Sheep spends its entire life afraid of wolves, only to be eaten by the shepherd whom it trusted.

Sheep spends its entire life afraid of wolves, only to be eaten by the shepherd whom it trusted.

THE SILENT BATTLE OF LOW SELF-ESTEEM ROBBED TOLU THE LOVE OF A REAL MAN

Find out how not to make the same mistake.

Tolu sat on the edge of the bed, staring at her reflection in the mirror. The woman looking back at her had tired eyes, a forced smile, and a heart full of doubts.

Daniel, her fiancé, had just sent her a sweet message about their upcoming wedding, but instead of feeling joy, she felt unworthy.

"What does he even see in me?" she whispered to herself.

Growing up, Tolu was never the most beautiful or the smartest.

She was the quiet girl in the corner, the one who never believed she was enough.

Her father’s harsh words still echoed in her mind "You're too clumsy, Tolu. Who will even marry you?"

Even when Daniel came into her life, showering her with love, her past wounds whispered that it was only a matter of time before he saw the truth: that she was not worth loving.

It started subtly. She would brush off his compliments, thinking he was just being nice.

When he held her close, she tensed, believing he would one day let go. And then, without realizing it, she began sabotaging their love.

"Why do you love me, Daniel? There are better women out there," she blurted out one evening.
Daniel sighed, holding her hands. "Because you're kind, you're beautiful, and you make me happy."

She pulled away. "No, I'm not. I'm not enough for you."

Days turned into weeks, and Tolu’s self-doubt became a wall between them.

Every time Daniel reassured her, she found a reason to disbelieve him.

She avoided dates, rejected his affection, and convinced herself that he would eventually leave. And one day, after another argument fueled by her insecurities, he did.

As she watched him walk away, her heart shattered. Not because he didn’t love her, but because she had never learned to love herself.

Low self-esteem doesn’t just affect how you see yourself—it affects how you love and how you receive love. It creates fear where there should be trust, distance where there should be intimacy.

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RCCG 100 DAYS FASTING AND PRAYER

DAY 50 SATURDAY, MARCH 1ST 2025

TOPIC: DELIVERANCE FOR PRISONERS OF WAR

BIBLE TEXT(S): Judg. 16:20-30, Psa. 79:11, Psa 91:2-4,119:49-50,

INTRODUCTION: Like Samson, there are many Christians who have become prisoners of war, due to their own making; however there are those who became captives themselves while trying to deliver others. We need to pray
that all lawful and unlawful captives be set free.

PRAYER POINTS

1. Bless the Lord, Oh my soul, and all that is within me, Bless His Holy name. Let us worship the Lord in the beauty of His holiness. Psa. 103:1.

2. Father, thank You for ushering us triumphantly into the Landmark Year 2025 in Jesus name.

3. Father, we thank You for being our help in ages past; for all the mercies and blessings and our hope for this new year 2025 in Jesus name. Lam 3:22-23

4. Father, deliver those held captive as prisoners of war, free them from physical and emotional bondage in Jesus name. Judg. 16:20-30

5. Father, grant that those imprisoned may experience Your presence and comfort, sustaining them until freedom is secured in Jesus name. Ps. 79:11

6. Father, protect all prisoners of war from harm and abuse, shielding them from the enemy's cruelty in Jesus name. Judg. 16:20-30

7. Father, help those held captive to trust in Your protection, knowing You are their Rock and Refuge in Jesus name. Psa. 91:2-4

8. Father, grant prisoners of war strength and resilience, to endure the challenges of captivity without compromise in Jesus name. Judg. 16:20-30

9. Father, help those held captives to find comfort in Your Word, sustaining them with hope and encouragement in Jesus name. Psa. 119:49-50

10. Father, bring about the release of prisoners of war, restoring them to their families and communities of faith in Jesus name. Judg. 16:20-30

11. Father, grant all captive deliverance that they may experience the joy of salvation in Jesus name. Psa. 126:1-3

12. Father, heal the physical and emotional wounds of prisoners of war, restoring them to wholeness and health in Jesus name. Judg. 16:20-30

13. Father, help those who have been traumatized to find healing and peace, trusting in Your presence and care in Jesus name. Psa. 34:18

14. Father, grant those who have been oppressed may experience Your vindication, and that justice may be served in Jesus name. Psa. 103:6.

15. Father, in your mercy, restore all the weapons the prisoners of war might have lost to them in Jesus name.

Never trust anyone

Facts of life
Men,

1. Most powerful thing is self respect. Don’t lose it for anyone.

2. Invest in your looks. Do it for no one else but yourself. When you look good, you feel good.

3. A man who controls his cravings for
- Sex
- Food
IS A POWERFUL MAN. He has solved 80% of his problems. Your control of your sexual urges will be the reason you are either successful or a failure.

4. Stop judging your friends when they can't come through for you, they are also struggling.

5. If you fear losing her, you will lose her. Why? Because she is more powerful than you. She should be scared of losing you because you are her King.

6. The biggest setback comes from the people you trusted the most. The ugliest scar on your body came from your friend's knife attack.
- The knife he borrowed you to use. Therefore, learn to say NO and enforce your boundaries.

7. They will laugh at you until you start making money. Don’t be discouraged, keep pushing.

8. It’s okay to miss out on temporary fun, so as to build permanent stability, and that’s not a loss.

9. A society where men chase pleasure or drink alcohol instead of farming or manufacturing is a society captured by consumerism and feminism. No wonder you see all manner of vices, murders, corruption, theft and violence. It is a tragedy.

10. What a man sees while sitting, a woman will never see, even if she climbs a tree.

11. It's only a man who can pee through the window.

12. She knows she is the gatekeeper of sex, but once you fail to appreciate that you are the gatekeeper of the relationship. She will not hesitate to punish you. - and women are very good at punishing weak, clueless men.

13. Women can sense neediness and clinginess. Once she identifies your weakness, she will begin tying an option leash on your neck, she will take you through circles as you orbit around her, seeking validation and approval. Don't be a slave to women.

14. Genuine desire is never negotiated. Once you start begging for her attention

If you love someone, but you don’t use your words and your actions to communicate it, you’re not doing right by your partner. If you trust someone, let them know it. Marriage and communication should go hand-in-hand.

If you can communicate honestly, your marriage has a good chance of being happy and healthy. In fact, the importance of communication should be considered right from the courtship days as it sets the right foundation of the relationship.

Research tells us that open husband and wife communication is the cornerstone of any and every long and loving marriage. The problem is that some people just aren’t good at it.

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