Lack of intimacy and physical affection:
A lack of commitment can also cause couples to fail to meet their emotional needs in marriage—for instance, lack of intimacy and physical affection. For example, suppose one partner is not fully committed to the relationship. In that case, they may not be as invested in maintaining a physical connection with their partner. That can suffocate romantic love and lead to divorce.

Feeling unappreciated or neglected:
Sometimes, a lack of commitment can make one partner feel appreciated and supported. For example, suppose one partner is not trying to make the relationship work. In that case, the other partner may feel like they are not valued or appreciated.

Divorce:
In the worst case, a lack of commitment can lead to the end of the marriage. If the issues caused by a lack of commitment are dealt with, they can become manageable. However, they can lead to the couple deciding to end their marriage.

It’s important to remember that marriage is a journey, and commitment is not a destination but a continuous effort. Therefore, when there’s a lack of commitment, it’s essential to address and work through the issues together.

Making time for each other

Making time for each other is one of the most critical aspects of a marriage commitment. As the famous quote by Nicholas Sparks goes, “You are my best friend, my soulmate, my everything.”

It is essential to make time for each other, to spend quality time together, and to make an effort to keep the spark alive in the relationship. Couples can do this through date nights, weekends away, or simply by walking together.

One of the most critical aspects of commitment in marriage is effective communication. According to John Gottman, a renowned relationship expert, “The single most important factor in the success of a marriage is the quality of the couple’s communication.”

Through communication, couples can share their thoughts, feelings, and needs. In addition, communication enables spouses to work together to solve problems in their relationship.

6 DIFFERENT KINDS OF BRIDES/GROOMS AND WHAT TO EXPECT ON THE WEDDING NIGHT...

FOR THE BRIDES...

1. The uncircumcised non-virgin.

2. The circumcised non virgin.

3. The uncircumcised virgin.

4. The circumcised virgin.

5. The 25 years old anqd below virgins.

6. The 26 years old and above virgins.

FOR THE GROOMS...

1. The virgin.

2. The non-virgin

3. The one with a small penis.

4. The one with an average penis.

5. The one with extra large penis.

6. The one with an history of addictive masturbation, pornography, erectile dysfunction (ED)/impotence, etc.

Sex is part of the reason we get married and God wants us to enjoy sex to the maximum! You won't enjoy sex if you don't know how to have sex though Many years of premarital sexual experience not withstanding, if you don't know how to have MARITAL sex, not illicit or stolen sex, your marital sex life will be frustrating.

I often hear ugly, frustrating sex from honeymoon into several decades of marriage and I am not happy each time I hear them. This could easily be averted if you are properly taught and coached on how to enjoy a stress free, blissful marital sex life from your wedding day forward!

That's why I wrote SEX SWEET SEX! And PASSIONATE LOVE MAKING FOR NEW BEGINNERS.

If you are about to marry and scared of what your wedding night might be or you've been married for years and you are not enjoying sweet love making in your marriage or you know young people about to wed who need adequate knowledge in this regard or couples struggling sexually and need help, please recommend these two books to them, they desperately need them and surely! They will come back with their tank full of testimonies!

May your marital sex life be delicious!

© Seun Oladele

Couples struggle with communication because we listen to reply. If we listened to understand, conversations would look different because your partner would feel heard.

New York Times bestselling author Cheryl Richardson said, “People start to heal the moment they feel heard.” I love this quote and I see it happen all the time when I am working with couples. When I help couples learn to take the time to postpone their own agenda and listen, to truly listen to their partner, the conversation looks different.

It is important to show your partner that you are listening with understanding and empathy. Your partner will feel heard when you validate their feelings. Validation does not mean that you agree with everything you heard. It just means that from your partner’s perspective, you can see why they felt that way and you can understand their views.

Every time I see a couple do this for the first time, I know I am watching an amazing communication transformation. When I notice that it has become the new pattern of communication, I know that the couple is on their way to getting back the feelings that they desire.

Communication struggles is a common stressor in all relationships and more specifically marriages. The majority of the couples I see, struggle to communicate in some ways. Some relationships are at the point where there is very little communication, because conversations turn sour and then each person is left frustrated, angry and sad.

When communication is difficult in a marriage, each spouse usually feels lonely in the relationship and many times they are unsure of what to do, unsure of the way to change their communication pattern. When communication is lacking, it becomes a big relationship dilemma and many questions come to mind like… “Do we belong together?” ‘If we do, how do we change the way we communicate with each other?” “How can we communicate in a way that would be a connector for us and help make our marriage stronger?”

TIPS TO A HAPPY MARRIAGE:

1. Don't joke with your husband stomach...... Food is very important to men.

2. Don't avoid her food no matter how tasteless it may be. Encourage her if possible, teach her how to cook .

3. SEX is a bound that keeps marriage. Don't for any reason or reasons deny each other.

4. If you have issues between you. Don't be fast to involve a 3rd party.

5. Women, no matter how rich your husband may be. Find something to be doing, 2 good heads are better than one .

6. If you want to have a better and happy family. Train your children well.

7 . Women: don't wait for your husband to be providing all the family's need. He will one day breakdown.

8. Men, carrry your wife along in your plans. Her opinion could be the best.

9. Fault finders don't make good home ..... Have it at the back of your mind that nobody is perfect .

10. The sooner you learn that (I'm right) destroys marriages,The better for you .

11. Togetherness brings unity in marriage. Form a habit of eating and bathing together, it increases love among couples.

12. Forgiveness a key to a successful marriage. Forgive each other no matter the offense .

13. I'm SORRY should always be in your lips It's just a word but very powerful.

14. Don't for any reason keeps a secret between you. Trust each other for the good of your marriage .

15. Family planning is not only contraceptives or controlling child birth. Is all about planning together, families that plans together are a step closer to greatness .

16. Always involve God in your family He's the answer and solutions to your family problems.

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Happy Valentine's Day!

Remember, it's not just for couples to celebrate love in all forms. Love is all around you.

Valentine’s Day is here again—a day meant for love and romance, but sometimes it just serves as a harsh reminder that we are single. It is not exactly a great feeling, watching all the couples celebrate while realizing you don’t have someone to share it with this time. I guess this day really knows how to rub that reality in. Maybe next year will be different..

Happy Valentine's Day to you all

Happy valentine to all the couples in the house