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10 Powerful Advice for Anyone Seeking to Marry in 2025

Marriage is a lifelong commitment, and choosing the right partner is one of the most important decisions you will ever make. If you are considering marriage in 2025, here are ten powerful pieces of advice to guide you:

Marry for Character, Not Just Chemistry:
Physical attraction and feelings can fade, but a person’s character, their integrity, kindness, and values will determine the success of your marriage.

Know Yourself First:
Before you commit to someone else, understand who you are, what you want, and what you bring to a relationship. Healthy self-awareness leads to healthier choices, you can choose the right partner if you don’t know yourself and your purpose in life.

Be Aligned in Values and Vision:
Discuss the big things like faith, family, finances, career goals, and parenting styles. Shared values and a common vision create a strong foundation.

Observe How They Handle Pressure:
Marriage isn’t without its challenges. Watch how your partner deals with conflict, disappointment, and setbacks. Their reactions under pressure will show their true character.

Don’t Ignore Red Flags:
Disrespect, infidelity, dishonesty, or a lack of accountability are major warning signs. Don’t enter marriage hoping that these issues will improve, they usually get worse.

Build a Friendship First:
You know the saying “Marry your best friend”, Passion may spark the relationship, but friendship will sustain it. Marry someone you genuinely enjoy being around, laughing with, and sharing life with.

Prioritize Emotional and Spiritual Compatibility:
A strong emotional connection and shared faith can help you navigate the ups and downs of marriage. Pray together, grow spiritually, and invite God into your relationship. A relationship and marriage founded on God will pass the test of time.

Discuss Finances Before Marriage:
Money issues are a leading cause of marital conflict. Be open about your financial habits, debts, and future goals. Agree on how you will manage finances together. Do you want Joint accounts or not, how will you share financial responsibility and who will manage the finance of the home?

Listen to Wise Counsel:
Seek advice from happily married couples, mentors, or spiritual leaders. They can help you identify potential challenges and guide you in making the right decision.

Pray and Trust God’s Timing:
Marriage is too important to be rushed. Pray for discernment and trust that God will bring the right person into your life at the right time.

In conclusion, marriage is a journey, not a destination. It requires love, commitment, sacrifice, and grace. Enter it with wisdom, and you will build a union that lasts a lifetime.

Money may not solve all the problems you have but when you have it in correct measure and legitimately, it can be a vital lubricant for your journey here.

One of the major goals you and I have in life is financial independence. However, the subject of money is a source of frustration to many today.

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1. As a lady, you are at least 21 years old and the man is at least 25 years old.

2. You have a job/ business that can take care of you, your wife and at least a baby.

3. As a man you have your own apartment and you pay all your bills by yourself.

4. As a lady, you can take good care of yourself and another person without any stress.

4. You love children and hope to have yours.

5. You enjoy cooking and do house chores without being told.

6. You can live at least a thousand miles away from your parents.

7. You can make major decisions about your life and face the consequence.

8. You are no longer under the control and command of your parents.

9. You do not yield to peer pressure. You do what needs to be done regardless of what anyone feels.

10. You are sexually responsible. You know how to say NO to premarital sex and mean it.

11. As a lady you have a good relationship with your dad and you are submissive to authorities.

12. As a man, you love your mum, sisters and treat women generally with respect and dignity.

13. You know how to make and multiply money.

14. You are spiritually sound. You pray and receive answers to your prayers. You know how to hear God.

15. You are generous. You give with pleasure.

16. You have a healthy sexual desire.

17. You know exactly what you want in life and you pursue it daily to attain it.

18. You have a strong desire to love, bond with and help another person be all what God wants them to be.

19. You do not have destructive bad habits.

20. You are in full grip of your emotions. You are not hot tempered, lustful and possessive!

These and more are the signs you are ready for marriage. Marriage requires all round maturity: physical, social, financial, mental, emotional, psychological. It is not compulsory you must marry at 25.

Wait till you are mature or your immaturity will destroy your marriage. I see it happen all the time. May the Lord grant you understanding.

One with God is majority.

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This is one secret a lot of women don't know.

Men have this psychological construct that if a woman tolerates a thing from them, they hardly will change. A man wants a woman who has boundaries and doesn't take shît. When you start bringing down your standards for a man, he feels bored; no motivation to be with you again.

Men want women who can say NO and mean NO. When a man can make you do anything even against your standards, no matter how beautiful you are, you become less appealing to him.

Men love challenging women.
Men love women who are grounded in their beliefs.
Men love women who can walk away when what they want is not served.

This is why it's highly discouraged to settle with a man who has major habitual and behavioural issues that you can't cope with. No matter how much he poses to assure you that he'd change in marriage, if you fall for that. Immediately, the motivation to change drops. Don’t try to change anyone…change how you deal with them.

If a man can't change before marrying you, I fear after marriage, because most men do their best before marriage. So if this is his best before marrying you, imagine his worst?

Men want women who'll make them see that they'll lose them for not being that man they want.

Another reason men don't value women who stick to them no matter what they do.

√ He physically or emotionally abûsed you, you cry and come back..
√ He says he doesn't want you again, you cry and beg him.
√ He offends you, but you're the one apologizing.
√ He doesn't call, but you're making excuses for him that he's busy or that he's not the calling type.
√ He cheats on you, and you accept him back.
√ He ghost and gives you silent treatment but you keep going back.

In your feminine mind, you feel you're showing him love? You cannot do without him? Love cannot be found where it doesn't exist. Sometimes you have to accept the truth, and stop wasting time on the wrong people. You can’t build a relationship with someone who expects you to do all of the work.

No, you're not in love. You're devaluing yourself. When you know your worth you'll stop entertaining men who don't reciprocate your energy. Who you date/marry is an indication of what you think you deserve in LIFE. If you really think you deserve peace of mind, you won't settle for what disturbs your peace of mind. Who you date/marry is an indication of how much value you place on your FUTURE. Choosing that person is simply choosing how you want to shape all your tomorrows. Who you date or marry is an indication of how much value you place on YOURSELF. Watch closely, you're choosing an experience by choosing that person. Your CHOICE of what you call love is a selection of what you're prepared to live with all your life. Don't say I didn't warn you.

The more nonsense you tolerate from a man, the more nonsense he will produce for you.

Sometimes men prefer women who walk away than women that stays.
Men prefer women they can't have because of their high standards to women who bring down theirs to accommodate them.

Even if they get into something with you. Deep down they are not so thrilled. You're just a relationship of convenience to him. They will easily get bored. And they'll finally leave you.

Have a standard; know what you want, know what you deserve, say NO to anything that's not it and don't bring your standard down.

Kasa ta rikice fa An 'Ya Mutsa Gashin Baki A Zauren Majalisar Dattawan Nigeria Tsakanin Sanata Natasha Akpoti Da Shugaban Majalisar Goodwin Akpabio

Sanata Natasha Akpoti mai wakiltar kogi ta kudu ta bayyana cewa, bata tsoron Shugaban Majalisar "Am not Afraid of you" ta kara da cewa, duk wata matsala da take faruwa a zauren majalisar shi yake kawo ta" inji ta.

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