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Don't call her your woman until you officially marry her...

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My neighbor begged me to lend him 10k to give his girlfriend to fix her phone. I asked him;

" why don't you tell your girlfriend that you are broke and can't afford 10k at the moment?"

He replied that he don't want her to be angry and dump him

His answer was too funny to me, after laughing out loud , I simply told him that I don't have 10k to give him.

He left with annoyance and I could see disappointments written on his face.

When he left, I pondered on this and asked some rhetorical questions;

Let's assume that my girlfriend is broke and couldn't fix her phone, then I couldn't help her fix it because I am also broke.

Why would she be angry with me for being broke when she is also broke ?

Why should my own brokenness give her serious concern when she should concentrate on solving hers?

Is she indirectly blaming me for being the cause of her brokenness simply because I am her boyfriend?

If she can't endure with me in my temporal brokenness, how will she be able to face marital challenges with me in the future?

Being broke doesn't automatically make you a poor man. There is nothing wrong with you for being broke even billionaires experience brokenness once in a while .

It is not something you should be ashamed of. The reasons you ventured into a committed relationship are; to check your compatibilities, to test her loyalty and sincerity and to make her know your dons and don'ts Her characters will determine where to place her; whether she belongs to the streets or to be domesticated.

Yes, we are meant to help ourselves but not to your own detriments.

At this stage, she is not yet your responsibility. Whatever you are doing for her is a PRIVILEGE not her RIGHT .

Any woman whom you have not officially married, is not your woman. Don't call her your woman until you pay her bride price because she still have right to flirt with other men without breaking any law.

Don't allow her problems to cause you headache when you have yours.

. Assist her if you can but don't put yourself into debts to impress her

Money can't keep her, . Your sacrifices are nothing to her, women are loyal to their feelings and their feelings are unstable

Stop running helter skelter to help her, she will still dump you without having a second thought.
Be wise
Don't looseguard.

Divorce may give you the freedom you want, but co-parenting will give your children the protection they need.

AN KARRAMA FAUZIYYA D. SULEIMAN DA LAMBAR YABO TA PANDORA A MATSAYIN: "WADDA TA FI TAIMAKON AL’UMMA A 2024"

Shahararriyar mai fafutukar tallafawa al’umma mabuƙata, kuma fitacciyar marubuciya a masana’antar Kannywood, Fauziyya D. Sulaiman ta samu lambar yabo ta (Pandora Award), a matsayin: "Wadda Ta Fi Taimakon Al’umma," (Best Community Impact Award).

A ranar Laraba, 15 ga watan Janairu, 2025 aka gudanar da babban taron ba da lambobin yabon a Luxurian Event Centre da ke No. 19 Giɗaɗo Road, Kano.

Bikin ba da lambobin yabon wanda ke zaman karo na shida a bana, ya zaƙulo muhimman mutane da suka yi fice a fannoni daban-daban, inda Fauziyya ta samu nasarar shiga a bana domin yaba wa da ƙara mata ƙarfin gwiwa kan ayyukan da ta ke yi. Yanzu haka ita ce mataimakiya ta musamman ga gwamnan Jihar Kano kan harkokin jinƙai da taimakon al’umma.

Words of wisdom

"Chase your sunshine, dance in the rain, and find beauty in the storms; for life's journey is where growth and wisdom reside."

Even when you have doubts, take that step. Take chances. Mistakes are never a failure, they can be turned into wisdom.

Even when you have doubts, take that step. Take chances. Mistakes are never a failure, they can be turned into wisdom.

Wisdom and understanding can only become the possession of individual men by travelling the old road of observation, attention, perseverance, and industry.