Don't call her your woman until you officially marry her...

Men
My neighbor begged me to lend him 10k to give his girlfriend to fix her phone. I asked him;

" why don't you tell your girlfriend that you are broke and can't afford 10k at the moment?"

He replied that he don't want her to be angry and dump him

His answer was too funny to me, after laughing out loud , I simply told him that I don't have 10k to give him.

He left with annoyance and I could see disappointments written on his face.

When he left, I pondered on this and asked some rhetorical questions;

Let's assume that my girlfriend is broke and couldn't fix her phone, then I couldn't help her fix it because I am also broke.

Why would she be angry with me for being broke when she is also broke ?

Why should my own brokenness give her serious concern when she should concentrate on solving hers?

Is she indirectly blaming me for being the cause of her brokenness simply because I am her boyfriend?

If she can't endure with me in my temporal brokenness, how will she be able to face marital challenges with me in the future?

Being broke doesn't automatically make you a poor man. There is nothing wrong with you for being broke even billionaires experience brokenness once in a while .

It is not something you should be ashamed of. The reasons you ventured into a committed relationship are; to check your compatibilities, to test her loyalty and sincerity and to make her know your dons and don'ts Her characters will determine where to place her; whether she belongs to the streets or to be domesticated.

Yes, we are meant to help ourselves but not to your own detriments.

At this stage, she is not yet your responsibility. Whatever you are doing for her is a PRIVILEGE not her RIGHT .

Any woman whom you have not officially married, is not your woman. Don't call her your woman until you pay her bride price because she still have right to flirt with other men without breaking any law.

Don't allow her problems to cause you headache when you have yours.

. Assist her if you can but don't put yourself into debts to impress her

Money can't keep her, . Your sacrifices are nothing to her, women are loyal to their feelings and their feelings are unstable

Stop running helter skelter to help her, she will still dump you without having a second thought.
Be wise
Don't looseguard.

There is a strange emptiness I feel
Something that makes me think
That breaking up with you was
The biggest mistake of my life
Sorry I know you have moved on
I was just expressing my heart
Have a great day today
Wishing you a very Happy Birthday!

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Kanayo O. Kanayo expresses concern about how Nigerians have treated the Fish Pie seller:

"Nigerians have a way of lifting someone today and abandoning them tomorrow. This young Fish Pie seller became popular after being discovered online. Many supported him initially, featuring him in skits and helping him gain attention. However, it's heartbreaking to hear that he is now facing hardship after being used and abandoned.

To everyone who has benefited from or worked with the Fish Pie seller, please step up and support him during this difficult time. Let's help him bounce back."

Breaking up with you is not easy
But I have to do it for you
I wish you well in whatever you do
I wish you well for everything
I had enough of love with you
I have lost that faith in you
Goodbye from me to you!

I do not trust you anymore
I had given you reasons to choose
But your perspective was different
You chose your happiness all the way
Leaving no room for me to stay
I am breaking up with you
Goodbye from me to you!

Here are some motivational topic ideas to inspire and uplift:

Personal Growth
1. *Believe in Yourself*: Overcoming self-doubt and building confidence.
2. *Resilience*: Bouncing back from setbacks and failures.
3. *Goal Setting*: Creating a roadmap for success.
4. *Embracing Change*: Adapting to new situations and challenges.
5. *Self-Care*: Prioritizing mental and physical well-being.

Productivity and Success
1. *Time Management*: Maximizing productivity and efficiency.
2. *Overcoming Procrastination*: Breaking down barriers to success.
3. *Building a Growth Mindset*: Embracing challenges and learning from failures.
4. *Networking*: Building relationships and opportunities.
5. *Staying Motivated*: Maintaining momentum and enthusiasm.

Leadership and Inspiration
1. *Leading by Example*: Inspiring others through action and integrity.
2. *Empowering Others*: Building confidence and capability in those around you.
3. *Visionary Thinking*: Creating a compelling vision for the future.
4. *Inspirational Storytelling*: Sharing experiences and lessons learned.

You have no right to ask me why I am breaking
Up with you,
Coz if you ask the same question to your heart
You will get all the answers you expect from me
There was no love left between us
And it was getting tough each day being with you
Longing for that love which was missing
A final goodbye from my side!

I do not want to leave you but I will have to
We are just not meant to be
We do not have a way to say
I think it would be the best
If we leave it this way and
Move on with things we wish for
It is a final goodbye from my side
As I am breaking up with you!