I'm che@ting on my husband and I don't feel guilty about it. Not one bit. Maybe I should, but I don't. Let me explain. I met my husband back in my 200 level days. It was love at first sight, or so I thought. He was in 300 level, and the connection was instant. We became inseparable, dating all through my university years until he graduated. Life happened, though. After his graduation, we lost touch, but fate wasn't done with us. Four years after I graduated, we reunited on Facebook like long-lost soulmates. At the time, I was in a relationship and so was he. But our spark reignited and in no time, we both broke things off with our partners to give our love another shot. At least I did and I believed him when he said he had ended things too. The next few months were magical. We were like love struck teenagers. Our relationship was so good, so much so that he proposed, and I said yes. Fast forward two years into our marriage, and I find myself in a new relationship. I don't even know how it happened but my new love makes my heart race in ways my husband never could. I can't go a day without hearing his voice; it's like air to me. My husband is always busy at work, leaving me with plenty of time to nurture this other connection. I am not working at the moment, so my husband takes care of all my needs financially. But all the money he gives me ends up being spent on this new guy. I buy him clothes, gifts, and even food when he's hungry because he doesn't have a job. Yet, no matter what I do, he never shows any appreciation. I have never gotten a thank you from him before. One time, I bought him expensive shoes. Guess what he did? He refused to wear them and even threw them back in my face. The one that shocked me was when I took him out to eat at a fast-food restaurant while my husband was at work. After ordering food, I tried to feed him in public, you know public display of affection is one of my love languages but he sl@pped the food out of my hand—right there in public! He pointed at my bre@sts & literally grabbed them. He loves my breasts more than anything else in the world. That's how I had no choice but to open my bra & breastfeed my 1 year old son right there in the middle of the eatery. Yes, I love my son more than I could ever love anyone, even my husband. And honestly, I think my husband feels the same way about him. So, technically, it's not che@ting. 😜😜😜