If there is any gender that is selfish, it is the vąęgyna gender. Take it or leave it. Weemen are only concerned about how you (their man) make them feel. They don't care about how you the man feels, or what you go through to make them feel good. They just enjoy the feeling, and accusing you for not being caring and romantic when you don't keep up with it at that high level of consistency. To further show you how selfish they are... after you have gone the extra mile to please them, broken your back and emptied your account to provide something for them... The moment they begin to have mood swings, they will start asking you "what have you ever done for me?"... not minding how you will feel about that. You can imagine that after someone has given up his pleasures and comfort to put your interest before his... you open up your mouth and ask him, "what have you ever done for me?" She will even bring up several other minor and trivial things you refused to do... and the reason why you didn't do them is because you needed to channel that funds, time, energy or other resources to bigger and more important things that will even benefit her more. She will forget the big things you did and dwell on the irrelevant things you did not do... bruising your ego even more, and not giving a fvck how you feel, as long as she feels good saying them, all in the name of she's trying to express herself. Bro! I remind you again to NEVER take weemen seriously. Love your whoman, respect her, protect and provide for her. But, ✅ Always put yourself, your mission, your vision and your goals FIRST And then... you can carry her along. Don't overplay your role and don't keel yourself to please her... cos 95% of the time, she doesn't care. She is selfish. And the best way to level things up is for you to be selfish too. And of course, to be selfish means putting your Purpose above her. Remember... Your Purpose is your soul mate, not your whoman. Your whoman can leave you at any time, but your Purpose lives and d!es with you. Copied ✍️