WHEN YOU GO INTO COURTSHIP....

The first thing you should talk about is your vision.

Marriage becomes boring when there is nothing tangible to talk about.

You are not going to be cooking and having sex 24\7.

You have a strong desire to succeed and that success is hidden in your God-given vision -your destiny.

What exactly is your vision?

Where are you going in life?

What do you want to be known for?

Okonjo Iweala is known as the Director General of WTO.

Donald Trump is now the President of the United States.

Sinach is known for Gospel songs.

Evangelist Mike Bamiloye is known for Mount Zion films.

Peter Obi is aspiring for Presidency in 2027.

Dangote is known as a business guru.

Adichie Chimamada Ngozi is known as good novelist.

Bishop Oyedepo is known as a great man of faith.

Pastor Chris is known for healing streams.

Veekee James is known as a fashion Icon.

What exactly do you want to be known for?

Where are you heading in life?

Until you know it, you are not qualified for marriage.

Your marriage will be boring, cold, distant, depressive and full of criticism because there won't be anything tangible to discuss with your spouse except daily complaint about things that are not working in your life!

No one wants to live with a critic and nag!

Eventually, they move away from you first emotionally, then sexually then physically.

The sex you thought will gum you together will further tear you apart.

So if all you are doing in courtship now is having sex instead of talking about your vision, you are heading for marital disaster.

No one succeeds by accident!

You dream it, talk it and act it.

Dream it while single. Talk it while courting. Act it when married.

I hope you understand?

Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

© Seun Oladele.