"I had to resign from my job when i was pregnant with my second child due to complications during pregnancy i had foot oedema i could barely walk or stand up.

"I am fine now and my baby is now 7months old ,l have been home for year now and I am yet to get another job offer. My parents suggested that i come and work in another state which is about 8hours from where i stay with my husband.

"My husband said he is against long distance marriage. My parents keep pressuring me now I'm at the middle l'm confused. Please how do you suggest i handle it. My mum keep disturbing me with calls and talks and that men do change that love has covered my eyes but I haven't..." - A mother of two seeks advice as she faces pressure from her mother, advising her to go against her husband's wishes to relocate to another state for job-hunting.