"My pastor warned me to stop allowing my husband touch me untill he gets a job. He does not like my husband and this my pastor is like a father to me. My husband is good and struggling.

"Yesterday on my way back from work I saw my husband doing conkeri work, he was carrying block and sands in a building close by i cried my eyes out. He got home with the money and gave me. I refused. My pastor said that he needs to keep doing it. I am confused because...." - A Nigerian woman opens up on a challenging dilemma between her pastor’s advice and her husband’s efforts to provide for their family.