The two hardest tests on the spiritual road are the patience to wait for the right moment and the courage not to be disappointed with what we encounter.

It sucks when you know that you need to let go but you just can't because you are still waiting for the impossible to happen.

#Wait For it

Relationships aren't something you find, they're something you build.

Just like a house requires a strong foundation, walls, and a roof to stand the test of time, a good relationship needs effort, communication, and dedication to thrive.

Remember, relationships aren't a destination, they're a journey. And like any journey, it takes effort and commitment to reach the milestones.

So, don't wait for the perfect relationship to come along - build it, one brick at a time."

Women often wait, quietly, for men to reach out first, texting can take time.

You know, “Don’t leave anything for later” is such a simple reminder, but it hits hard when you think about it. We’re always putting things off, whether it’s sending that text, starting a project, or even just taking a moment for ourselves. It’s like we assume there will always be more time. But honestly, the more we push things to later, the more we miss out on doing or experiencing them now. Sometimes it’s better to just dive in, take action, and see where it leads. Life moves fast, so why not make the most of it now rather than waiting for the “right” moment?

Credit - Kanye Diary

𝐌𝐲 𝐅𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 

I couldn't wait to look at someone who shared my genes. I thought my baby was going to provide a decoder key to my past. But then I looked at Pippa and realized, no, she's actually the key to my future.

Did you know that those who pass from this life with unresolved sins may journey through purgatory? Here, their souls are purified through suffering, yet they hold the hope of redemption as they await God’s mercy and a chance to enter eternal peace.

IMPOSSIBLE TO BE TOGETHER
EPISODE 10

Adunni's step mother finally got home, and the first thing she did was to start shouting at adunni.

From where I stood, i could hear the conversation between her and adunni.

“You stupid, hopeless girl, what did I told you before leaving for the market this morning?”....... she yelled angrily.

“You said i should come meet you at the market when I am done with the house chores”........ adunni replied, at the verge of shedding tears.

“So why didn't you come to the market, as i had instructed?”.......her step mother yelled again.

“ I'm sorry maami, i was busy at home, so I forgot to come to the market”....... adunni pleaded on her knees.

“Don't worry, by the time i am done with you, you will never disobey my orders again”...... adunni's step mother said angrily.

She raised her hands up and wanted to start beating adunni, I instantly stretch my hands towards her, and my magical powers sent her flying in the air, and hit her hard on the ground.

Adunni rushed towards her in panic thinking her step mother had died, because she was unconscious.

I stretched forth my hands towards her again, and twist my hand like i was controlling something.

Suddenly adunni's step mother regained consciousness, and she immediately sat up from the floor and was coughing loudly.

Adunni quickly rushed in, and came out a minute later with a cup of water in her hands, then she carefully gave her step mother to drink from it.

Her step mother drank the water, and gave adunni the empty cup, panting hard, like someone who just ran a long distance.

With the help of adunni, her step mother got up from the floor, and slowly went inside the house without confronting adunni anymore.

I smiled mischieviously seeing what I had just done, I won't allow anyone hurt my beautiful maiden, never.....I said within myself.

After i was sure adunni's step mother won't trouble adunni again, I went back to the river where I belong.

When I got to the river bank, i teleported myself back into the waters.

Immediately i got into the water, I saw my duplicate already waiting for me.

I decided to have a little chit chat with him before sending him away.

How was your stay with my mother, hope she wasn't suspicious about you?.......I asked my duplicate worriedly, but it suddenly started laughing.

“You are talking as if you don't know who your mother the queen is, of course she suspected me, and was even monitoring my every moves, but I managed to distract her from me”.........he responded.

“That is so thoughtful of you, am really greatful”......I said, tiredly.

“I'm sure you had a nice time with the love of your life, she is very pretty, no wonder you have been going crazy over her”.......it teased me.

“So you have been monitoring me while I was away?”.......I asked in surprise.

“Seems like you've forgotten quickly that a part of me was with you when you left to see her”.........it retorted, and we both laughed.

“It was a very long day for me, i think I need to go and rest now”........I said, referring to my duplicate.

He simply nodded his head, then I brought out my precious stone from my dreadlocks, and then placed it on his forehead, and he disappeared within the twinkle of an eye.

After my duplicate disappeared, I swam towards the palace and saw my mother sitting on her throne, and omi-eda sat beside her.

She stared at me for a while like she was searching for something in me, but I comported myself like i didn't care about anything, so she won't look suspicious to me.

“You were sitting close to me some minutes ago, were did you went to?”...... mother asked gently.

“I went mating with a maiden of our kind”........I replied bluntly.

Immediately i said that, mother and my sister giggled and were whispering to themselves, I heard what they were whispering, but I pretended not to care.

“I hope it lead to something good”....... mother said again.

I didn't respond, i kept thinking about adunni, I was missing her already, and cant wait for the next day to come, so I would see her again.

To be continued...

The Cockroach Theory

The cockroach theory for self-development

At a restaurant, a cockroach suddenly flew from somewhere and sat on a lady.

She started screaming out of fear.

With a panic-stricken face and trembling voice, she started jumping, with both her hands desperately trying to get rid of the cockroach.

Her reaction was contagious, as everyone in her group also got panicky.

The lady finally managed to push the cockroach away but ...it landed on another lady in the group.

Now, it was the turn of the other lady in the group to continue the drama.

The waiter rushed forward to their rescue.

In the relay of throwing, the cockroach next fell upon the waiter.

The waiter stood firm, composed himself and observed the behaviour of the cockroach on his shirt.

When he was confident enough, he grabbed it with his fingers and threw it out of the restaurant.

Sipping my coffee and watching the amusement, the antenna of my mind picked up a few thoughts and started wondering, was the cockroach responsible for their histrionic behaviour?

If so, then why was the waiter not disturbed?

He handled it near to perfection, without any chaos.

It is not the cockroach, but the inability of those people to handle the disturbance caused by the cockroach, that disturbed the ladies.

I realized that it is not the shouting of my father or my boss or my wife that disturbs me, but it's my inability to handle the disturbances caused by their shouting that disturbs me.

It's not the traffic jams on the road that disturbs me, but my inability to handle the disturbance caused by the traffic jam that disturbs me.

More than the problem, it's my reaction to the problem that creates chaos in my life.

Lessons learnt from the story:

I understood I should not react in life.

I should always respond.

The women reacted, whereas the waiter responded.

Reactions are always instinctive whereas responses are always well thought of.

A beautiful way to understand

LIFE.

The HAPPY person is not because Everything is RIGHT in his Life.

He is HAPPY because his Attitude towards Everything in his Life is Right!