your presence, and your standards. Lust moves fast—love moves with patience. 7️⃣ Never Stay in a Relationship with a Liar or a Cheater – Disrespect is not love. Betrayal is not a mistake—it’s a choice. A real man protects your heart, not plays with it. When a man shows you he can’t be trusted, believe him and walk away. 8️⃣ Never Entertain a Man You Wouldn’t Want Your Son to Be – If his character wouldn’t make you proud as a mother, he has no place in your life as a partner. The men you allow in your space set the standard for the next generation—choose wisely. 9️⃣ If He Doesn’t View You as His Wife and Provide for Your Needs, He’s Bringing Chaos and Confusion – A man who isn’t intentional about you is a distraction. If he’s not stepping up, he’s pulling you down. A real man brings clarity, stability, and security—not stress. My daughters will never settle. Neither should you. 💯 If your fathers didn’t teach you, i am! NDBA No Dusty Bums Allowed! ----------------------------------------------------------------- We're happy to announce that our highly anticipated women's conference is coming soon! Rise Above Women Conference Theme: Her Time To Shine This empowering event is designed specifically for women, tackling a wide range of issues and topics relevant to your lives.