Took me a while but I realized what triggers my toxicity. It’s DISRESPECT! I can be cool , the life of the party , I can get a long with everybody all day and night but the one thing that destroys my internal peace is being disrespected. I know I’m a good woman.I know I’m too nice , too cool , and way to sweet so when I’m disrespected my mouth is lethal because what you put in is what you get outta me .. However I’m working on that . Know your triggers and stay away from the people, places, or things that bring them to the forefront.