Let me correct some impression here:
1) people say "Call those who call you, visit those who visit you, forget those who forget you".
It is not applied in all aspects . You might feel someone is avoiding or ignoring you, not knowing the person is facing life challenges. When someone ignores or avoids you, try and reach the person to know what's the problem
2) Another statement people make is "You owe no one anything. That's also wrong.
You owe some people loyalty, care and gratitude. People that helped you in life, maybe in school, helped you get a job or fix somethings for you. You either owe them gratitude, loyalty or care .
3) Another statement people make is "Don't put all your eggs in one basket.
That's how most girls end up dating many men but at the end of the day, non of those men gets serious.
It's better to date one at a time then use your brain. Dating one person is time, efforts and emotions consuming. Imagine dating many men at a time. Huh!
4) Another statement people make is "Opportunity comes but once" .
I don't believe in such ideology. Opportunities comes everyday but sometimes our eyes are not opened to see. Don't believe in opportunities comes but once. When one door shuts down, go out and you will see other opportunities.
5) Another statement people make is "God hates divorce"
Because of this statement, many people are stuck in abusive Relationship.
God hates Divorced, but when it involves your life , separate and stay alone for your safety
6) Another statement people make is "If you leave your abusive husband, another woman will come and enjoy your sweat"
My sister , it's a lie. Na who live dey enjoy her sweat. When it gets abusive, run!
7) Another statement people make is "If they leave another person will come"
Please when they leave , make sure it's not your bad character that is chasing them away. Else they will continue to leave because no one likes a toxic person
1) people say "Call those who call you, visit those who visit you, forget those who forget you".
It is not applied in all aspects . You might feel someone is avoiding or ignoring you, not knowing the person is facing life challenges. When someone ignores or avoids you, try and reach the person to know what's the problem
2) Another statement people make is "You owe no one anything. That's also wrong.
You owe some people loyalty, care and gratitude. People that helped you in life, maybe in school, helped you get a job or fix somethings for you. You either owe them gratitude, loyalty or care .
3) Another statement people make is "Don't put all your eggs in one basket.
That's how most girls end up dating many men but at the end of the day, non of those men gets serious.
It's better to date one at a time then use your brain. Dating one person is time, efforts and emotions consuming. Imagine dating many men at a time. Huh!
4) Another statement people make is "Opportunity comes but once" .
I don't believe in such ideology. Opportunities comes everyday but sometimes our eyes are not opened to see. Don't believe in opportunities comes but once. When one door shuts down, go out and you will see other opportunities.
5) Another statement people make is "God hates divorce"
Because of this statement, many people are stuck in abusive Relationship.
God hates Divorced, but when it involves your life , separate and stay alone for your safety
6) Another statement people make is "If you leave your abusive husband, another woman will come and enjoy your sweat"
My sister , it's a lie. Na who live dey enjoy her sweat. When it gets abusive, run!
7) Another statement people make is "If they leave another person will come"
Please when they leave , make sure it's not your bad character that is chasing them away. Else they will continue to leave because no one likes a toxic person
Let me correct some impression here:
1) people say "Call those who call you, visit those who visit you, forget those who forget you".
It is not applied in all aspects . You might feel someone is avoiding or ignoring you, not knowing the person is facing life challenges. When someone ignores or avoids you, try and reach the person to know what's the problem
2) Another statement people make is "You owe no one anything. That's also wrong.
You owe some people loyalty, care and gratitude. People that helped you in life, maybe in school, helped you get a job or fix somethings for you. You either owe them gratitude, loyalty or care .
3) Another statement people make is "Don't put all your eggs in one basket.
That's how most girls end up dating many men but at the end of the day, non of those men gets serious.
It's better to date one at a time then use your brain. Dating one person is time, efforts and emotions consuming. Imagine dating many men at a time. Huh!
4) Another statement people make is "Opportunity comes but once" .
I don't believe in such ideology. Opportunities comes everyday but sometimes our eyes are not opened to see. Don't believe in opportunities comes but once. When one door shuts down, go out and you will see other opportunities.
5) Another statement people make is "God hates divorce"
Because of this statement, many people are stuck in abusive Relationship.
God hates Divorced, but when it involves your life , separate and stay alone for your safety
6) Another statement people make is "If you leave your abusive husband, another woman will come and enjoy your sweat"
My sister , it's a lie. Na who live dey enjoy her sweat. When it gets abusive, run!
7) Another statement people make is "If they leave another person will come"
Please when they leave , make sure it's not your bad character that is chasing them away. Else they will continue to leave because no one likes a toxic person
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