Son, life will test you in many ways, but always remember these three things: Stay true to your word, treat people with respect, and never be afraid to work hard for what you want. Success isn’t about shortcuts—it’s about consistency, integrity, and resilience. No matter where life takes you, always carry yourself with honor, and you’ll earn the respect of the world.

#fada #son @megabyte

GIVE ME AWARD. PLEASE DON'T LIE OO.
1.gentle
2.beautiful
3.quick replier
4.always online
5.funny
6.hot
7.best friend
8.cute
9.trouble maker
10.shy
11.kind hearted
12.good singer
13.foodie
14.sturbborn
15.shakara
16.rugged
17.dancing
18.adorable
19.always has something to say
20.Respectful
21.kind
22.good in snapping
23.love posting
24.always snubbing
25.a good or fast runner
26.nice
27.knows how to play
28.always smilling
29.talkative
30.always making noise in the class
31.one of the best student
32.joy giver
33.always playing
34.always reading
35.love listening to music especially kpop
36.picture addict
37.smilling keeper

Setting boundaries is not about being selfish or controlling it's about taking care of yourself and respecting your own need

What a powerful and thought-provoking statement! It highlights the hypocrisy and double standards that often exist in society.

It's indeed foolish to judge and criticize single women with kids, while praising one's own single mother for her strength and resilience. This contradiction reveals a lack of empathy, understanding, and self-awareness.

Your statement encourages us to reflect on our own biases and behaviors, and to treat others with the same kindness, respect, and admiration that we have for our own loved ones.

THE HIGH COST OF A FEW MINUTES OF PLEASURE

Why Sexual Discipline Is a Must for Every Man

Some men have destroyed their entire future for just a few minutes in bed.
Some have lost their money, health, focus, and even their lives—just because they couldn’t control their urges.

Lust is expensive—but many don’t realize the price until it’s too late.

If you think a little “fun” can’t ruin you, let me remind you:

Samson lost his strength to Delilah.

David risked his kingdom for Bathsheba.

Many great men have been reduced to nothing—all because of a few minutes of pleasure.

Oga, wake up before you become the next victim.

WHAT SEXUAL INDULGENCE WILL COST YOU

1. YOUR MONEY

Sex is not cheap—especially in today’s world.

One "babe" says, “I need urgent 2K.” You send it.

Another one says, “I need my hair done.” You pay.

Another one says, “My rent is due.” You cover it.

Before you know it, your bank account is dry—but guess what? The same women will leave you for the next man with more money.

Ask yourself:

How many successful men waste money on women before building themselves?

How many rich men spend recklessly on pleasure without making sure their empire is secured?

If money is power, why would you drain yourself just to impress someone who will forget you tomorrow?

Solution: Secure your finances before you secure a woman.

2. YOUR HEALTH

Casual sex comes with consequences.

STDs don’t care if you were just “having fun.”

Unwanted pregnancies don’t care if you were “not ready.”

Stress, anxiety, and emotional drama come as part of the package.

Many men have ruined their health chasing after pleasure.
From infections to lifelong regrets, the body always pays the price.

Solution: Control your body before it destroys you.

3. YOUR FOCUS & DISCIPLINE

Every time you chase pleasure, you waste:

Time you could use to build yourself.

Energy you could use to achieve success.

Discipline that makes you strong as a man.

Oga, the men at the top didn’t get there by chasing women all day.
They built themselves first—then women came as a result.

But many of you?

You are busy DMing women instead of learning skills.

You are on dating apps instead of reading books.

You are watching porn instead of working on your goals.

And then you wonder why life is hard.

Solution: Master your discipline, and success will follow.

4. YOUR REPUTATION

Men don’t respect weak men.
And nothing weakens a man more than being controlled by lust.

If you’re chasing every woman in town, people talk.

If you’re sleeping around recklessly, people notice.

If you’re addicted to sex and pleasure, people lose respect for you.

You may think nobody knows—but the streets are always watching.

And when real opportunities come, your bad reputation will close doors in your face.

Solution: Build a name that commands respect, not mockery.

5. YOUR DESTINY

History is full of men who had great potential but lost everything to women, sex, and pleasure.

Politicians destroyed by scandals.

Businessmen ruined by side chicks.

Athletes and celebrities who lost their wealth because they couldn’t control themselves.

For what? A few minutes of pleasure?

One bad decision can cost you your entire future.

Solution: Think long-term. Don’t let short-term pleasure destroy your lifetime success.

BOTTOM LINE: DISCIPLINE OR DESTRUCTION?

Sex isn’t bad—but lack of control will destroy you.

A moment of pleasure can cost you years of regret.

An undisciplined man will always be a slave to his desires.

If you can’t control your lust, someone else will control you through it.

The greatest men in history were masters of their discipline—not slaves to their desires.

So choose wisely:

Will you be strong enough to build your future?

Or will you waste it all for a few minutes of pleasure?

The choice is yours.

Victor Osimhen: I didn't walk out on my teammate Victor Boniface and some others out of disrespect; I was just frustrated after the final whistle.

“Victor Boniface tried to calm me down, but at that moment, I didn’t want to hear anything. I walked away not out of disrespect, but because I was hurting. I give it my all every time I step on that pitch, not just for myself, but for my team, for Nigeria, and for the fans who believe in us,” Osimhen revealed.

He continued, “We needed that win. We needed those points. Now, we have to fight even harder to qualify for the World Cup. It’s not over, but we can’t continue making the same mistakes. I just want us to be better, to do better, because Nigeria deserves nothing less.”

“I can’t lie; I was so frustrated. That match against Zimbabwe? We should have won it. We had the lead, we controlled the game, and then, just like that, we let it slip.

“When I scored, I felt relieved. I thought, ‘Yes, this is it. We’re taking the three points home.’ But football can be cruel. A last-minute equalizer, just seconds away from victory, shattered everything. The whistle blew, and I just couldn’t hold back my emotions at that moment,” He added.

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GOV ENO PAYS LAST RESPECT TO LATE BARR. BEN UDOWA

...describes him as a friend and man of many parts

Akwa Ibom State Governor, Pastor Umo Eno, has commiserated with Mrs Lydia Udowa and family on the demise of her husband, Late Barr Ben Udowa.

In a condolence message delivered to the deceased family during the funeral held at The Redeemed Christian Church of God, Region Region 49 Headquarters, Eket, Governor Eno said the loss of a spouse, especially at such a relatively young age, evokes a deep sense of grief, assuring them that the whole state share in their painful moment.

He described the late Barr Udonwa as a man of many parts, a financial services expert, lawyer, entrepreneur, philanthropist, mentor and a beloved community leader, adding that he had inspired many to chart a course of personal development and growth.

The Governor observed that the deceased successfully led his multidisciplinary group of companies, Madelyn Group, and served the State meritoriously until his sad passing as the Executive Director, Other Investments in the Akwa Ibom State Investment Corporation (AKICORP), and distinguished himself as a dependable and far-sighted member of the critical agency.

He noted that as a good friend, late Barr Udowa believed and supported him wholeheartedly, a gesture which culminated to his successful campaign and subsequent emergence as Governor of the State in the 2023 general elections.

The State Chief Executive therefore urged the bereaved family to take solace in the fact that despite his short sojourn on earth, he was able to record a lot of impactful achievements, touched many lives and lived a life defined by Christian virtues, and prayed God to rest the soul of the departed.

The wife of the deceased, Mrs Lydia Udowa, thanked the Governor for leading State government functionaries to give her late husband the last respect, saying that the family is grateful for the gesture.

Mrs Udowa spoke of her late husband as a good and humble man, saying, "from the huge pouring of condolences from groups and individuals, my husband has been described as an exceptional man of great virtue."

Media Unit
Government House, Uyo
28/3/25

Steve Mandanda has made 831 professional appearances in his career.

His senior career started in 2004 and he's still going strong, playing for Ligue 1 club Rennes.

Today, he turns 40. Respect.

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It's not about who wants you but it's

About who values and respects you

Go where your attention is needed if not, the disrespect will be spelt out to you in bold letters .